well it like this, i have been lying to her about little stupit thingsand she found out and now she dont thrust me no more she brings up every little problem in my life about my room, my school work she talks about every single thing. It is really enoughing and i want her to stop so how can i deal with all of those dramas in my life.
2007-11-25 08:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by kingsahid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi sweetie she does not hate you moms don't hate their kids sounds like she may be a little angry and disappointed you were not honest with her and when some one betrays our trust in them then it takes a while to get that back. I want you to do everything your mom tells you to do better yet don't let her have to tell you keep everything straight, do extra things. Go to your mom tell her you are so sorry and you will never be dishonest with her again and keep your word,and she will Begin to trust you again.Remember she love you things will be ok.
2007-11-25 08:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. The best solution to almost any problem is to talk it out. But that depends on the people and the situation. I would suggest sitting down and talking to your mother one on one. Tell her that the constant reminder of your mistakes doesn't help your progress in getting better. That, in your case, all it really does is make you feel even worse and makes you back away. If something big is going on tell her about. Make her understand your side of the situation.
To make your mother trust you again, start being responsible do things that get on her good side.Help out around the house, get your grades up. Your the one who can keep them from going down. Clean up your room just a little bit and she'll appreciate it a LOT.
Your mom trying to pry her way into your life is just her way of trying to figure out whats wrong. Like I said before talk to her and make her understand. Don't be aggressive about it. Use "I" statements
and be careful on how you chose your words. You don't need the problem to excel.
2007-11-25 09:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all quit lying! You are going to have to earn her trust now. How old are you? Your mom loves you but you have caused her to question her parenting skills. I, as a mother, would not put up with lying either. As far as your school work and your room it is her business to ask about these things. sorry kid I'm on mom's side with this question. Shape up and things will get better. Might as well because legally you have to take it until your 18. My house, my rules, you don't own a thing yet, it's all hers because she bought it. She just has to put a roof over your head,clothes on your back, food in your gut, send you to school, provide medical access, ect... You think you have it tough look at it from her point of view.
2007-11-25 08:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by witchywoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your about 12 or 13 right? It always seems more dramatic at that age honey. Your Mom is only trying to get you to keep your room clean and get your homework done. We all thought our Mom's were annoying at that age lol! It's a Mom's job to make sure you take care of those things and it's a kids job to whine about it. Just do it and respect your Mom.
2007-11-25 08:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't hate you, she's disappointed in you. She's thinking that if you lie to her about stupid and little things, then you're going to lie to her about everything.
So now you have to earn her trust back by apologizing for lying, not lying about anything, doing what chores are expected of you without being hounded to do them and being respectful to her in her own home.
It takes no time at all to destroy trust but it takes a long time to build it.
Good Luck.
2007-11-25 08:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she doesn't hate you. She loves you. If she hated you, she wouldn't care what you do.
Ask her if you can talk - not yell - talk. Tell her how you feel, but do it in a loving way. Acknowledge her for the things she does for you and what you appreciate. Then, tell her what is bothering you. Ask for her support.
2007-11-25 08:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Delta D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lying, start cleaning your room and doing extra things to help her around the house without being asked and treat her with the respect she and her home deserve.
2007-11-25 08:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by buzzword07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move out
Kill Her
Deal with it
sit down and have a conversation with her
2007-11-25 08:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by bruce l 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋