I'm already 55 years old and have met a very young, beautiful, and sexy girl age 28, I don't know whether this is a true love or what? She told me that she loved me as I do, I'm not a rich man but a successful engineer and still I have some traces of a good looking man, I'm little bit attractive...with the situation, I'm in of course a worried guy...please I need your feedback regarding on this issue whether to stop or what...I can't give the full time in loving her because of my occupation and my of age as well...
2007-11-25 22:37:58 · 12 answers · asked by Nainai55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure what to make of it, to be honest. But when two of my best friends (one is a homosexual boy) aged 16 and 17 starting dating older men between 50 and 54 i was trully worried for both.
But the news was coming from them, so it was more of a worry that way, because i didn't know about these men they were dating or what they were like or what they expected from my friends...
But coming from the man himself (you), it feels a little different. You sound really nice and quite responsible, too.
There's always the difficulites of age, though... what if you and this girl were to marry? she wouldn't be your spouse, she would be more like a carer.
Age really shouldn't be a problem when it comes to love, though. Because somewhere out there, there is someone for everyone, reguardless of age, sex, race etc.
If you feel she really loves you and you really love her, then sit her down and talk about the difficulties and what she *really* thinks about the age difference.
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks, if you both feel happy together then there is no wrong in being with eachother.
Good luck
Stacey
2007-11-25 22:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by lLOnIDon=Wonderland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, life has a way of sorting itself out on its own. Enjoy the ride and ride it till the wheels fall off! You only get one go round in this world; sitting around worrying about how or why other people do their thing is fruitless. That moron that said 'gold-digger' is just hating because he's probably younger than your GF; and with that lame attitude of his, can't get a woman no matter what her age...lol
2007-11-25 22:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As they say....."Drive it like you stole it" my friend. Enjoy the ride and let the pieces fall where they may. I'm all for it and I'm a firm believer that your only as old as you feel, and at 28...she's GOT to be making you feel young. Good luck and all the best!
2007-11-25 22:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tranzdekk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to start a family. She will need to be prepared to replace your income when you retire in 10 years. If you both agree to the pressures, you should do just fine.
2007-11-25 22:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a big age difference, but it is almost cute considering you are getting older and a vibrant girl which is hard to find at your age likes you!...you should feel lucky and take the opporatunity and try what you can..make sure she knows you will try.
2007-11-25 22:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her the things she like about you and maybe you'll learn how to keep her. If it is true love then "age doesn't matter".
you have to figure things out by spending time talking to her and be open to anything she has to say.
2007-11-25 22:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by << jaguar >> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is old enough to run her own life she will decide what is best for her just go with the flow.
2007-11-25 22:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by yksrep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its love what does age have anything to do with it, its just a number, wish you all the best
by the way...you aint old
2007-11-25 22:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a test or something like this in order to find our if she is with you because she really likes you or because she is after your money
talk to her your experience is higher than yours so -----
2007-11-25 22:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
golddigger.. haha
sucks to be you.. because you want to go out with her so much.. but you know things are going to hit the fan as soon as you get married! haha.. seen it happen before.. how come you dont chase someone your own age..
2007-11-25 22:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by No use for a name! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋