i am kinda in love with my ex and we were together for 10 months and now when he sees me he does not even stop talk to me or anything. what can i do all i want to be is his friend but he wont talk to me..
2007-11-25 04:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by shaquekah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well firstly the way he's acting is very immature, exes can still be friends but if he doesn't want to then ignore him too, in fact just be yourself and look happy all the time so if he sees you he'll wonder why you're not still pining over him! As for still being in love, that's understandable, it's hard letting go especially when you didn't see it coming. Im time you'll get over him and after the way he's been treating you , you'll wonder why you even bothered. Keep living your own life and as hard as it is try not to even think about him, distract yourself with happier, healthier things
2007-11-25 04:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by NightOwl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my heart torn out 9 months ago it was hard at first but I realized he was a mean person. So I focused on that and I started to feel better day by day. I don't hate him but I know I don't want him in my life either.
If he doesn't even want to acknowledge you then he doesn't sound like a nice guy anyway. Focus on the things you disliked about him and never listen to the songs that you two loved together or remind you of him trust me it's just torture.
Take a deep breath and tell yourself you deseve more out of life than this guy ignoring you, that you are going to get over him and you will find love again!
It sounds corny but I was there and I know how much it hurts I had to force myself to not love him and I didn't dwell on him. Do things that make you happy and distract you. The balls in your court right now and you can turn this around.
I hope this hepled a little, honey because if he's ignoring you ignore him right back, they hate to be ignored. Trust me on this you will feel empowered........
2007-11-25 12:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still in love its harder to let go if you guys are stil good friends, you both probably should have this space.
If your ilove with him now you still wil be if being with him reminds you of how good you were together so if you stay away for a while until you know you ve realized its truely over then thats the best thing for all of you
2007-11-25 12:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a girl, just wait another 5 minutes and you'll have another boyfriend. you probably aren't even reading this now, but with your new bf. Ppl, never answer these threads about "help me get over my bf" because by the time you answered, the girl already found someone else regardless of how fast you answered. If only women were more picky...
2007-11-25 12:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be his friend... friends at least take the time to talk to you. You can't make him feel a certain way, even if it is only friendly... Find someone else to be friends with. MOVE ON!
2007-11-25 12:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T!!! Just let him be.....funny things tend to happen when people don't get the attention that they were once getting. Once you stop trying to be firends with him, your feelings will slowly (keyword...slowly) diminish and then maybe he'll want to be friends when he doesn't think that you'll try to get back with him. Or, he could hate the fact that your not giving him anymore attention and then try to be your friend....either way you when.
2007-11-25 12:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, can u get a letter to him? you could write a letter and tell him how you are really feeling. tell him you dont want to be enemies, just want to be friends. tell him how it hurts to not even beable to say hi to him when passing. try that, if he still doesnt respond, he is an ****** and doesnt deserve to be friends with u! good luck
2007-11-25 12:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by handy1102002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what caused your breakup, but you have to move on. Once you move on, he'll probably try to get your attention, but the smart thing would be to move on with your life.
2007-11-25 12:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If you keep pursuing something, he will pull farther away. He might actually come back to you(as a friend or more) if you back away.
2007-11-25 12:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you need to talk...and just let the emotions out..be honest..or you will nevr get out of it.. good luck hope you get the best out of it..
2007-11-25 12:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Paige.F.Babyy. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋