my friend fell out with me today she reckoned she was worried about me and that she was goin to tell my mum wot happend on thursday nite and other things so i thought i would be honest and tell my mum now my mum as disowned me and dont know wot to do
2007-11-25 04:20:10 · 29 answers · asked by salsa3177 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ummm, what? How about using a period and some capital letters and separating your thoughts?
2007-11-25 04:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by SusieQ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What exactly did you do so wrong for your own mum to disown you? Was it sex related/stealing...? If so,how old are you? Cos that could be the reason your mums so mad right now!
We all make silly and serious mistakes but if your mum loves you,she probably hasn't disowned you and is just very angry and upset with you right now! Tell her how sorry and upset you are,even if it means you write her a letter saying this,I'm sure she will talk to you once she calms down.
I'm guessing that you fell out with your friend because you went mad at her for lecturing you and threatening to tell your mum things? If this is the case,just tell your friend that you have now told your mum and you don't want to lose her friendship. If she really is a genuine friend and was worried about you,she will understand why you got mad and panicked and will be happy to be your friend again,especially now that your mum knows.
2007-11-25 04:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother got scared and embarrassed. Whatever you did she didn't react very well and who can blame her? You shocked her! In time she will calm down. She loves you but doesn't know how to deal with the situation. Be brave and send her a card saying you are sorry that you disappointed her but that it won't happen again and that you love her very much. Do it right away! If it was a suicide thought or attempt you need to speak to your school counselor immediately. If were anything less you might be able to deal with it alone. Of course, the counseling will help no matter what it was because you feel so alone right now. Do NOT do anything you will regret. It was the right thing to tell your mom, so give yourself a pat on the back for that. I know it wasn't easy.
2007-11-25 09:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know what kind of mother your mum is to disown you like that. I mean i could understand your father but a mother should be closer to you than that How about your dad is he stil like that. try and get your friend back and ask your mother why she is doing this. If she was your mum she would have stuck by you and helped you. Maybe you could ring one of those hotlines for people who need advice. Im not really sure what to do from then but i hope it gets sorted out
xx
2007-11-25 04:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nadine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people on this website as you know can be a bit harsh the important thing is you dont listen to all the crap they put out. i think your mum was reacting at the spare of the moment but she shouldnt have disowe you like that you are her daughter who she is supposed to love and care for no matter if the gud bad and ugly happens.. maybe at this time she is not thinking straight and you need some time to let the dust settle.. as for your friend well she has let you down big time bullshit she was worried about you she shouldnt have threaten you like that now she has put you in a worster situation.. if you want more help and advice email me caroline.falzon@hotmail.co.uk
2007-11-25 05:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by sexy babes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I don't know what you've done and it's none of my business. If I were you I'd turn over a new leaf and try to earn these people's love and respect. Moms don't stay mad forever so you need to tell her you're sorry and that you will change. Your friend cares about you because I can tell in your letter. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
2007-11-25 04:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Pearl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your Mother have a lot of money? Well it doesnt matter anyway you must make your own money in life. As for the friend dump her friends are there to keep secrets, your Mother will get over it you are her child and parents love their children unconditionally, You will make new friends.... you do not need a Squealer because that is what your friend is.
2007-11-25 04:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a church, or councelling center nearby you? Usually 1 or both are open 24-7, and they will be able to help you at least find a temporary arrangement until you can come up with a solution.
2007-11-25 04:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by opieco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing surly can be that bad, you don't say what happened on Thursday. Your Mum was probably over reacting, calm down what about you Dad you don't mention him at all.
2007-11-25 04:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be what did on thursday night may be huge thing for your mum, but she wont disownd u for long she is trying to tell u something just give her time and every thing will be okay.
2007-11-25 04:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by haymi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm on being a mother....
I've dealt with some real hum dingers over the years, I have two adult children....so I have experience
Your mom may have freaked out on you hon but, she will settle down, do try talking to her again.......and remember to gently remind her that she said you could talk to her about anything ...........no judgement, no anger just listen and try and find the best solution to your prob lem.
Good luck and here's a hug from someone you don't even know who yes cares.........one day at a time and remember this ..... your mom may not know what to do about your problem
2007-11-25 04:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by wistaweee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋