the reason all the men i go out do anything i ask them to or all men are submisse by nature? To those who dont know these sports i told you are marital arts!
how can i let them more confortable with me and let them know im not a bad person and that i can separate my personal life with my profissional one?
2007-11-25 08:57:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or it is because i make alot of money probably more than them? i used to think taht men thought that women practising these sports was sexy but what is it then
2007-11-25 08:59:23 · update #1
just to let you know im not ugly mostly of the people say i look like that actress Erica Durance and she isnt ugly at all
2007-11-25 09:08:02 · update #2
just to let you know im not ugly mostly of the people say i look like that actress Erica Durance and she isnt ugly at all
2007-11-25 09:08:03 · update #3
you are a beautiful woman who makes more than they do and you can kick their *** of course they will feel intimidated. They want to be the MAN, and they are probably thinking you are more of man than they are. Has nothing to do with you, they just aren't secure with themselves.
2007-11-25 09:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you ask someone you know to be honest, a good friend or close family member. Ask them what they think about this. After all, we can only make comments based on what you say and you might leave out something important without realizing it.
However, you might be right that the reason why is you intimidate men with your skills as well as your money. I recommend you do not tell them or hint to them that you might make more money then they do.
2007-11-25 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You keep practicing what you love. Don't let any wussbag get in your way. Give your best talents to the world and you will be rewarded some day by a cool, confident, interesting and a challenging guy.
2007-11-25 09:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Words Of Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably look like a mess. Make no mistake though, most grown men could beat the hell out of you. You probably aren't strong enough to arm bar a grown man.
Women who do martial arts and look good are one in a million. In fact Gina Carano is the only one.
Did all of that make you mad? Most women would just cry if they read that, if it makes you angry, you probably have a very masculine brain.
If you are only finding obsequious men, that is probably what you are looking for. Subconsciously you want to dominate people, that is why you chose those hobbies.
2007-11-25 09:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Spencer F 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
On top of your figting skills, you probably have a very controlling dominant personality.... lol I had one to... they submit to you... and you don't want them to? So submit to them... give them a chance to see that they can be in charge to... ya know? Give them back-rubs and stuff liek that... do nice things for them.... let it be obvious that they can tell you wat to do? I mean... is that the problem you have? You don't want to be in charge? But I mean... I had this problem too... I'm too demanding... and at first I thought that I wanted to be in charge... but it turned out that I was just afraid of being hurt... ya know? So like the answer to "are all men submissive" the answer is no... you are jsut intemidating... so tame the tiger inside... have it crouch down low... very low... and let the timid ground-hog play awhile.... ( is trying to come up with a great metaphore... but that just sounds horrible.... but i am hoping you catch my drift!) good luck! ♥
2007-11-25 09:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Just Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound great to me. If you are interested in a guy that does the same sports, doesn't care about money, and isn't intimidated by a strong independent women feel free to email me.
2007-11-25 09:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rational Humanist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kevin
2016-04-05 22:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax, I'm sure it's not as bad as you make it seem. These guys probably don't even care that you practice marital arts they just want to impress you.
2007-11-25 09:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anderson Silva would be perfect for you,some guys feel intimidated by your abilities and a little envious because they cant do it
2007-11-25 10:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Another Day Another Vendetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,that's probably why. Spencer,don't be afraid because a woman can kick your ***.. you are a little boy,any man that wants to hit a woman is a coward.
2007-11-25 10:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋