Boyfriend Confusion!?

Question

I have a really sweet boyfriend who would do anything for me.
I'm still in high school and not ready to have sex until I am in love.
He isn't a virgin, and I know he would never pressure me, but we're in a rut. We have done sexual things but nothing as risky as to cause an accidental pregnancy.
I trust him, but I need something to happen soon. I need things to get taken to some kind of new level.
He doesn't know how I feel. I've texted him to call me after work. How should I go about telling him my feelings?

Answer 1

Being honest. The thing people never really understand is that if this person GENUINLY loves you, and you ACTUALLY believe it, a very interesting thing happens.

YOU CAN LOOK LIKE A COMPLETE FOOL AND THEY'LL STILL THINK YOUR CUTER THEN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD!!!!!

With that said, there is no reason you can't be honest about your feelings with him, which is the level your missing. Thinking its sex would destroy your relationship because sex is a tempary thing. Have you ever wondered WHY it is that when people have a GREAT sexual experience they need more of it? Thats right, sex is UNSATISFABLE!!! Theres no end to it, its something that once you start it, you better not stop because THAT becomes the relationship. So your thinking along the right lines is all I'm saying, PLUS you just need to honestly believe in your heart this guy geniune loves you, that way, you know, that even if you say something about your feelings that seems stupid, he'll think the world of it anyways. Besides if he doesn't he isn't worth your time.

HONESTY TEST THE RELATIONSHIP!

So test away hunnie, test away, or you'll never know.....