2007-11-25 09:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's only possible if she's willing and able to make the changes needed to regain your trust. As long as you can't trust her, you won't be able to move on.
Good Luck.
2007-11-25 09:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. YES-you forgive her because you love her. No-you cannot forget and it bothers you. I would probably internalize it but it would show-up in other areas of the relationship. less affectionate,caring, not attentive and maybe becoming more selfish. I would need counseling to get through it. Some people just can deal with it like it never happen-I COULD NOT
2007-11-25 17:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT depends... IF you have children yes.. You go through marriage counseling and fix your problems. IF you dont have kids file for a divoce and find someone that wont cheat on you. THere are good faithful women out there. Best of luck
2007-11-25 17:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. If you can forgive, and move on then yes, But if you know that it will only "eat at you", then you probably will never be able to get past it. Everyone is different. You know yourself better than anyone. So only you will truly know if you can get past it. Good Luck !!
2007-11-25 18:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not possible, it happened to me. but the fact is can you live with the fact that she was unfaithful and make the marriage work. It is worth atleast a shot,especially if you have kids. it will take some time but it can work. getting over it .it will be on your mind forever but lessen as time goes by .
2007-11-25 17:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but it is not easy. You may be mistrustful and feel as if you cannot forgive her, but if you are truly in love it is worth dealing with your heart ache....that is if she regrets what she has done. We are all just human, and sometimes circumstances just pile up and we make mistakes. See a counselor if you are having problems with the issue.
2007-11-25 17:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by SkyLights90N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible but extremely difficult and depends alot on how well your wife makes you feel she has changed and how much she convinces you she's remorseful.
2007-11-26 00:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only answer this question.....It has been done but if you have trust issues you may be kidding yourself. This isn't easy to do and the odds don't favor you.
2007-11-25 17:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a lot of great advice at www.survivinginfidelity. com---Good luck!
2007-11-25 22:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its possible,i mean dont sleep around cause she sleeping around dont let her drag you to hell like she going for abumination just divorce her and move on
2007-11-25 17:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by cupkeasy 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋