but he ripped it out and totally rejected me and my love. I gave him everything I have and all my life but he does not want me. Now I want to forget him but the truth is, im still in love with him and can't forget him. How do I forget him???
2007-11-25 13:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by lukez_gal<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always hard. Give yourself some time. Do stuff to get preoccupied. get into a healthy hobby. Don't do anything rash. If you need to talk to someone, tell a trusted school counselor, family friend or just friend. There's different ways that people cope, find yours. Some like to grieve alone, some like to be surrounded by friends and family and people they like. Find what works best and know that life has to go on.
2007-11-25 13:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long it has been, but there is a good chance that within the next 3 months you will learn to live with it and move on. The best solution is often to be active and go out with friends. When you don't have a lot of time on your hands it is hard to dwell on your feelings. In time the pain will become dulled. I do have to say though, that for some of us when we lose someone there is always a dull emptyness. I guess because we just can't trust as much and make that deep a connection again, fearing to be hurt.
2007-11-25 13:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just move on. Dont speak about him. Meet new people and start dating. In due time, you will find happiness. We have all been in this situation and we have all found new loves. You will too. Keep your head up!
Here a hint, remind yourself of all the negativity he has caused you. How he hurt you so much and then remind yourself that you deserve better. Why waste time on a guy who rejected you and broke your heart. Its not worth it.
2007-11-25 13:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by xoangeleyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, you're probably never going to forget him. The negative feelings towards him will pass with time, though.
2007-11-25 13:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Лизочка 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You won't ever forget him, but hopefully with each passing day, you will heal from the pain. Love can be a very painful experience, but you will learn from it, heal and move on. Good luck!
2007-11-25 13:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by curvygal31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, give your love not your heart which must be too precious to lend to anybody; i am an old guy now with a withered heart; I lent it to too many girls and each time i had to 'mend' it
2007-11-25 13:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by dayapin39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i so feel you.
its been months and i still cant get *him* out of my head
even though i have a boyfriend now, and am crazy about him.
but what i did, was just erase him from my life.
dont talk to him.
delete his number, instant messenger, myspace, EVERYTHING.
start thinking about other things. your family.
read more
listen to music
just avoid thoughts of him, completely.
2007-11-25 13:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go party try to forget because that pain doesnt go away easily
2007-11-25 13:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with someone else.
2007-11-25 13:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the truth and burn everthing that reminds u of him or delite it
2007-11-25 13:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by whhs2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋