2007-11-25 08:29:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would agree....If a woman's husband fails to communicate, listen and engage in conversation.....a woman will be less interested in sex....women are more emotional...and communication is how they get their emotional needs met....
2007-11-25 08:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No you are way off base.
Stop doing ANYTHING she wants and no sex.
Do ANYTHING she does not want, no sex.
Work hard , give her your paycheck, clean the house with her or better yet for her, clean her car, be attentive to her desires, give her flowers, buy jewelry, go on vacation, listen, forget the things you heard which can be used against her later, generally kiss butt, apologize for everything even if you didn't do it . . . . . . . . . .THEN, you can request, mind you it is only a request, That you be allowed to approach the throne.
Then if you have been a good little husband you can take care of the foreplay, take her to the heights of ecstasy and then you might be allowed to have some gratuitous sex. ...........
You must feel unworthy afterward as well for interfering with her schedule.............................................................
It has less to do with communication and a lot more to do with your understanding your role. Learn your place and you might even get some more frequently than your birthday and major holidays.
How long have you been married that you have not yet figured this out?
Follow up, This answer was meant as sarcasm.
Apparently that is lost on people with no sense of humor.
It just goes to show, Perhaps the truth hurts.
2007-11-25 08:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
men, men ,men please PAY ATTENTION!
For Women, hard to believe but it is not all about sex. If a woman doesn't feel loved, wanted, and respected she will not want to have sex. No it is not a game. If the relationship isn't good then the sex won't be either.
Quit making everything about your desires and treat your lady the way you promised you would when you got married and she will be more than willing to make love. There is your answer: Women want to make love, men want to have sex
2007-11-25 09:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If for some reason she does that then its a game and you can do better for yourself even if it just means being single. nobody deserves crap like that. I like cassies answer, now please explain some of those drunken saturday nights or on the times you gave it up easily, that would have had nothing to do with love. nobody deserves having a game played on them. from some of the other responses i have read, when i tell my friends their idiots for cheating on their wifes im just going to start having to beleive them when they say BUT YOU DONT KNOW HER. most ladies that answered make women look pretty terrible, thank you im counting my blessings.
2007-11-25 08:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If a woman feels that she is heard she is happy, communication is one of the many keys to any relationship.
2007-11-25 08:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yes you listen they think you care, they are happy they are willing to be intimate, you dont listen they shut down, start holding things in and the sex stops waiting for you to ask whats wrong ....
2007-11-25 08:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you won't communicate with us are we suppose to hop into bed eagerly to please you? If there are unresolved problems they get fixed first. We don't want to have sex with someone that cannot have a discussion to fix something. If things are so easy to ignore, ignore that you want sex.
2007-11-25 08:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
lol... I dont agree with you... I love to talking about the sex... we all needed. .. its better to have action instead talking about it...lol
2007-11-25 09:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by back2future 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ha! Something like that.
2007-11-25 08:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok , hmmm what?, are you asking if your girl is using sex as a tool, then YES get used to it
2007-11-25 08:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by freakinjokers_serious 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋