dating someone who questions my interest in every male friend I have. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time like he's going to find something out and blast me when it's purely innocent. It's affecting my feelings towards him and while we were progressing quite nicely, I feel like we've taken a step backwards now...what do you do?
2007-11-25 23:21:34 · 34 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-25 23:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so strange and so sad, this situation about jealousy is one I often encounter at the beginning of a relationship but no one sees it for what it is at the time.
So often I have heard from people around me the expression: Oh!!!!! He is sooo in to me, he rings me six seven times a day, he never leaves me alone when we go out ,he is soo attentive he never leaves my side, a few months or years late the wake up call
All we can do is to learn to recognize the signs very early on
2007-11-25 23:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Loretta M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm insanely jealous and I will never change. I learned this about myself late in life, when I fell in love with someone.I am insecure and no matter how many times someone tells me they are honest, I will not totally believe them. My jealousy is in proportion to my love/ strength of feeling. More I love, the more jealous I am. People leave me all the time for this reason. You need to decide really, if you could put up long term with someone who is like me. This guy will never change. You will never fully win his trust. It's up to you if you live your life with a jealous person.
2007-11-25 23:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by susieboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get out now if I were you. I've been in a relationship that started off great where the guy got more and more obsessively jealous and would question me if I wore make up or did my hair differently and ended up with physical fights.
2007-11-25 23:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and dump him quick. This is typical behavior for abusive men. They start out with the control thing, become verbally abusive and then physically abusive. As my momma always said "Honey, There are a lot of pebbles on the beach"
Move on and find a more compatible pebble!
2007-11-25 23:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Free Thinker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. Explain that his jealousy is pushing you away and if he doesnt do something he will lose you and obviously this is his big fear.
If this doesnt work then walk away even if only a short time so that he realises what he has done. He needs to change his behaviour not you. Hopefully by explaining to him how his behaviour is effecting you it might facilitate his change.
2007-11-25 23:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Redhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to flirt with guys around him too much... If you do talk to guys, introduce them to him... Show him you have nothing to hide and built up your trust with him. Don't just leave him there and talk to some guy he don't know. That very rude and seem like you like that other guy more than him.
Jealousy like that are cause by not knowing the real relationship of the other guy your talking to.
If that don't work then just leave him because it would only get worst.
2007-11-25 23:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by cheng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without mutual trust no relationship can survive. your partner needs to prove his trust in you or it may be time to move on. I am presuming that you have done nothing to warrant his jealousy and that it is just his own insecurities that are causing these feelings. You may have to sit him down and explain the problems his jealousy is causing...if he still cannot or will not change then it may indeed be time for pastures new.
2007-11-25 23:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not my place to offer advice, but i think if he can't tolerate You having male friends, then You need someone better than him! You should not have to walk on eggshells because of him...
2007-11-26 00:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by sAm cbt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him really jealous by making him think you're cheating on him or sth like that. At some point arrange a fake date with sb(sb he knows you wouldn't do anything with), when he barges in to catch you red-handed and sees you're with him he'll get so angry at himself for letting his jealousness get the best of him he'll start seeing things with a lighter point of view.
P.S. It really works, you can believe it.
2007-11-25 23:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Funny looking somebodies avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋