Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months and i've been trying to call her since yesterday morning and she wont pick up the phone or call me back, it's not like her to do this, we have been together for 8 MONTHS!! We had a little argument and i think that may be it, but she should still answer the phone!!! I feel so depressed because i think this might be the end, and i dont want it to be the end!!! What do i do???

2007-11-25 09:14:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 09:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I am now 14. My dad is pretty strict about boyfriends and I don't know how to talk to him about it. I don't know what to say because I'm the only girl in the family.

2007-11-25 09:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by :O 2 in Family

Do dreams have meanings?..?
*for the past week, I've dreamdt about this guy I was hurt by and who I loved for 3-4 years. I got over him last year. He is my acquaintance's brother. She and I went form being friends to just acquaintances..as it got sticky after she suspected I was not over him. I had a dream last night that I was at his house and his mom was talking to me and after I asked if he had a girl friend, she said "not now, jen, he can't be committed, you're the one, he will marry you, but nows not the time for things to work like you want, give it time." It was no a dream I controled, I seriously thought it was real-life. I have been subconsiously thinking about him, as Xmas is coming around, and I might bump into him. I've moved on, but sometimes I want to go back and be vulnerable, but I know I can't do that, it is n't right. What do you think?..*I don't love him anymore, I've stopped. We never went out,it was just a a far away crush.

2007-11-25 09:09:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is 22 years old. He switched majors and is still finishing undergraduate school, meanwhile because his parents can afford to still be paying for him (for everything). He also has 3 younger siblings and is the oldest so feels guilty that he is stil in school and his parents are still paying for them and thinks he owes them an amount of respect, which is completely understandable. But he is just a little too close with his family. We have been going out now for 9 months and I just met them this week. He has not even told them that he went home with me and met my family. He comes from a traditional cuban family and I know the women hold onto their kids for dear life, but why does he feel that he needs to respect them by being afraid of them. He is still tied to his mom's nipple, ANY ADVICE HOW TO GET MY MAN TO SEE ME AS THE ONLY WOMAN IN HIS LIFE?and not be so attached to his family that he acts happier to see them then when he sees me? Should it be me or mom if i'm important

2007-11-25 09:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to get over this girl so I'm taking this challenge to got out and meet new girls:

There's 10 days of class left in my college semester, so I'm going to try to meet 10 attractive girls (and get their phone numbers) between now and December 16th.

My plan is to talk to girls on campus, at bars and clubs, at a coffee shop, and possibly at this huge church near where I live.

The goal is to meet some girls to be interested in and date instead of spending my whole winter break thinking about my ex.

Do you think I can do it?
Does this sound like a good idea?

2007-11-25 09:05:07 · 20 answers · asked by bumblyjack 4 in Singles & Dating

We both had a mutral break-up; He was always busy, and i was always mad that he was always busy therefore making him mad. BUT My ex an I are still best friends and can talk about almost anything together. THE PROBLEM is that I'm still in LOVE with him, and he likes another girl. He also said that going out with an ex of his would be awkward, and that he just wounldn't do that.

What do I do?

2007-11-25 09:05:05 · 37 answers · asked by Alexa A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 09:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 and I look 17 or so I hear. ANYways, I'm sick of hearing that I'll like it when I'm 30, I don't like it now, and trying to look less childlike will not make me look older when I am 30, just more chic and sophisticated I'm hoping.

2007-11-25 09:03:53 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 09:02:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he all a sudden became saved and says we cant have sex anymore because it is a sin I am so sad what would you do

2007-11-25 09:00:39 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a 13 year old girl and my parents are getting devorced and my moms already flirting and hittin on other guys and my dad has a girlfriend but there not legaly devorced just yet its gonna be another 8 months befor its legal!!

2007-11-25 08:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the reason all the men i go out do anything i ask them to or all men are submisse by nature? To those who dont know these sports i told you are marital arts!

how can i let them more confortable with me and let them know im not a bad person and that i can separate my personal life with my profissional one?

2007-11-25 08:57:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You're at the gym trying to work out and a guy tries to talk/flirt with you? Do women go to the gym to be picked up on? I see very attractive women I would be interested in at the gym but I dont want to be a jerk and try to pick up on them while they are working out at the gym...is that just wrong?

2007-11-25 08:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by Chris T 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you gain or loose points if someone gives you a thumbs up or down?

2007-11-25 08:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by scarlet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 08:53:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just need signs to watch for.

2007-11-25 08:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by jo man 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant change the pass or lock it becuase they need it sometimes for school..I think I might just show the history to my dad...but thats the last resort..what else can I do?

2007-11-25 08:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by A friendly Jihad 4 in Family

i got this neighbor and we all went to eat for lunch today and he was trying to get information on for me and i never wanted any info on her. it was embarrassing. why why why do they do that plus she looked kinda young.

2007-11-25 08:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

well it like this, i have been lying to her about little stupit thingsand she found out and now she dont thrust me no more she brings up every little problem in my life about my room, my school work she talks about every single thing. It is really enoughing and i want her to stop so how can i deal with all of those dramas in my life.

2007-11-25 08:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by kingsahid 1 in Family

2007-11-25 08:29:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I did'nt till last night i don't pay the bills and that so i'm not bothered about knowing i trust him with all are money matters.The mad thing was i know he's on a good wage but i was 15 grand under i was shocked on how clueless i was !!!

2007-11-25 08:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by noot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone no of a good idea or suggestions, as to a good way to communicate with my babys mom, she can be very difficult at times and makes my reaching out going over on visits not so welcoming, its like i am under this big micro and i should everything about fatherhood when in actual fact really i dont have a clue, i was and i am a good father to my daughter, im went away to this center for my substance problem and seems like my realationship to my duaghter is the one of the most important on my list although since ive stayed in this community things just havent been the same and ounce agaian i wish my duaghters mother wasint so difficult

2007-11-25 08:28:34 · 2 answers · asked by 77junglesoldier 1 in Family

so they say you cant have any fun what do you think?

2007-11-25 08:28:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my exboyfriend cheated on me while he was drunk, and he didnt tell me until i got him in a corner where he couldnt lie no more. i broke up with him but we are still close friends because i cant live without him in my life. It hurts so bad though, how long until im not in pain? or how long will it take for me to trust him again?

2007-11-25 08:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 08:24:44 · 23 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Friends

my friend wants me to try try out speed dating , im not sure what it is an if its any good can you help ?

2007-11-25 08:19:08 · 18 answers · asked by starcp76 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister and I live 80 miles apart and we don't see each other often..We are the only family we have. She and another gal friend came to my town to shop and she didn't ask me to meet with them. My feelings are hurt.. When I said something to her about it today, she said, I didn't know if you could get out of the house or not. Damn does she think i have bars around my house! She went to a shop where I go often and I would have enjoyed it. She was less than 20 minutes from me. I'm sorry to be such a whimp. If I were to say to her that it hurt my feelings, it would start world war 3, so i don't say anything. Just set here and stew. Am I being childish about this? I haven't seen her in 3 months.

2007-11-25 08:17:11 · 5 answers · asked by j/j/ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 08:15:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How about a white married couple bringing in a blk male to spice things up

2007-11-25 08:11:19 · 16 answers · asked by T J 2 in Marriage & Divorce