my boyfriend has straight F's in school..
and he ditches alot with his friends and
im trying to help him and im askin
him if he could please stop ditching and TRY to
bring up his grades....and now it seems like
hes mad at me and he just doesnt want to
try..right now hes probly talking smack on me to his friends
but do you think i should just butt out of his buisness?
i really care about him and i just want to see him succeed..i KNOW he can do it..he just doesnt try..
we've been dating for almost a year now,
and i havent scolded him or anything
ive actually been crying about it all of today, and he knows it too..
he just makes excuses to not talk to me while im crying
>.<
2007-11-28 22:37:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKay for one thing, a lot of guys try to avoid their girls when theyre all emotional and teary. So talk to him when youre OK.
If he gets mad at you for trying to straighten up his life and he doesnt want to, then break up with him. Tell him that he has to realize things, and that you just tried to motivate him to dig up some sh*t for his own good cause you feel you have this kind of responsibility to do so. If he wants you to stop guiding him, then youll have to break up with him.
2007-11-28 22:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by illusory_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee lets see dont do anything that way when your older and get married to him he can sit around playin xbox and takin naps while your at work makin money to support him wow what a girlfriend what a good father hes gonna be teaching life skill to your children how did you get so lucky to have found such a good man hey maybe you should just start doing the drugs with him or whatever it is that hes doing that way you can be a loser in life to that would make your family proud and its nice to hear how caring and understanding he is about your feelings what a guy YOU CANNOT HELP THOSE THAT WILL NOT HELP THEMSELVES SO QUIT WASTING YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE ON SOMEONE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!butt out of his business and stay out of it for good you girls crack me up you always go for the bad boy and then cry because he doesn't change
2007-11-28 22:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only try so much just let him know that when hes ready to be mature enough and get his crap together that youll be there to help..u mightn ot wanna tell him when hes mature enough he might get made lol but yea id leave him alone about it untill hes ready no use fighting about something he doesnt care about right now
2007-11-28 22:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him now and don't look back unless you like living in a trailer park eating leftover fast food from your boyfriends job.
2007-11-28 22:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mickeytopdog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. He obviously has no ambition or plans for his future. He is literally a dead en!!! Do you want to be taking care of him for the rest of your life, because with no education he is not going to amount to much!!!
2007-11-28 22:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and maybe he'll realize that he needs to take life a little more seriously. If not, who needs the lazy bum.
2007-11-28 22:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only help him so much, just ask him if he wants you to carry on helping him and if he doesn't then give up and move on because hes not worth it, you can only do so much, ou just need to decide when to call it a day
2007-11-28 22:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
school is not for everyone. Perhaps you could encourage him towards something like a trade etc., or something he is interested in.
2007-11-28 22:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ivor L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it seams like hes using you. hell if you done my work for me then id probably be like that too. maybe you need to take a break and see how much he misses you. let him know ur the boss and your not kidding.
2007-11-28 22:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by mommie to be to baby boy! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a loser....you need to dump his sorry ****
2007-11-28 22:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋