So, I met a girl last night, she was with a friend. we hung out for 3hrs and kissed goodnight. She stayed the night at her friends place. She lives 90mins away and she drove home today. we texted good night at 2am this morning. I don't want to ignore her tonight, but i also don't want to come off needy calling too early...so what's a good suggestion?
2007-11-25 11:57:24 · 23 answers · asked by 33ea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
text her. don't call, text so if she's busy she can ignore it and if she's not she can text or call back.
2007-11-25 12:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by ReaRea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her on Monday night. Then it's not too soon, and not too late. Believe me when I say, chicks are always put off by a guy who doesn't call within a few days. So don't listen to your guy friends when they tell you to wait four days or a week or whatever. That's a letdown to the girl if you wait a long time - it will make her think you're not into her. If you like someone, then why wait to get things going? If I were the girl, and just met a guy over the weekend I really liked, I'd be going insane if I didn't hear from him within a few days. Monday night is perfect amount of time.
2007-11-25 12:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by jbscout1912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.. did you come off as needy at all when you were hanging out with her? If it's clear that you're not needy, I recommend calling the next day or the same night and just being a cool guy. This is what most of the dating/relationship gurus say on the subject (see www.theattractionforums.com)
2007-11-25 12:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by angelos447 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with calling her tonight. Just to say hello, and that you hope she made it home OK. Tell her you enjoyed meeting her and say that you hope you can see her again. Keep it short. Try to set a date for coffee, or lunch during the week. keep it simple and easy. Remember you just met her yes it's true that she may not like, but then again you may not care for her once you get to know her. Play it easy and listen to you heart. There are no real rules that say when you can and can't call. You'll know if she is interested or not. Good Luck and say relaxed.
2007-11-25 12:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by sendittojeff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 days is good. but 3 days is kinda money. What I say is shoot her a text or two through the week. Ask her what she's up to for next weekend. And call her Thursday to make plans for the weekend.
2007-11-25 12:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Doubledown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always nice if the two of you share an attraction,...then calling the next day to communicate that fact.....is a good idea. This act will not keep her hanging and wondering where she stands...and it will reinforce for you, that she is just as interested in you, as you are in her. When you call...it might be a good idea to arrange your next meeting too.
2007-11-25 12:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by kittylovergalore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait at least 2 to 3 days so u dont seem desperate and when u call her make sure u have a plan for a date or if u want to ask her out so that it is easy and quick but be flexable with her schedule too
2007-11-25 12:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her right now before the the Patriots beat Phili, and have a nice lite conversation with her.
2007-11-25 12:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monday night
2007-11-25 12:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by rfmush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she texts u, ask her to give u a call. things will progress from there more naturally than u would expect. Don't worry, be happy!
2007-11-25 12:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by DrinKingSage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tuesday.
2007-11-25 12:00:04 · answer #11 · answered by Bob H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋