theres this guy at school that i really liked at the beginning of the year. i was new, so i didn`t think he noticed me. being the flirty beeotch i am (not) i kinda starting to flirt with him a LOT. i started to think he liked me, so i got WAY over flirtatious (sp??). he was walking home with my best friend one day (i wasn`t there) and she couldn`t help but ask if he liked me. his response wasn`t pretty. he sed...
"gawd, does she STILL like me? shes pretty and all, but shes REALLY annoying."
ouch. i cried all nite. it was the saddest moment ever. after that, i didn`t like him anymore, and i made sure everyone knew. then, out of nowhere, i started liking him again. but i only told my bff and NO ONE ELSE. one day, my bff was talking to him at lunch cuz he sits with her. he was giving her hints on who he liked and sed its someone really close to you (duh its my bff) and her name has an e in it. (my names emma) i think he likes me finally!! but he hasn`t asked me out. what should i do?
2007-11-25 09:55:54 · 29 answers · asked by newyearbaby1231 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you say, it sounds like he likes you, but is too shy to ask you out for himself. You said you flirted a LOT with him, so what happened was he liked you at first, but then you came on too strong scaring him away. He still kinda liked you though at that point. Whether he showed it or not, he wasn't planning to forget you anytime soon. You just need to be patient. If you didnt do it already, you should exchange numbers, so you can talk to him. It usually helps to start by texting b/c you r in unfamiliar territory and might freeze up and have nothing to say. With texts you pretty much make a 5 minute conversation an hour long. It also gives you more time to think of what ur gonna say. Just be careful not to misread his emotions in his texts. After you talk for a while, it could be a few days depending on the guy, he will probably mention that you 2 should hang out sometime. He is gonna be too nervous to choose what to do, so give him a hint. If you like movies be like "Have you seen that new movie________". Choose a brand new one so u know he hasnt seen it and say u really want to see it. Assuming you did everything correctly he should officially ask you out on a date at that point.
You could go for the more direct approach and just flirt a little more and tell him you 2 should hang out sometime. He will either say yes or no. This method is a little more gutsy, though. It takes some real cojones.
2007-11-25 10:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by General Lee Speaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you're a HS girl - I raised four that were home made and two that blew in on a tumble weed. Your infatuation is natural - If he is sitting at lunch with your best friend, why aren't you sitting there too? What are you waiting for, why not just arrange a pizza date or a study date for your best girl friend, and some other kids, and invite this boy along. Maybe he's good in some class or if he's in a higher level, maybe he did well in some class you are just now taking and would be willing to help some of you prepare for a test. What I am suggesting is that you find a way to get to meet him and talk to him other than a "date" - Most boys will respect that very highly - of course, if all you want is to arrange a flop in the sack with him, he may accomodate you, but he will never care for you - I say this bluntly because in today's world many young people think that having sex is a necessary part of any "date" and getting as many on your trophy list as possible is a good thing. However, if you are good person who really wants a "friend" first, who may become someone who would like to take you to the Prom because he would be proud of you, and hope you were proud of him -- all because of your good and moral qualities, then follow my advice - take the initiative - what have you got to lose?
2007-11-25 10:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may come off as being mean but i it comes from the heart. You need to get over him dont find your self hurt by him again it is not worth it IIIIIIIIFFFFF he is talking about you then that means he just want we cant have alot of ppl are like that Next move on find someone else to like that likes you back and learn from the past dont do so much flirting and ask him out dont wait for the guy to always ask you some guys are just as shy as girls when it comes to someone they really like Also that girl is not ur BFF if she was she would not be having lunch wit him after wat he did to you remain close to her but stop tellin her every thought that you have cause she is playin u to
2007-11-25 10:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by misstuide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation. wait it out, and if he doesnt ask you out in a week or so, he seriously sint worth it.
maybe you should sit with your BFF at lunch while he is there. If he drops any huge hints (such as staring, gawking, etc..) then you can wait another week. but if there are no hints or lcues given, its best to move on.
chances are if it takes him THAT long to make a move, he's got some real personal issues
2007-11-25 10:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could`ve been talking about someone else because if he told you ''gosh she still likes me'' in a very mean way than he obviously does`nt like you. But I think that you should stop wasting your time because if he is that rude to you than you just move on. I`ll tell you what, stop trying to get his attention. You need to just let him tell you that he likes you, don`t go by hints. Because just because he says that he likes someone that has e in their name that does`nt mean that he is talking about you. You never know he could`ve said that just so you would get your hopes up but my adive is just go with the flow move on with your life don`t keep thinking about having a shot with him, because he could be just using you. But I hope that you are happy with whoever you end up with because you should`nt be crying over a loser that is disrespectul to you because there are more fishes in the sea.
2007-11-25 10:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't too complicated. Talk to him about it! Hinting and flirting and just hoping he'll ask you out hasn't gotten you very far so just be honest. Don't be too surprised if he doesn't like you the way you like him, though. Good luck!
2007-11-25 10:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Shining217 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play a little hard to get and then he will want you more and more but first go out with his best friend so he will be jelous and want you even more than usual and if this works out e-mail me at ellenaj_noskcaj@yahoo.com. Good Luck!
2007-11-25 10:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it type of feels too quickly, yet he isn't any longer asking you out yet probable because he needs to watch for the right time. in case you want him, enable him visit varsity! do you want a guy with a school degree or a drop out?! (no offence! he sounds outstanding, truly!)
2016-10-25 01:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok umm well. Dont ask him out yet . Dont risk him thinking you have spies somewhere or anything just talk to him and dont flirt. Maybe after you talk he will ask you out
2007-11-25 10:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by fifadude796 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't do anything. If he likes you, he'll ask you out. If he doesn't, just move on. And him saying that you are annoying was really wrong. My advice is that he isn't worth it.
2007-11-25 10:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by [C]ouRtηєу Loves<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋