and I am now 14. My dad is pretty strict about boyfriends and I don't know how to talk to him about it. I don't know what to say because I'm the only girl in the family.
2007-11-25 09:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by :O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wait on boys. Please grow up and wait until you know who you are and what you who you want to date. Boys complicate life during high school. Be patient and wait. That time will come soon enough
2007-11-25 11:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with your dad sweetie, he is only looking out for you. Remember he is a guy himself and he knows how guys think. To him you will always be his little girl now matter how how old you are. Slowly you are stepping into being a woman, take your time honey, don't worry so much about boyfriends, you have all your life for men. Enjoy being young and young at heart. Everything else will fall into place. If you do have questions find another female (like your friends mom or a counselor) to talk to. Someone you can trust and someone who will only give you the truth about life. There are alot of people who will give you half truths out there so be careful. As far as your dad, one day he will see you in a different light, but you will always be his baby girl. Be happy he loves you so much and try to understand that some men especially daddies have a hard time seeing their little girls grow up to be women. Good luck and God Bless
2007-11-25 17:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad is strict because he loves you so much. It is a parent's worst fear (besides death of a child) to have that child get into trouble that will alter their adult life. That would mean a teenage pregnancy or getting involved with a gang or getting hurt in an accident or breaking some law....in other words serious stuff. You will gain more freedom by your actions than by trying to convince him to let you do whatever you want. Listen to him. I'm 26 and my parents were strict with me. I hated it then. Now I am so grateful because I have a good education, good career, great apartment, money in the bank I've earned, and a nice boyfriend. Two of my high school friends never got to go college and are stuck with loser husbands because they got pregnant in high school. Show this to your Dad and see if he agrees. Denise, Age 26
2007-11-25 17:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all be grateful that ur dad cares so much about u. u can email me because my dad is the same way(im 15 ). well try talking to ur bff mom. she can help u to undrestand why ur dad is strict. he cares so much a bout u though. he doing this so u can be safe. he wants to protect u as much as possible like my dad. im not a loud to have a boyfriend until 16! but email me for any questions! i can help. im sorry for ur lose. my mom help me so talk to ur friends mom or someone u trust.
Good Luck
2007-11-25 17:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by cece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little young to have a boyfriend, a friend is Ok, can you just explain to your dad that you are interested in being friends with a boy?
2007-11-25 17:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tea C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw sorry for your loss, maybe you could talk to your friends about it ya know your BFF'S or just really close friends, then when u think ur prepped enough 2 talk 2 ur dad then talk 2 ur dad about it :)
2007-11-25 17:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to him expressing ur self, i always say all what i want to say in a letter,try it, it might work
2007-11-25 17:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋