description of my life....
age 19 turning 20 in a week
full time biology 3rd year college student
Live in Los Angeles and 1 hr commute to school
No Clubs
Hardly any friends
My school sucks with clubs because they are too late and are only on fridays. School hardly has sports.
I enjoy tennis, but theres only 1 person I play with and thats my best friend. He isn't great at tennis and it gets boring only playing him.
I play video games on my computer to kill time and I chat with a few people from my school on AIM.
My friends are generally girls and my best friend is gay. I am not gay.
I'm poor. I make 400 a month, and 200 goes to gas, the rest is about 150 bucks in food per month because I dont have time to cook and the bologna sandwich I make is getting boring. Anything else I make would be spoiled or gross by the time I get have lunch/dinner at school.
My schedule throughout the week is pretty pack except for weekends but then all my friends are busy on weekends
2007-11-25 22:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The friends I have never want to hang out. They're busy and this one girl that ask me to hang out with her every tuesday only wants to hang out because she has to kill 2-3 hrs before her next class and her form of hanging out is moving her car from 1 parking to the next as she vents on me about her problems... and I have suggest that we go out but she never pays for herself and I can't afford to pay her for all the time so... yeah... fun....
So how do I become more productive. I suck at dancing and singing... my friends don't ever want to do anything... I don't know what I like anymore...
Everything cost money and all i do is go to school and work. I love what im learning but I can't have a conversation geeky conversation since they don't know anything abuot that subject...
Oh yah! To make things worst... I dont even have cable or decent reception to have local channels work... so I can't even talk about the popular tv shows with my friends unless i watch it on my computer..
2007-11-25 22:31:14 · update #1
So to wrap it up... the things I do...
Computer computer computer...
youtube for anime...
chatting...
tennis... with only 1 guy (really boring)
video games...
music... but no one talks abuot music
school and work basically everyday except weekends
I dunno how to dance or sing...
none of my firends want to hang out... they are too busy and all they ask is "when are we gonna hang"
so what the hell can I do that would make life a lil more intresting...
2007-11-25 22:33:58 · update #2
oh and my best friend is getting really annoying because hes a pot head and he is being too analytical about stupid things. He thinks the world is watching his every move, listening to every word he says, and every body gesture anybody does is a sign that they are talking crap about him or sometihng about him and he must figure out whats going on. So all our conversations we talk about now arent about what we are interested in but how one should behave in this world to be accepted by others, and how he should act so others are not negative towards him. A simple "be safe" from his grandma could mean "shes probably searching around my room and thinks im going to go do drugs or have sex with 10 other guys" when it was obvious she just meant have fun beacuse we were going to watch a movie... really its getting quite pathetic and annoying...
2007-11-25 22:41:09 · update #3
And yeah I have thought abuot moving out my house to live closer in school but the school i go to is primarily a commuter school so hardly any of my friends will move out there... also most of my friends already live near there with their families so there. Also my mom won;t let me move out because rent to her is always "too high" and she won't help. I asked my best friend if he was going to live up by school once he transfer in but he said no, hes going to drive, so the best option I have now is to carpool with him if possible. =/
2007-11-25 22:46:44 · update #4
response to 3rd person commenting: (btw :thanks for commenting everyone)
yah I tell them lets go do this on so and so and they say... "nope cant, I'm broke, will you pay?", "nope, can't too busy", "we will see", "nope can't because something just came up", then after the day passes and i go hang out doing whatever that day, "they would say, we should hang out!?"... I'm like "oh rly!!?!!??"
2007-11-25 22:50:10 · update #5
so here i am, learning about geeky mechanisms for organic chemistry... THE JOYS OF LIFE! thanks all, great answers and if you got any more ideas, keep em comin. I'll be up all night studying like a true geek with no talent.
2007-11-25 22:53:17 · update #6
have you thought about asking your friends about getting an apartment together closer to school ? the money you use on gas could go toward rent and if there is enough of you , you may be able to get your rent down , that way you could go home for lunch if you wanted , and it wouldnt be so late to stay for a club meeting on fridays , have you thought about a part time job ? even a job for weekends ? try going to church , most have young adult activities that would help you meet more people and it could help lift your spirits..
2007-11-25 22:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of self pity, your time would be better spent trying to make new friends. There has to be clubs or other activities that are available to you. You must look for them. Maybe you can't make any friends, because you are too close to a pot head too. Everything worthwhile in life has to be earned. Just struggle through, and your life will get better once you get into the real world and make a career for yourself.
2007-11-25 22:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel so bad about yourself :~)
Do you play solitaire? What about Peanutbutter & Jelly
sandwiches?
Maybe you could schudle something w/ one of your friends
A couple of weeks in advance, just keep reminding them so they can't say they forgot about it when the time comes :~)
You'll have A good job and money in the future, then you could probably get A nice woman!
2007-11-25 22:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym, borrow someones dog and take it walks. be friendly and open to new experiences. If you hear of something that you would like to do, then do it by yourself. All of these ideas have great potential for making friends.
2007-11-25 22:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People severely ought to get a existence and be trained to revel in it P&S must be a laugh there must be no flawed solutions or questions right here that is what surveys are does nobody get that?
2016-09-05 14:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋