Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

a few weekends ago, i got really pissed and went out with a few friends into town. and like i ust said i was so drunk, and i ended up in bed with my sorta bf stephens best friend.
thing is, me and that sorta 'bf' were on a break.
but he called me a few days ago asking to talk about things and see where that goes. we're going out for dinner tomorrow night. and i cant help but feel guilty for having sex with his bestfriend, ryan.
ryan's been ignoring stephen but he cant do that forever,
i dunno what to do. should i come clean and expect things to go right? or should i not, cos after all we were on a break?
it does change things doesnt it? :/
confused. :s help? :)

2007-11-25 06:40:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25/m/single,i developed quite a liking for this girl at my workplace,i'm a shy individual when it comes to talking to girls i don't know that well,i had a few conversations with this girl at office,a few long eye contacts,a few smiles (not very prolonged though),'I thought' she liked to talking to me, 'I happened' to notice,her paying attention,smile when i talked to anyone,though on a very few occasions.I'm a sensitive & loving/ caring kind,i developed feelings for her,a few days ago i gathered enough courage to ask her for a cup of coffee in office,she told me that she has had a bf for a very long time & doesn't want to change anything on that front.Now i just can't stop crying whenever I think of her,I like her a lot,it hurt me a lot inside.Since she works in the same place as i do (our paths don't cross very often)what should I do now?Where did I go wrong?What should I do in the future?It'd be great to have a girl respond to this but i'm open to anyone's thoughts. Thanks...

2007-11-25 06:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by piscean m 1 in Singles & Dating

So, all of my friends say I'm really weird. I want other opinions from other people. Here's what I do:
I say stuff like :OMG!! THERES A MEXICAN BEHIND YOU!!
and EAT THE PINEAPPLE PANDA!!!!!!!
and me and my friend call each other dede all the time.
I came up with this: I feel the bubbles!!! I see the light!!!!!!
Does that mean you can see again?????? YESS!!!!!!!!

So tell me if you think I'm weird.

(Be truthful)

2007-11-25 06:37:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy really likes me alot and I like him too. His ex is still has feelings for him and she won't stop flirting with him. She knows how he feels about me. He's made it clear that he's not interested in her. How do I get her to back off?

2007-11-25 06:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi maybe someone can help me out or something,
My X wanted to break up with me because he said I was "annoying and boring". (I dumped him first) But anyways, it started to get to me so I asked a different X if he thought this was true. I have feelings for this guy still and I know he likes me and everything but I guess he was in a horrible mood because he told me I was and before he hung up he called me "Fatty". This has my self-esteem like down to nothing. I didn't really hurt that he agreed with my X but it hurt that he called me Fatty. I don't think I'm Fat. It sounded like he "might" have been joking but I don't find that funny at all. What would you do in a situation like this?

2007-11-25 06:36:58 · 1 answers · asked by Pay Back Kills 4 in Singles & Dating

Tall girl. Dirty Blonde sholder length kindof wavy hair. Tight black shirt with straps. Tight jeans. Is skinny. Wearing black eyeliner, mascara, and eye shadow, but not to much.

2007-11-25 06:36:27 · 32 answers · asked by KYSLlover 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually am the one that finishes everything...don't put leftover chinese food in the fridge unless you want it eaten!!!

2007-11-25 06:32:25 · 23 answers · asked by Watch it bub! 3 in Family

2007-11-25 06:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by girlgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My new best friend was coming over with her live in b/f last night to play board games with me and my husband and let our son's play together. She has a 4 and 5 year old. I have a 6 year old and a 4 month old. She calls and is mad and says that her b/f is not coming, just her. so i am like whatever ....... He ends up coming anyways thought but she whispered to me that the reason he was being a butthead was because we have a new baby and he thinks babies smell funny and didnt want to come over cause he just doesnt like babies.

can u believe this? My baby is good too.... doesnt even cry really....... and my baby smells good..... lol

He is 33 and has one kid but his kid is 14..... so it's been awhile.

Is this shallow? what should i make of this? I feel offended.

2007-11-25 06:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend as been separated for 5 years and wants to divorce how can he divorce with out paying any fees? But if there is any fee to pay how much is he looking at ?

2007-11-25 06:29:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was dating this girl , she said she likes me..when i kissed her, it was horrible. It was horrible. I told her if i can do it again ,and she says yes. and i dit it even worse. she just laughed and laughed because ... she was like: WTF... she still likes me and call me , but im affraid the next time i kiss her it will be just...lame.

we are both 17 , i´ve never had a gf. she had a couple of boyfriends

Ps: My bestfriend who is also hers. told me that she says i kiss like a chihuahua

2007-11-25 06:27:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have long hair beautiful eyes clear skin skinney but nobody likes me. i hope to find an answer soon. HELP!

2007-11-25 06:27:07 · 36 answers · asked by moggiepoo12 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does it hurt so much? I have my love torn 2 days ago and I'm still upset today. How do I make it go away? Please be honest! DON'T EVEN REPORT ON THIS! I'm serious here. Thanks so much for answering this!

-LuckyGirl831 (Denise N)

2007-11-25 06:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Singles & Dating

im not married or anything (im only 16) im just curious...

2007-11-25 06:26:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. He's 24, I'm 21, and I am happier than ever with him. I'm a bit jaded from past relationships, and it's hard for me to express my emotions. I'm also just not good at that.
Yesterday he got upset with me and told me he doesn't like the fact that I never give him any compliments and I don't ever express my emotions. How do I do this? What should I say to him? He always compliments how I look and stuff, should I start doing that too? I'm really confsued - I don't want to lose him but I also don't know how to express myself. Thankss~!

2007-11-25 06:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know of a woman who did that and I'm trying to understand why. If anyone knows of any resources that can help me understand why someone would do that I would appreciate knowing of them.

2007-11-25 06:20:42 · 21 answers · asked by GirlfromUncle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm gay and I hate looking at porn, I find it degrading to the people involved with it. I could easily date a guy who looks at porn, but when the relationship gets serious and we both feel ready to have sex , I would not permit it. Does anyone else (gay or straight) feel this way too?

2007-11-25 06:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by noituloeve maerd 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this gut feeling like something isnt right i love this girl to death buti donno if she feels the samei dont wanna lose her and i feel like she dont loveme like i do her i donno what to do to keep her in my life?????

2007-11-25 06:20:14 · 6 answers · asked by cody d 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been doing just fine, a few bumps and fumbles here and there but I thought we were doing just fine. He has been drinking quite a bit and finally last night he told me that he is not ready for me, that he loves me and wants to be with me, he loves me like he has never loved before but he is not ready for me and just needs time to himself. What do I do I am on an emotional rollercoaster from hell. How am I suppose to take that? Now I am at my parents with my daughter and she is asking why we can't go home.
Like I said we were doing just fine, this came out of left field we were laughing and joking now with in a matter of minutes he desided he didn't want to be with me but yet he loves me and wants to be with me I make him so happy. I am so confused please help me if you could

2007-11-25 06:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have court soon or have to appear in court if so why?

I do my ex is in trouble for child support..

2007-11-25 06:18:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 06:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think feelings of intense romantic love are necessary to have sexual intercourse with another person? Many people want to "get their first time over with," and be 'in love' with that person, and then it doesn't matter who they have sex with. What are your personal guidelines reguarding sex?

2007-11-25 06:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14. i really really really REALLY want to have se.x with this guy. hes so hot. and he loves me and i love him. its true love. really. should we? we would go completely naked and actually do the real thing; not up the bu.tthole. i didnt have my period yet so i dont think ill get pregnant.

2007-11-25 06:13:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has your ex been in contempt of court for child support and been sent to jail or did they escape jail time? If so how and what happened

2007-11-25 06:11:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, throughout my life I have had terrible, unhealthy relationships. I feel like I blew it for life, and that I will never learn my lesson. Truth is, I am more than likely the one to blame for these endless relationships. Is there still hope for me in meeting a guy and having healthy relationship. What can I do to improve my future relationships?

2007-11-25 06:11:05 · 6 answers · asked by mellisa 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy pretty consistently for the past few weeks. Last night I decided to go further than kissing. He couldn't get an erection. He only had 6-7 beers in the course of 4 hours, so I know it wasn't the alcohol. I did everything I normally do to be sexy and seductive. I don't understand. We both were naked, he seemed to enjoy my body a lot, kissing it all over, but he still couldn't get it up. He didn't bothered by it. So I pulled the "tired" card and it was a struggle to get him to stop touching/kissing me so I could sleep. Is he gay? Should I expect this again? I have a feeling I should be, and that worries me. I'm pretty disappointed. What should I do??

2007-11-25 06:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why god created woman very beautiful , attractive,sexy,cute,soft,curvy , but man not beautiful creature
also in the same time he create man with huge desire lots of testosterone(fuel of desire) but woman with little desire and with little testesterone
man is more visual , man have much more fetishes , fantasies
man run after woman , man is very emotional to woman he loves ,we who when love give gifts ,flowers, kneel to women , kiss hands and feet , make poem....etc but woman no
in short words man attracted to woman much more woman attracted to man
why god created us that way? isnt that making woman cotrol man , humiliate him , to be broud to him?

2007-11-25 06:09:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom and my cousin mom was recentley in a fight my cousin jordan is kinda weired and VERY popular like everyone wants to be related to him and lucky me (not) I get him. But any ways we were talking about him not in a bad way and I said o ya he is my cousin. No one belived me so they asked him guess what my cousin said!!! He said he was not related to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This got me so mad!!! what should I do next time he does something like this?

2007-11-25 06:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by chris p 1 in Friends

any idea where and how? my parents are mostly home and so are hers..u done in numberous of times but now its harder then ever can anyone help me out...btw i am 18 and she is 19 we just dont want our parents knowing..i got no car as of yet

2007-11-25 06:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend's past?
I am 14, and my bf is 15. I know we're young but I trust him with all my heart. I love him, he loves me. We're so close I can tell him EVERYTHING (including my past sexual abuse). I thought we were really close and really good together considering how young we both are. Today he told me something about his past (I thought he was perfect).

I have been his really good friend since we were twelve and then he asked me to be his gf (kinda cute :D) when we were 13. 1 1/2 years is pretty long to be together (considering age) and like another year of friendship!!! Today he told me that from when he was 12 through 13 he had internet relationships with 15 girls!!! Not only a relationship, he doubled timed them, and had Internet/ Instant Message SEX with them like 4 TIMES A WEEK! Remember we were really good friends at the time and I thought he was perfect and now we're bf/gf. IT WAS GRAPHIC AND HAPPENED AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE. Is it reasonable for me to be upset?

2007-11-25 06:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Hello to the little people! 1 in Singles & Dating