Do you think feelings of intense romantic love are necessary to have sexual intercourse with another person? Many people want to "get their first time over with," and be 'in love' with that person, and then it doesn't matter who they have sex with. What are your personal guidelines reguarding sex?
2007-11-25 06:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is human nature. It's natural for us to feel that way whether you're in love or not. It's something that's just a part of us, and if anyone says that it's not possible to have sex while you're not married and in love, then they really don't know a lot about the human race and the more technical things behind it.
I've had casual sex before, and there are times where it was great! Especially that it was a no attachment sort of thing. But I will admit, making love is a lot better than just having plain sex. When you're in love, it makes the experience so much more better and brings you to an even more closer level with your companion.
2007-11-25 06:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫BlondeRoCKeR♥♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly for me if someone does not love me then they are not going to have just a portion of me. Anyone can have sex, anytime they want to all they need now a days is a phone number or a computer. But I would not want to take something that is suppose to be so special and just waist on anyone. But not everyone thinks like I do. To me that is just being used and do you really have to have sex to be used. People use other people all the time and were does it leave them. Would you want to spend one night with someone who you probably would never see or hear from again just to have some excitement or be able to have that fun and excitement anytime you needed or wanted with that same person, knowing that it was for real.
2007-11-25 06:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by high on life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason young people seem to think
sex is love.and love is sex Anyone can have sex
just for the feel of it,it's not love Two people can fall in love with out having sex.it's people sharing there feelings and dreams,look in toward the future..
2007-11-25 06:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that only you can answer. No one can tell you weather you should or shouldn't have sex with some one else, because only you know what your true feelings are and what you can live with. This question has to due with responsibility, and your own personal morals, and values.
2007-11-25 06:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends. If you're a slut, then there never has to be love involved, not even the first time. If you don't want to come off as an easy whore, then you should genuinely care about who you're doing it with and not just because "omg he was liekkk so hott!!"
2007-11-25 06:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have sex with someone you don't love. And if that person truly loves you they will not pressure you for sex.
2007-11-25 06:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by ltlwzl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to love them beforehand and be prepared to have a future with them, because you never know what could go wrong
2007-11-25 06:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u like someone you can have sex and maybe then in t ime you'll start loving them.
i mean , that is what most people do anyway.
2007-11-25 06:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be in love to have sex with someone
2007-11-25 07:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.but most people want it with love.n yup.people do it the first time with love then they dont care
2007-11-25 06:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by blue star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋