please help! there is this guy i would die for, my friends say i should ask him out..so i did. I got rejected..
1. because he basicly does not know me
2. he can't date
3. he doesn't like me.
i look @ his picture all the time. i wish we could just be friends. HELP???
2007-11-25 10:12:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELP ME!!!pwease....
2007-11-25 10:15:37 · update #1
You sound obsessive. I did that from the time that I was 13-18, and although we did end up dating (off and on for quite a bit) it was horrible and not meant to be. If it is meant to be, wait for him to notice you. I mean, you can talk and stuff, just don't throw yourself at him. Right now, you should work on being the best person that you can be, and the rest will follow.
2007-11-25 10:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Elise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a simple one, The thing to do is
1. Introduce your self
2. Cant have a friendship or relationship without at least one thing in common, Find out what that is and being it up.
3. Go from there to and start a Conversation about that subject.
4. Go From there, if it works it works, if it doesn't then don't become a crazy stalker or something
2007-11-25 18:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by joelrossburch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the guy, DON"T ask to go out first. The thing you need to do is first have a conversation with him and see if you guys can be friends. Let the friendship rise about 1 month or so THEN try again. He'll grow on you by then and he'll may say yes.
2007-11-25 18:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by DeShawn W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things aren't going to work out; I'm sorry, but they're not. Looking at his picture all the time does not change this. You sound like you are young and have plenty of time before you should be serious about guys...its okay.
2007-11-25 18:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lover Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just crushing. I've gone through this before, but I never actually asked the guy out. You will eventually move on to another crush, you just have to be patient! You probably won't be able to, but the best thing to do is forget about him and set out to find a guy who actually does like you.
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-11-25 18:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, he's probably stuck on himself. Two he's probably shy and is afraid of meeting females. And if he can't date ; what are you doing with trying to go out with someone like him? He can be your fantasy guy. Are you old enough to date? There's nothing wrong with a female asking a male out. I asked my husband out before we got married. Because I asked him out, I have a great, crazy(fun),concerned husband. Look for someone-else that might make a good boyfriend.
2007-11-25 18:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it hard to believe that you would be able to be just his friend.... if you have that strong of feelings already then there is no way you could just see him as a friend and as he has already said he isn't looking for a relationship because he is not allowed to date. so doing that would only torture you... i suggest trying to get him off of your mind by hanging out with other guys or just hanging out with your girl friends... if he said no you have to respect that and try your best to move on. it may be hard at first, but it will get easier over time
2007-11-25 18:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by kermit the red head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax wait sometime before you ask him again try and get to know him better and if you ask him this time and he saids no well just wait and let him come to you, wait till he can date and comes to like you more, or find someone else.
2007-11-25 18:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by kenyetta59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you guys could be friends, and make sure he knows that you're willing to put aside your love intrest in him. Try to get to know him more and him know you. Maybe after he knows you more he will find a love intrest in you.
2007-11-25 18:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about him for a while and ignore it. rejection isnt that bad.
later on in the year talk to him as a friend and maybe let him know you dont think of him that way anymore
2007-11-25 18:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋