my husband take a shower twice to 3 times a week esp its cold. And its really bothering me, the muskie smell down there u know...but i dont know how to tell him with out hurting his feelings.
2007-11-28 21:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just tell him,"i love your natural scent, but i love it more when you're fresh from the shower..." or just tell him jokingly,you love a "soap-scented-down-there." that will give him the idea.or if you see that he's in the mood to,you know,candidly ask him,"go take a shower dear,i'll just be right here...waitin'.....can't wait." then give him a wink.haha
2007-11-28 22:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by αςhα ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he does need a shower.
My husband doesn't even offer to make love unless he's had a shower. And if by some chance he does offer without taking a shower, there's no oral and he knows it.
2007-11-29 02:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it truly is the biggest element. And my spouse "fell out of love" with me many years in the past and that i basically couldn't take it anymore. At that factor, you change into similar to room friends. if you're like me, you're taking it actual personal even as the guy you want would not love you anymore and it shows, and it type of eats away your self esteem and happiness. And my spouse turned right into a foul room mate. So i could not take it anymore and we chop up. in certain situations marriages basically go on like that. they can't love eachother continuously or it will be only a section. yet that calls for both one in all you to be solid room friends (pulling your own weight, being respectful, etc) and for the sensation to be mutual or a minimum of for the unloved individual to no longer be delicate about it and the out-of-love individual to no longer experience a favor for further interest.
2016-10-25 04:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not suggest taking a shower together. You get in and then ask him to join you. Soaping each other up can be very sensual! You can also suggest making love in the shower. As they say,that way you can kill 2 birds with one stone!
2007-11-28 22:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Linda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your husband. Tell him that if he wants you to make love to him, he needs to shower every day because it gets an odor down there that turns you off.
2007-11-28 21:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend gets like that sometimes. I just tell him that it's about time he had a shower. He doesn't get offended cos he knows it's true lol.
2007-11-28 21:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him!!! OMG!!!! He is your husband!!!! If he does not listen to you, then leave him, until he gets himself clean "down Under".
Can you imagine that you are not only sleeping with him in bed , but also sleeping with the little critters under the sheets also, you might get a skin disease or worse thanks to him, and you go down there also????
Ewwwwwww!!!!!!!
2007-11-28 21:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if it didnt make me sick.however to get him in the shower offer to jump in with him,scrub him up (guys actually like to have agood backscrub)get him all squeaky clean then give him one hell of a ******* that will get him to want to bath more regularly--it works!
2007-11-28 21:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by dm24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not care if it hurt his feelings because it is hurting our intimacy. I would say hell no....and stick him in the shower with me included and show him how to wash his jewels!!!
2007-11-28 21:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're gonna take a shower and ask him to join you. when he gets in, lather that soap up and offer to get his back, etc.!
2007-11-28 21:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋