two days ago, my boyfriend and i had an argument because he asked me if it was ok to meet other people while still maintaining the relationship with me. he's 18 and a marine in florida for MOS and i'm 17 and still a junior in high school. we've been dating for a year and half, and he was my first and I was his first as well. basically the result ended in him deleting his myspace because he "didn't like the url and email it was under" sooo, yesterday he made another email, and i thought to myself how funny it would be if he had made another myspace... well he did, and had basically everything filled out, but his status remained "single". i confronted him about it, and he said he "forgot" [bs!] but then admitted that he did it on purpose because he didn't care and because it would give me the advantage. what was the supposed to mean? I feel disrespected, like he doesn’t even care about the relationship we have between us. What should I do?
2007-11-25 10:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Elaine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i do think it is wrong for your bf to put that on his myspace
2007-11-25 10:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by annmarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially since you've been dating so long, yes. If you were new, maybe, If you at any point agreed that you were seeing each other exclusively, it is absolutely wrong. It sounds like he if definately interested in seeing other people. He seems to still be in a huff, so you should give it a few days, then bring this up. explain to him that you feel disrespected, and just discuss this. You may end up breaking up, but it's got to be better to do so now than after he cheats.
2007-11-25 10:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by SarahC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely leave him. I know it sounds really hard to do but the guy is using myspace as another way to meet girls. That whole thing of forgetting he put his status as single is a complete load of crap. Its not worth it for you to worry about him. Go out and enjoy the rest of your high school experience. Your still young.
2007-11-25 10:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Eric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a simliar experience, what you gotta do is talk to your man. You have to explain to him what you are feeling, and if he still disrespects that, he better get his **** together soon. I realize you love him, but he is really being douchy. If it were me, I would tell him that he has to change is status, or you will make it true. If he loves you, he should respect you for that. I got my man to change his, but he ended up hating myspace and deleting it all. So I wish you luck, I hope it works for you!!!
2007-11-25 10:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by jakesangel07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe he did that!! No wonder he wasn't showing up on my top friends... Wow... he is really turning into a jerk... i can't tell you whether to say with him, or not... that is something you have to decide.... but i know that the boy we knew, is no longer there.... or maybe is just hiding somewhere deep down the marine costume he now has... *i hope that's it*
But either way... talk to him... and find out what he really wants.... but the choice is still yours sweetie.
Marines = Save the Nation...... * but turn to jerks while doing it, all i know is that he will soon snap out of it, or i wish... cause i know chris did!*
2007-11-25 13:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by wendy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe he is trying to tell you something........ i mean i know yall shared a lot but he is in flordia.... and he is a marine...... and him putting that he is single on a NEW myspace....... that either means he is cheating on you or thinking about cheating on you...... so i know that it will be hard but maybe you should just let him go..... like you said you are a junior in high school and i bet that there is a ton of hot guys at your school (because my school has all the ugly ones)........ Or maybe you should date one of his friends in the marines......
2007-11-25 10:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not a good sign. Either he is planning on cheating on your or he is thinking of breaking up with you. I'm sorry but it might be time to move on.
2007-11-25 10:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong for him to put single,bu let me tell you something just from experience.Even if he puts that he is in a relationship, girls will still talk to him.It is up to him to reject them.So your man has to have the discipline to say no to these girls regardless of what he puts on the profile.
2007-11-25 10:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by A.P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the sh*t right back to him. dont act like it bothers you, and make yours say single. nd if he asks about it, say oops i forgot. haha it would be funny. plus, you cant trust him if hes in the marines. i dont mean to lable them as cheaters, but hes already shown signs of it.
2007-11-25 10:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating on you with the animated dolphins on myspace
2007-11-25 10:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by seven twigs(go OIC!) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋