2007-11-25 18:36:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have gone through all your questions leading you to ask this one. Your marriage is only 4 months old & out of these 4 months you both are fighting for 2 months. This shows non compatibility between both of you. In the mean time your Ex-boy friend is having desperate time without you & is in contact with you. Both these issues are unable to settle you in this matrimonial alliance. Now you think about dissolving this marriage by divorce & asking its implications afterwards. As far in India you cannot apply for divorce within first year of marriage. Secondly incase there exist special circumstances with regard exceptional hardship to the petitioner or of exceptional depravity on the part of the respondent, on an application to the High court you can get an order to dissolve your marriage within first year of marriage. The best or the easiest way to get divorce in India is by filling joint petition for divorce by mutual consent by both the parties & getting decree of divorce anytime between 6 to 18 months. Usually the decree of divorce in such cases is given in 6 months time period. As far once you both get divorce the question of any legal right on each other is not there & there exist no question of your husband harming you in any manner as you both are free & independent person. As far life after divorce will be a life of freedom where you can do or meet anyone you like & even marry as you wish anytime after the decree of divorce has been finalized & appeal period of one month has been passed. This is the brief with regard to legal position as far divorce in India is concerned. Have a frank talk with your husband with regard to this issue & make your mind to move the petition of divorce now or after completion of one year as you feel comfortable. In case you move this petition now, you have to get an order from the High Court for granting you this leave/privilege to move this petition of divorce now within the one year of this marriage.
2007-11-25 20:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Divorce in India is probably themost toughest to get - cases run anywhere in the range of a minimum 4years to 18/19years.
For an Indian man its stress free life back to freedom where he can go and enjoy and taste other fruits during the divorce and once its over he will get another virgin to share his life.
For an Indian Woman the society will look at her as a prostitute who got married for a short while to take care of her sexual pleasures and then seek the service charges of her hole as Alimony or Maintenance (encouraged fully to seek charges like a prostitute by her own parents and family and her lawyer) all through the divorce and after it she will at the maximum get another divorcee or a widower who marry to look for a maid to take care of his kids or to an OLD Man who is looking for a Nurse to wash his **** when he is old!!!
Why should he harm you?? He would get a free sadistic pleasure of seeing you get ruined converting from a good wife during married life to a prostitute during the divorce and then to a maid or a nurse after a divorce!!!
Sorry for my sarcastic reply!! Do not believe your lawyer or your family!! Avoid Divorce!! A Divorce is never in the best of the welfare of a WOMAN even if she is gets the service charges for her holes usage.
Do not make yourself a prostitute hearing stories of some feminists - remember no feminist has had a decent married life and so envy's women who are married and try to instigate and encourage women to divorce attracting them by some false claims of WOMEN WELFARE!!!
Do not listen to your lawyer - they would look at you only as a source of income for atleast the next couple of years.
Do not trust your parents all they would show some drama of supporting you or prestige/honour instead they would be looking at some revenue from the service charges u derive after a divorce to cater to their needs a few years later you woudl be left to fend yourself!!! If your parents really look at your benifit they will never support you to divorce they will force you. You brother never!!
All this unless your hubby and his family doesn't force you to pay for the service charges of his pole.
You would be happier with your husband in the long run!!!
2007-11-27 07:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy by mutual consent.
if not
Ground for divorce must be concrete
the life after divorce is not good after the age of 50 yrs.
2007-11-25 22:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a wonderful life after divorce. It's called STRESS FREE LIFE. If he tries to harm you tell him that you will shoot his camel!
2007-11-25 20:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, I don't know the answer......
Joy to you!
2007-11-25 20:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋