i meet my guy in a chat room in 2003 i was only 14 and he was 17 eventually we ended up being friends first and we fell in love now im 18 his 21 he still says he loves me and i love him too although we had ups and down..i live in london and his in california and we have never meet but spiritually he says he know im the one and i know he is as well but im now finally ready to meet him.. i speak to his mom and his friends and family they know about me a lot..we do speak about the future..my question is do yout guys think this will work out u kno..us having a distance and all .....
2007-11-25 10:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in one for 4 years. he lives in Germany and i live in California and we are happy together. We look at the distance as a challenge and we know that it won't be this way forever. We do a lot of things for eachother and we trust one another. It definately hard work but its doable. It takes communication, trust and honesty and a bit of creativiyt too. Email me if you have more questions or if you want some ideas. Good luck and i hope things are working out for you and your guy. :)
2007-11-25 17:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick about long-distance is that you BOTH need to have a strong attraction for each other. If you do, then it could work! That is, it could work as long as you both discuss terms with each other. First, discuss terms with each other. Tell him that you want to be able to meet him in person so you can be physical and you can hold each other. Second, you MUST be ABSOLUTELY sure that he is the one for you! If he isn't, and you meet someone else just like him who lives SO much closer, what would stop you from indulging this person?
I am in a long-distance relationship. My girl is a 7 hour drive a way. Sure, we get sad, but we spend the entire day either texting each other or on the phone with each other. I spend all of my money on bills and taking an Amtrak train to see her. We see each other like once or twice a month, but we are so compatible and are so attracted to each other that we NEVER want to lose each other and want nobody else.
My point is that you need to have a strong stance in this relationship. You better be sure hes worth it, and vice versa. It can definitely work out, but you do need physical contact(trust me on this one). And, while you are separated, you should talk, email, and text as MUCH as humanly possible!
2007-11-25 18:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by im_always_drunk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont trust long distance relationships because you never know what tehy could be doing away from you. also yall met over interent and youve never actually seen each other face to face. people are different in person. this is tricky because yall seem to get along great, i say go for it. but dont have your hopes up, taht way if it does work out, you'l lbe that much happier. GOOD LUCK! ;)
2007-11-25 18:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by peace w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships can work out....only if u know hes the one u want to be with and if u trust him....but meet him first..
good luck!
2007-11-25 18:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was from uk, and me from aus, its hard, especially as we were from completly different familys, and lifestyle, you already love each other nothings going to change when you meet except that you can touch each other, it was hard for us like i sayd but we married now and got a bub on the way
2007-11-25 18:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been going for 3 years already so yes i believe it will --- i would suggest that you meet as soon as possible and decide where you both want to live --- maybe he can get employment in the UK??? --- best wishes to you both
2007-11-25 18:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will....but you will never know until you meet.....so go for it!
2007-11-25 18:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋