If youve only been split up for about 2 3 weeks but your getting a devorce is it ok to see other people?

Question

im a 13 year old girl and my parents are getting devorced and my moms already flirting and hittin on other guys and my dad has a girlfriend but there not legaly devorced just yet its gonna be another 8 months befor its legal!!

Answer 1

That probably seems way too soon to you but they've been together for a good while (I'm basing that assumption on the fact that you're 13) so it's a very vulnerable feeling to be suddenly single again....one wonders if they still know how to behave in social situations and a host of other worries (none of which I'll be describing to someone of your age). The main point is this: don't judge her too harshly. Divorce is difficult for everyone, and the "legal" markers are less significant to folks than the new realities they face. And there's no way you'll know this without experiencing it for yourself (which I pray you never will). Good luck to you all.

Answer 2

I'm 14 and i feel that if both of your parents feel like they are done with their marriage and don't want to try again i think it is okay to move on. your parents may have been having problems for years and finally decided that they had had enough of each other

Answer 3

no, it really isn't okay. they need to resolve and recover from their marriage before they can truly participate in a new healthy relationship.
these are rebound relationships, and I hope that neither of them make the mistake of committing to these people.
stay out of what they are going through. it's too much drama and you don't deserve to be involved.

Answer 4

no. even after they get divorced, it is an unwritten rule that you should wait for a year for your children's sake.

Answer 5

i think she needs to wait a bit longer.

Answer 6

yes its ok.