Ladies,,,, please answer, I understand that,,,?

Question

women say that men will be men, when it comes to men looking at other women while they have girlfrends/wives... My question to you is:
Wouldn't you rather your man be wholly Captivated by you, and have no need to look at another woman? To know that you captivate him to the point where you are worth pursuing even after being married 30 years? that His desire is to you? Let's ask ourselves this: What is the real reason behind us men looking at other women?

my point exactly saodaji

Answer 1

if my only desire can be my man, why shouldnt i be able to be the only desire for him? i only want what i can offer in return.

Answer 2

It is quite simple. I like the female form.
I like to look and try to put a story with the vision much like looking at art in a museum.
As a people watcher I prefer women.
That being said, I've "read the menu" plenty but have never ordered in 30+ years of marriage.
But really, if I lose interest in the female form would it not follow that I would also lose interest in my wife's form as well?

It seems a fallacy that one woman can captivate a man forever. People change and grow, or should. What becomes of that change without some comparison and goal.

It is also why I have no belief in "soulmates". That kind of relationship does not just exist. It happens because it is nurtured constantly.

Answer 3

The real reason men look at women is because their sight is their sharpest sense. Since the beginning of time, men were the hunters. Their sight is invaluable.. Men love to look...at anything...it don't matter what. The only way a man won't look is for them to be blind. I think there is a right way and a wrong way for men to look at women. If they glance briefly, and look away, I think it ok but if they look and continue to stare, that is wrong and of course, that would upset me if my man did that. And you are correct, men will be men and there is nothing we can do about it. We can no more change you guys than you can change us girls. We get together and then we try to change each other. Most of us spend most of our lives trying to change the other. Don't know why but that is what we do..But...if you've noticed, we still want to be together. . .We just NEED each other in our lives. . . .

Answer 4

Everyone looks at everyone. Women do it as well. It isn't just men. Just because you think someone looks attractive or pretty doesn't mean that you are lusting after them. It's almost like going to a museum...you appreciate the fine art but you aren't willing to pay the price to take it home right? Well, people can appreciate the beauty in life without it meaning anything sexual. I can look at both men and women and appreciate their features, but my heart is with my significant other. There is no emotional connection with this guy that I just saw at the store.

Answer 5

women anybody is for intercourse and not lots else. Your difficulty right here is you anticipate a woman to be for some thing extra suitable than intercourse and that's purely her handy excuse for failing in that ability. in case you have been 25 and single, you may get an identical effect yet a distinctive excuse. Have intercourse with the ladies human beings, and don't even bring up something previous that nighttime's around of intercourse and it will sparkling up the difficulty.

Answer 6

I'll but it to you another way Garret! I HAVE been married for 31 years and to tell the truth my husband works much to much to have enough time or energy to look at to many different woman. Working in an almost all men's die maker shop 12 hours a day, coming home dead tired.........I would say YES he only has eyes for me, the one who cleans his house, washes his clothes, fixes his meals, loves him unconditionally and keeps the home lights burning.

Yes his eyes are on me even after 31 years.

nfd♥

Answer 7

They are comparing their women to the women of other men! They are just checking out what models the other guys are getting this year, just as they do with cars, boats, all their possessions! You know how men are with their toys, "Mine is a newer model. Well mine goes faster." ETC!! It's just in their genes. They have to compare and brag! I know they make their wifes mad when they do this but they just can't help themselves!!!

Answer 8

I am married to the man who is Captivated by me. But he is so because he loves Jesus more than he loves me. And for that I am grateful and joyful.

Answer 9

hmmm... what is the real reason that some men look at other women (when they are supposed to be committed)... well, truth is some women do this as well! in my opinion, they have no idea what respect, loyalty, devotion, committment, faithfulness...etc... means...

Answer 10

Looking at other women is perfectly okay; it is normal. Women look at other men also. It is when they do more than look that it becomes a problem.

I already know he pursues me and I captivate him, as I do him; that is one thing that keeps your marriage going; not losing those feelings.

Answer 11

I dont understand why men look at other women, but to be fair there are just as many women that look at other men. Their just not as vocal about it.

But I dont look at other men, so I believe there are men out there who dont look at other women. There has to be both out there right?

I suppose its just nature for people (I dont like to generalize it to men), I mean you could have a perfect steak infront of you at dinner, but then your friend have a hamburger, and think that looks good. Same goes for everything else, if you have a nice house doesnt mean you dont comment on someone elses house looking nice to.

I dont like knowing my spouse looks at other women, if he does that his business, but I dont want it vocalized to me.