im 14. i really really really REALLY want to have se.x with this guy. hes so hot. and he loves me and i love him. its true love. really. should we? we would go completely naked and actually do the real thing; not up the bu.tthole. i didnt have my period yet so i dont think ill get pregnant.
2007-11-25 06:13:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me ask you this...how do you know it's true love with this guy? Besides him being hot and you being "in love", why do you want to have sex with him? Have you thought about the consequences? There are more consequences from having sex than just pregnancy.
Personally I think you are too young to have sex and should wait. Just the way you describe the act: "We would go completely naked, and actually do the real thing, not up the butthole." - indicates immaturity. I'm not trying to be mean. I realize at your age that sex seems like a really cool thing to try...and it can be...but you have to be able to handle everything that comes with it. Many young people have sex at a young age, and regret it. So make sure you think this through some more.
Even if you don't think you'll get pregnant because you aren't menstruating yet, you still should use protection. This will prevent STDs, and is especially important if your boyfriend has been sexually active before.
2007-11-25 06:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you saying he is so hot makes me believe that you're not ready. No 14 year old is ready at that age. I'd wait until I was older and more mature. It seems like its just a pressure thing and you want to do it because the media and other places have it so out there.And getting pregnant isn't the only issue, you can still get STDs and there is a lot more issues to it. And I don't think when you're 14 you know what true love is. Sorry.
2007-11-25 14:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately should not! 14 is WAY to young for sex. You can do that stuff much later. I'm 14 and I plan to stay a virgin for a while longer, but I do know how you feel. I wanted to have sex with this guy too and he wanted to have sex with me. I'm so glad it didn't happen. Even though you won't get pregnant there are still plenty of sexually transmitted diseases. You can have sex later. Now be content with holding hands and kissing. That stuff's fun too.
2007-11-25 14:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You need to have "the talk" with your mommy. Obviously you know nothing about what you think you want to do.
2. How can it be true love when you're not married and have made no commitments.
3. You can get pregnant.
2007-11-25 14:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. okay listen im not nagging but you need to wait for your period because you aren't even on the road to being fully developed yet.
Girls who have had their periods for years find sex hurts like hell, and if you do it now, it will hurt a lot
2007-11-25 14:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! Show restraints... Pregnancy could be the least of your worries… Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) should also be on your mind… THEY KILL and they do not care if you have protection or not and if you have had your period or not.
14 years old and you could make a mistake that last a lifetime!!!!
2007-11-25 14:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....If you really want to...
1 make him wear a condom or trust me youll regret it
if hes had sex with anybody else no or been playing around down there no STD doesnt even show until 14 years later and thats when you die
2007-11-25 18:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by JAMAC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i said on another 1 dont do it i got a girl pregnant at the start of the year and it ruins your life my son needs loads of attention
2007-11-25 15:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question....... your a baby. Babies should not have sex. NO!!!!!!!! Love? Really. I'm not so sure. And if you have to ask, then your not mature and ready for sex. But if u decide to do it, use a condom..... no matter what. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-25 14:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You are too young to make such life alltering decisions. Trust me not only pregnancy, but HIV and STD's are out there too.
Love does not mean sex!
2007-11-25 14:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋