he all a sudden became saved and says we cant have sex anymore because it is a sin I am so sad what would you do
2007-11-25 09:00:39 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now I cant be with the person I love anymore he says he cant lust after me
2007-11-25 09:04:25 · update #1
I dont want to marry him and I dont see why I should have to in order to have sex or a relationship with him
2007-11-25 09:06:22 · update #2
we have already had sex been having it since the beginning im over 40
2007-11-25 09:11:35 · update #3
He is probably trying to give you a clue he is ready, you slow playing??
Tough one, seems like there is more to the story, maybe he doesn't want to cheat on his new girl?
Good luck with that, hope this helped a little.
2007-11-25 09:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by sli 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I wish we could trade boyfriends I want to go to church and not be embarrassed by my relationship. My bf doesn't want to get married. You are very lucky to have an honorable man. They are hard to find. If you don't love hiim enough to marry him, why are you with him? You should move on so that he is free to find someone who loves him for more than sex.
2007-11-25 12:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by When are you going to learn? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop about half way through a head job and ask him if he is sure that is the way he feels. Of course give him a chance to change his new way of thinking but don`t finish the head job until he does. He has probably already found himself a nice little christian girl friend who has promised to put a little on him as soon as he gets rid of you. If I were you I would not give up sex nor get married if I did not want to.
2007-11-25 09:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Great, he's right. It is a sin to have sex before marriage, it's called fornication. Maybe you should accept Jesus as your personal savior and you guys can grow in God together. You should be glad your boyfriend got saved, now he can be a better boyfriend and great husband. God Bless.
2007-11-25 09:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by madeam3 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Funny! 100!
2016-05-25 22:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and understand where he's coming from. if sex is the only thing keeping your relationship alive with someone, then it is not a true relationship. Sex is a gift for marriage. If you can't understand his new lifestyle, then there is no way you can even begin to share your life with him.
2007-11-25 09:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by danielle 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If it's a religious reason; respect that. Don't lose out on something that could turn out to be good. Is sex really so important that it can't wait until marriage?
2007-11-25 09:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by shadowfaxngc 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he's really serious about his conversion, and you are okay with it, you need to sit him down and talk about your relationship in the context of his new found religion. If you don't share his views, it's probably best to end the relationship and find someone whose values are compatible with yours. Good Luck!
2007-11-25 09:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its not a bad thing. He didn't break up with you, right? If you're not going to be understanding to this you should move on. Because if you don't he will eventually.
He wants to live right and you have to support that or you'll lose him.
2007-11-25 09:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that was his way of suggesting the two of you get married. Is that something you want with him? This isn't unusual, to have someone get serious about their religion and want to change their life style. The one thing you need to know is if his life style change includes you, and are you willing to change with him if that's something he wants. Talk to him. It seems that's what he really wants, (to get something off his chest) if nothing else. The answers are with him. I hope it turns out well, and good luck.
2007-11-25 09:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well...I would tell you that everybody needs to have sex so you should get over it and if thats what your boyfriends believes then you should trust in him...hes doing this for a reason
2007-11-25 09:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by jets1hm 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋