How to select a perfect partner?

Answer 1

Before you even start looking for a partner make a list of what you want, and what you dont want. If you want someone who is well educated, then dont date someone who isnt well educated. (same goes for religion, personality, ect).

And then under what you dont want, if you dont want a smoker and find out the person smokes, put an end to the relationship AT THAT MOMENT. Dont drag it out, and get more emotionally involved with something you knew you didnt want in the first place, but figured you could settle for it. (same goes with how they treat you, if they get along with your family, if they play video games all day, ect)

Stick to the list of whats is most important to you. You will never find someone who is perfect for you. But a relationship is about compermise. And picking your battles. You may be able to live with someone who doesnt open the door for you, but might not be able to deal with someone who doesnt show affection.

Keep the main things in eye, and learn to deal with the little things, thats the key.

Answer 2

No existing person is a perfect partner....
Perfectness comes with compromise with others and mostly if u love love someone and marry, u automatically compromise with her in all the areas....leads to happy life
before selecting a perfect partner..try to be a perfect partner for others....
My view is giving value to partner ideas and compromising will gives the pefectness to the life.........

Answer 3

If you are waiting to find the PERFECT partner, you are going to be alone for a very long time. Nobody is perfect.

That being said: You find the mate who has the fewest flaws (and the ones you can live with), then you work on the relationship for the rest of your life. Relationships are a series of gives and takes, and full of compromises.

Answer 4

sweetie just so you will know THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT PERSON OR PARTNER for that matter. you are not perfect so what makes you think that you will find a perfect partner. you may find that a person may have ten of out the twelve character traits that you are looking for but thats it you will never find a partner that will have all twelve. GodBless

Answer 5

There is no such thing. A relationship requires work, understanding, unselfishness, compatibility, diligence, maturity, respect for the other for starters. A little love mixed in between may also help. Since no one is perfect for anyone else (and how can they be), at best maybe you can gain a few moments of perfection. Opt for happiness instead, it's more obtainable for a longer period of time.

Answer 6

There is no such thing. Just decide what is most important to you in a partner, and look for someone that will fill that bill. If that person happens to be more, then you have become a very lucky person. If not, at least you have what means the most to you in life.

Answer 7

Sometimes you don't select. Sometimes they just find you in some random moment in time. Make sure that you can talk to the person. I mean really talk to and be able to share everything. The butterflies come and go, but having someone you can talk to and laugh with is something that never goes away if it is a real relationship.

Answer 8

There are no perfect partners. You just have to find someone which closely meets your specifications.

Answer 9

Don't be in a hurry to get married.

With a long engagement... no matter how many relationships you will have... at least you'll get to know them.

And we have a saying... that you will never know the person... if you will not be under one roof.

So don't be afraid. If you really wanna know the guy you'll gonna marry ...live with him for a couple of months and you will see the real him......

Answer 10

first Betty69 is right , but being Friend's is all way's the best thing that way you know who the person is. and in my adventures not expecting it is also good because when i wasn't even looking or a date it just happen so don't rush it let it happen