Ok, so I've dated this beautiful lady for a year and a half now and things have been going well. The first few weeks were wonderful, we went out and had fun. But now it feels like fulfilling some routine. We see each other almost every day (her insistence) and we've been to most fun places so we dont go out for fun as much anymore. I've suggested different things but it seems she's not up for it. Guys, please help - what can I do to spice it up? This is the longest rel I've been in. How do married people survive?
2007-11-25 22:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
married guys survive because they do not have to ask for help they think for themselves or discuss it with their wives it is amazing what talking , not argueing can do and giving not taking, not using or abusing, treat a female with respect and you will be a happy little chappy in all ways
2007-11-25 22:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer may sound weird to u. but its the fact. love comes not through the physical bond but through the emotional bond. try this way. don't think that its a routine. if you guys really like each other u can stay distance apart and have fun. only that kind of relationship lasts for a lifetime. that sort of relationship will never leave you with boredom.
2007-11-26 06:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by poornima_durairaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont see eachother everyday!!
i see my b/f of 3 and a half years 4 times a week at MOST, you need your own life to go out with friends to do your own thing, you need to talk to her say how this is making u feel, being bored already so early, thats not good, me and my b/f have just got through our bored/routine faze and we have been intimate for 7 years, relationship 3 and a half years.
time apart give people the oppotunity to miss eachother and the excitement of seeing eachother.
2007-11-26 06:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besdies more sex? So it's been a year... its ok to take breathers ya know.... dont have to see her everyday.... you can go a few days or even a week. and when you do meet up, you dont have to spend the entire day together...
2007-11-26 06:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by シ Pete 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are now getting the taste of marriage my man
try organising a surprise trip to somewhere exciting if that falls flat time to run
2007-11-26 06:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by bellyfatpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should give her a wild uncontrolled sex, that would help ! When everything fails only sex can save relationships !
2007-11-26 06:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by javornik1270 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't see each other for a while. so you'd miss each other's company then there might be an excitement.
2007-11-26 08:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might as well move in with her
2007-11-26 06:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by Big kid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i strongly suggest to you to follow poornima's suggstion...because when i read your question i am also thinking like this way to give answer.but the same answer is exist. so ...............carry on...........all the best........
2007-11-27 22:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋