Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months and i've been trying to call her since yesterday morning and she wont pick up the phone or call me back, it's not like her to do this, we have been together for 8 MONTHS!! We had a little argument and i think that may be it, but she should still answer the phone!!! I feel so depressed because i think this might be the end, and i dont want it to be the end!!! What do i do???
2007-11-25 09:14:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may be angry. Give her time. Don't push her. Ok, it's not easy but if you insist, it's worse. Time is the key. When she feels better, you can talk about what happened between you. Don't worry, everything will be fine.
2007-11-25 09:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i know what you must feel like! As hard as it may seem right now... STOP calling! Give her a day or so...maybe even two or more(whatever you feel is best) then call ONCE. If she answers talk to her and sort out all of your feelings in a CALM manner. If she still doesn't answer....GO to HER house( with flowers or chocolate or a least a friendly smile on your face) just to stop by and say hi and see how she's doing! If she don't answer the door, make sure she's not grounded! That is always a possibility. But give her a week or so then call again. If still no answer leave a nice heartfelt message because that's the end i'm afraid buddy. So try my advice from the VERY beginning! Let me know how this goes ok?? Hope I helped!! =)
2007-11-25 09:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♡dancingfoolxoxo♪♫♪♫♪☂ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not to sure what you argued about but there must be a reason why she doesn't want to talk to you right now. The best thing you can do is leave her alone for right now. She is probably thinking about this whole situation and wants to be to herself. Maybe you are smothering her too much which is why she wants some time apart. Girls hate that sometimes and is a turn off. The best is to leave her alone and if you did something to her than send her a gift as an apology and wait until she is ready to talk about it. When that time comes dont even bring the topic about her not answering just talk about what changes you are willing to make to fix the problem. If she wants to move on so let it be, that means those 8 months were good at the time but not meant for the two of you to be together forever. Good luck!!
2007-11-25 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by DESIGURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're overreacting. It's only been a day or two. She is probably mad and you and needs some space to stop being mad, but I'm sure she'll call you when she's ready. Maybe you should stop calling her for the next day or two. Then she'll be more likely to start to miss you and wonder what you're doing and then she'll call you. One little argument isn't going to be enough to break up over after 8 months, I'm sure. Just try to relax and do something else to get your mind off it. Good luck.
2007-11-25 09:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be ignoring you, and this could be all blown out of proportion. Than again she may just need some space. I say lay low for a while, and give her some breathing space. Most people don't want to jump back into a burning flame, and right now she may still ignite. Just give her sometime to think, and cool down, and let her contact you. She will eventually.
2007-11-25 09:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT would help to know what the argument was over and how exactly it ended but I won't prod. Perhaps her cellphone's turned off? That happens to me alot, I miss alot of calls due to that. ARe you still in school, or will you see her today or tomorrow? I would suggest you buy a few flowers and show up on her doorstep. Tell her you're sorry and you love her.
2007-11-25 09:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can hold grudges over the silliest things....give her a couple days without calling her, and just say the next time you see her, Hey, you okay? I called you...
Just don't be hanging all over her demanding she talks....she'll back down soon enough. IN the meantime, go over your argument in your head and make sure there's nothing you did/said that was really bad, even though you didn't think so at the time.
2007-11-25 09:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must calm down! This is not a time for panic. Give her some time. It is not in your best interest to get all panicky when life give you little challenges. Give yourself more credit, regain your composure and rely on your intelligence to be able to handle the situation. If she pick up on this type of weakness, I guarantee you this will be only the beginning.
2007-11-25 09:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well first try and show her you still care; second maybe if she isnt answering her phone she is still trying to cool off from the argument; Maybe try sending her flowers or an email or voice message telling her how much you care :D
I wish you luck.
2007-11-25 09:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by autumn! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her nice txt, a funny /romantic poem saying u miss her.
send her flowers. n say how u feel in a letter (it's really romantic....hope she likes it)
in the mean time stay off booze, go 4 a long walk, listen to happy music n cheer up.
there r a lot of lonely ppl in the world, some r dying of hunger, some from cold, etc pray for them, give charity, it'll fill ur heart with good feelings.
good luck
2007-11-25 09:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by mamaroach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋