well i usually am the one that people come to for advice and i most allways have the rite thing to tell them, but i am the one that needs the advice this go round. i cant figure out what to do or say to this girl that i am trying to get back together with. we have been talking about it and we both think that we should give it another chance but she just says that she needs some time to put herself back together from the relationship she just got out of like two monthes ago. well i am in no way trying to rush her in to falling back in love with me but i want to help her in any way i can. but i need to know what to say and what to do. i hate to say it but it seams as though i have run out of advice and i need yours, so please help.
2007-11-25 14:52:57 · 2 answers · asked by get er done 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I'd give her the space she needs, just let her know you're there and want to continue to be there. Place a single red rose on her doorstep...write a short note: I'm thinking of you and hope your day goes well..." -It's the little stuff like that that matters, that keeps people together loving. I had a wonderful man do that for me...it was wonderful, as he was...
Time is something very hard for each of us to allow another, but it is, most important in the healing process, in the thinking and reflecting process of life. Don't be afraid to let some pass before you two reunite, if you do.
If you two are meant to be, you will be...it is, that simple.
Goodluck dear...Sure know how you feel...
Grace
2007-11-25 14:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs a friend now or someone to talk to, maybe she's going through a rough patch right now, don't rush into anything yet, just be there for her, and make sure your there to pick up the pieces when she falls apart!! if and when she's ready to have relationship with you, then go from there!!
2007-11-25 15:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋