AWWWWWWWWWWWW STUPID X's?

Question

Hi maybe someone can help me out or something,
My X wanted to break up with me because he said I was "annoying and boring". (I dumped him first) But anyways, it started to get to me so I asked a different X if he thought this was true. I have feelings for this guy still and I know he likes me and everything but I guess he was in a horrible mood because he told me I was and before he hung up he called me "Fatty". This has my self-esteem like down to nothing. I didn't really hurt that he agreed with my X but it hurt that he called me Fatty. I don't think I'm Fat. It sounded like he "might" have been joking but I don't find that funny at all. What would you do in a situation like this?

Answer 1

Realize that I'm pretty weak if I care what some boy insulting "shallow" crap has to say, and go on with my life, but I'm not you. A couple things to realize:

1. Only boring people get bored. So he has an inability to entertain himself with you, not your fault
2. Annoying is his opinion and his cross to bare, shows how he lacks an ability to know how to enjoy you, not your fault.
3. Fatty was just an attempt to take advantage of your immaturity because he knows your still shallow enough to care. This is your fault, no offense, grow past shallow apperance crap or else boys will control you for the rest of your life.

But that might of been to much truth for a youngin, but just trying to show you. The games deeper then the words, learn that.....

But thats why question like that kind of miss the point. If I had made it to that point, I would of went to that guys house, looked him in the eye, and ask if he could please repeat what he said, then I brow-beat him for his ignornace and go about my life..... like I sort of did to you, but I call it teaching on here
;-)