ok, the past 2 months of my life have been a NIGHTMARE. one night i went to sleep and my bf of 5 years told me how much he loved me and asked me to spend forever with him and were planning a trip to boston. And the next day i woke up and got "hit by a brick wall". I found out from the other girl that my bf had been cheating on me for 8 months. He knew this girl had hpv and he still continued to cheat on me! when i found out he begged, cried, pleaded. He went completely physco for a few days and when i told him id give him a second chance.(stupid me). he said nevermind and already had another GF!! He even turned his family against me, which we used to be close. I have never done a single bad thing to this guy. What a nightmare. What is this guy doing? Does he know how horrible this is?
2007-11-28 21:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will he ever regret what he has done to me?
2007-11-28 21:57:52 · update #1
Did you wind up with HPV? If not cut your losses and run.
2007-11-28 21:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come back to bite him on the **** one day. It is hard but try and forget him. Don't waste anymore of your precious life on the cheating dog. You can choose to move on and not give your precious time and energy thinking about him.
His family will see what he is like one day, if they don't already know. The chances are people know deep down what he is like, but they don't want to cause a family arguement, so they just let him do it.
Go and get checked by a doctor for peace of mind, and then make a plan for something new and exciting to do next week. Then try and plan something to keep you busy so you won't think about him. Christmas is coming... you could get some friends together for a few drinks and make some gifts or cakes etc for presents.
he doesn't deserve one more minute of your time.. and revenge is just giving him more of you... you deserve better.
Hope you have a nice christmas!
2007-11-28 22:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by kgmort k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD RIDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH
Brit, such guy is not worth your worries. Stop brooding over a devil that would have suceeded in luring you to marriage before unleashing his evil acts on you. My dear, see him as good riddance to bad rubish, he doesn't deserve you; you deserve a better guy who'll love, appreciate and be faithful to you.
Brit,like I've always told people; second chance often ends up in disaster, so, get him off your mind. Take him as a poison to your heart and disaster to your future, and before you know it, you'll get over him. Can't you see he doesn't appreciate a lady of your type? If he could break up from you after five years, why worry over him? My dear, be courageous and determined to move on this time around much stronger and wiser, OK?
More importantly, remember a saying: 'Once beaten, twice shy', you've failed completely in this regards, and you look stupid, but will be the stupidest if you make yourself vulnerable to any guy again. So, I'll advise you take your time to make friends for almost a year before thinking of any relationship, by then, you'll have much been stronger to start a relationship and outsmart any guy who may want to fool you.
Nonetheless, pray often for God's guidiance, so, you don't make yourself a victim of love again. Best of luck
2007-11-28 23:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by everforlove1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ufortunately he knows how horrible this is and also he knows how sweet and accomodating you are, its your sweet nature and unpossesive style bought you into this mess. Now that you have told him ok to the second chance, dont make it easy for him, keep him on a tight leash, usually guys do first and think later, so make him think, think, think before he does anything, he begged you for second chance because you are not like other girls, he is afraid to loose your goodness and still play around with your goodness with other people. Yuck !!!
2007-11-28 21:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Syed M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
wat an asshole
the best advice i can give u is probly to just forget him
from the sound of it, u can do much better then some guy whose just going to cheat and lie to u
and is hpv contagious??
coz if it is then even better xD
not only will he have lost the best thing in his life, but hell b scratching his nuts for the rest of his life
so just try to move on
i no it hurts but time heals all wounds
hope this helped =]
2007-11-28 21:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You have THAT happen to you and you have to ask for advice from strangers?
You need to get away from this guy and forget he ever existed. He is scum. Yeah I sure bet he knows what he did is horrible, but the kicker is that he likely doesn't CARE.
What he is doing is being a selfish prick. Dump him and move on with your life, the sooner the better for you!
2007-11-28 21:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by loggerbomb1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi britt, this is really a bad thing.....i am so sorry for all that nightmare thingy pls forget about him and if he is the real man into your life he will get serious with you someday.....got to have life and leave the nightmare he has caused and have loads of fun......keep in touch at june_karee@yahoo.co.uk
2007-11-28 21:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by June 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are just jerks. They dun mind what they say and use words only to placate females. They think females are easy to trample all over. Honey, forget about him and start anew. You wasted enough time on him...
2007-11-28 21:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by thetagal13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you shouldn't worry about him, move on and hopefully you'll meet a decent guy who will treat you better. The guy isn't worth any of your time getting upset.
2007-11-28 21:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by pagey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want him u r the winner and for the hpv that is no game or no cure go se your gyn or local health dept as son as u can
2007-11-28 21:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋