If a person is married but find themselves attracted to another person, and have flings with another other than their spouse, but they still love their spouse dearly, do you think it is wrong or just human nature
2007-11-25 17:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and how many who said it was wrong can honestly say they have never done it or been tempted?
2007-11-25 18:21:19 · update #1
p.s I dont cheat on my wife after 11 years I was just curious because she has done it to me
2007-11-25 18:22:20 · update #2
to leatherstoheather
your girlfriend braided it for me
2007-11-25 18:30:56 · update #3
not one time do i say I cheat on my wife so that just shows how people read into things
2007-11-25 18:33:20 · update #4
never mind....knowing how jealous i am......and it would suck if the person i was married to had thing for someone else
2007-11-25 18:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong but it's human nature. A lot of women don't like to admit, but we find ourselves attracted to other males every now and then. That doesn't mean we go and have sex with them though, we have our boundaries. If this person loved their wife as dearly as he THINKS he does, he wouldn't even think about other women. That's only when it's real love though, not when you're used to being around the same person for 5+years. Do some soul searching. Do you really want to keep going on with this and hurt the woman you say you love?
2007-11-26 02:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All humans find themselves attracted to other people,and always will. While this is fun and games if you are single, once that band is on your hand, you have made a special vow to your spouse. Remember how that went? Forsaking all others, only unto him or her til death do us part. Any time you share an intimacy with someone else, mental, emotional, or physical, you are breaking this very heart of your marriage. It is human nature to eliminate body waste also, but not in the middle of a side-walk. Need I say more?
2007-11-26 02:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by older is wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not human nature, maybe a animal behavior, but we are human--therefore we can control our actions.
You are being dishonest to your spouse if you cheat, and it is always wrong to destroy the trust someone has in you.
I may be a little old fashion to many people, but when I found out an employee was cheating on their spouse, I let them go.
If they broke the trust of someone they loved, they sure would do the same to my company. I expect people to be honest, and I demand it from my family and in all my business dealings.
If someone wants to play the field, the honest thing is to get a divorce before they play the field.
2007-11-26 02:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay to promise your spouse you're not going to be with anyone else, then have a fling.
It's wrong to lie, even if lying is human nature.
2007-11-26 02:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having flings with someone other than the person that you area married to is called Adultery. It is wrong to that to the person that you made vows to, not just human nature.
2007-11-26 02:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Doodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still wrong. Just because you still love that person doesn't justify that cheating on them is okay.
I don't think it's human nature to cheat on your spouse; I think it's just lack of common sense, lack of morals, lack of communication within a marriage... basically lack of a ton of things.. rather then human nature.
2007-11-26 02:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's wrong...someone can argue that it is human nature to be attracted to another person other than their spouse, but you cross the line when you act out those feelings.
marriage is a serious thing!
2007-11-26 02:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by popofosho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage vows and love and desision to not allow the mind to be weak is the only thing thats stops us from doing what is natural. I have been tempted ... fallen and will be tempted again. is infelity wrong.... heck yes!
2007-11-26 02:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature especially for men. Men are genetically predisposed to propigate the species. It is harder for them to commit to a single person. All that being said, it's not right and hurts the other person, so stop.
2007-11-26 02:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is definitely wrong to have flings on the side when you are married. If you don't think so tell your wife and see what she thinks.
2007-11-26 02:03:09 · answer #11 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋