Ok this is going to sound bad. I chase and chase this guy and when he gives me something in return I don't want it..And some would call it that whole you want what you can't have till you have it.which may be true ..but theres more...He only really looks good when I am drunk.other than that I always see flaws in him.I hate his laugh but I'll look at him and tell him I love it..I tell him I love having sex but truth be known its the worst ever! He's to over weight but I tell him he carries it good.I know what a man wants to hear and I tell it to him perfectly.. I even started going for the sae NFL team as him. All comes down to this..he is scared to be with me because he says he doesn't want to mess anything up with us...I think I f-ed myself on this one. Its like I just want him to say I love you ..so I can in return say thank god f- you dude and F all the crap I had to deal with and how he's not worth it....i was inlove with him but he destroyed my heart..no I want to hurt him back!
2007-11-25 18:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know I am wrong and all that but I don't know how to move on without hurting him first
2007-11-25 18:19:50 · update #1
I even all his friends and family loving me. but I know 100% I will never be in a relationship with him..
2007-11-25 18:20:46 · update #2
Because maybe I do want to be with him a little ..but its like im sooo pissed at the same time.
2007-11-25 18:24:22 · update #3
I know I am not perfect..but its just he thinks he is everything..and has a HUGE EGO ISSUE..and has hurt and cheated on so many girls because of it.
2007-11-25 18:25:46 · update #4
You are not alone. A lot of people get caught up in a situation like this, but what you need to do is be straight forward with him. Break it off as gently as you can, but do it right away. He is not the guy for you. Get out there and find someone who really makes you feel like the way you tell him he makes you feel. You deserve that and so does he. Good Luck.....:)
2007-11-25 18:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want to be the one who gives his big ego a burst. I really do not understand why you are putting this much time and effort into a relationship that you want to create to destroy, You kind of remind me of someone setting up dominoes in a very large pattern who has the anticipation of knocking them down, cuz it is fun to watch. I do have one question for you. Do you feel like you deserve the truth and love from someone who can give you those things? Call it Karma, reaping what you sew, or what ever, but what goes around comes around. Be careful.
2007-11-25 19:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by booper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sara, you started out saying that you were this evil person and the guy you ran after, you didn't really want. Now that he has dumped you, you want to get back at him, hurt him for hurting you and yet, you hate the way he looks, the way he have sex ect... you pretended to be someone that you really was not in order to get him, now you want him back so you can hurt him. I think you need help. I'm not being mean, I think that there is something really destroying you inside and there's a reason you are this way. if you didn't want him, then let it go. It seem as if the ugly ducky knew how to play you 1st. He's won, let it go!!!
2007-11-25 18:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to move on... and if you have bad thoughts about someone, perhaps it's best to avoid these types in the future.
Dont' be cruel or mean.... just because you don't like another person's weight or laugh.... it's not right.. You're not perfect either... and it's quite obvious from this nasty question you asked.
Gather your dignity, act like a lady and move forward...
2007-11-25 18:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it sounds bad.
You need to move on without hurting him. I know he hurt you, but the best "revenge" is just moving on and living a good life without the one who hurt you. You're wasting time that you could be using to find a good man you would want to be with, trying to make someone who "isn't worth it" miserable. Don't stoop to the level he did when he hurt you. Be the better person, hold your head high, and just WALK AWAY.
You flattering him...even if you are lying...isn't helping his ego problem either!
2007-11-25 18:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to hurt him back, you are going about it the right way.
When you have had enough you'll stop .. but remember one big thing ...... karma is a b*tch .. so I'd tread lightly and stop real quick!
2007-11-25 18:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your mad at him for hurting you, but yet your willing to lower yourself to his standards to be just like him. Be the bigger person and walk away. Two wrongs don't make it right.
2007-11-25 18:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by dcdaniel1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You`re just telling about a situation ur in, basically, what is your question?
2007-11-25 18:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by flamingo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What goes around comes back around. You are sick and you need a shrink.
2007-11-25 18:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yikes. you've got some serious shiiiiiit to straighten up in your head.
2007-11-25 18:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋