I am a single straight male who loves to crossdress...I pay my bills, I work hard, I help others, I am loyal and honest, and I try to do what is right...so why is it that someone like me cannot find a woman who can accept my need to be a crossdresser...??? and I have helped so many crossdressers by showingthem that it is okay to be yourself the public eye...I have no problem going out as a woman and I get complimented all of the time...by women and men...surely there has to be a woman in the boston area who can say that clothes don't have to make the man...I believe it is what is in the heart that matters most... Funny how most women can look past a lot of the jerks that hit them, cheat on them, and just plain do not respect them and can live with that...why is it so hard to accept clothes...lol...especially when the person wearing them does nothing but CARE ???
2007-11-25 10:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes there is women who can love crossdressers. Me. One of my best friends is a crossdresser, but wouldn't crossdress in public because of what people think, and I love this guy to death! And I totally respect crossdressers. Their just people! Plus what I don't understand is why is it so okay for girls to dress in guy clothes and be totally normal, but guys can't wear girls clothes without being laughed at? That doesn't make sense. Society is so damn stupid. I congradulate you and applaud you for being so unashamed and proud to be who you are. I applaud you! You are one of those people that society should look at and admire. Someone who isn't afraid to be themselves. And I agree, clothes don't make the man. The man makes the man. No matter what people think. I think that you should be proud of yourself for making a statement. You are one to be admired. And I agree, heart is most important. No I don't live in the Boston area, and I'm only 13, but I admire you for being yourself. Bravo.
2007-11-25 10:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Katelynn *WelcomeTo TheJungle* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't care how people dress or what lifestyle choices they make. If that's what they want to do and they feel comfortable doing it (and it's not harming anyone) then it's fine. I'm just a teen girl, but i know enough about us females to tell you why those women may not like you. Our society only portrays people with common views such as being straight, homosexual, a cheater, or just depressed as the only right things. Heaven forbid they make crossdressing be normal! I don't crossdress, but if you enjoy doing it, then keep at it. If a woman cannot love you for who you are, if she wants you to change, then she is not worth it. The one who can see past your clothing and into your soul to see how good and caring you really are is out there. You just have to work hard to find them. Have confidence in yourself because everyone will see it and that is the one thing that will draw a woman to you. Also, maybe play up your eyes a bit with some makeup? The first things women notice about a man is his eyes. Best wishes! :)
2007-11-25 10:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by The Girl In Black [panic!] 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
actually yes --- i know a crossdresser and he met up with a lady and its been going strong ever since ---- best wishes
2007-11-25 10:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
strangely enough...Im no lesbian....but, if my husband were pretty lol i dont think it would bother me! lol but if he werent pretty...then lol no way! LOL we could play dress up together! LOL
2016-04-05 22:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitely. ;)
2007-11-25 10:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lacuca 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm........pretty sure women don't want to compete on looking good with their man.......
2007-11-25 10:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
women want MEN not half men
2007-11-25 10:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
no
2007-11-25 21:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
not me ...sorry
2007-11-25 10:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋