Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

I want to get rid of my uncle who smokes like crazy s***s in our toilet evry 2 days and eats out of our fridge so much its not funny but he thinks he's funny me and my dad hate him on a couple of different occasions my dad yells "I want that piece of S*** cancerface (he's had cancer) off my damn couch!" but my mother and sister love him and one of them cry when he leaves he's been here since july and he's gotta go but when i ask my mom can he leave she says "Don't you want him here???" Me and my dad want him to leave what should me and my dad do???

2007-12-04 23:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I lost my daughter in a house fire on 8/29/07 she was 12 yrs old. I cannot deal with all the drama of my family. I haven't spoke to my family. I have had to deal w/the loss of my daughter, my home and my family. I need help to be forgiving. Any and all suggestions is appreciated. Right now I stay clear of them all, to heal.

2007-12-04 23:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by BQ 1 in Family

hi ladies

i am meeting up with this girl in two days and she texted me back saying this:

'im really sorry mate but i have so many things to do, so there is a chance we might have to cancel. but for plans what would be great is cafe aldons at 2pm?'

she called me mate? lol...what is that about? ladies is she letting me know that i am nothing but a friend? or is she treating me like a friend first and waiting to see if im a potential partner? i thought i picked up some flirting signals from her! ladies? what do you think!? date or not? thx

2007-12-04 23:23:02 · 14 answers · asked by lololololo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men should stay our of holes that they do not have a license to enter... So many men crawl into any hole available and women let them.....How dumb is this?

2007-12-04 23:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any suggestions for him and me

2007-12-04 23:12:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She'll be 19. She complains about how since her birthday is right after Christmas, it never feels special.

Keep in mind I'm a college student who doesn't have a ton of cash.

I know 11 months isn't a huge deal, not quite a year, so I probably won't make too much out of it, but the rest...

2007-12-04 23:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by madman90001988 1 in Singles & Dating

Lately I have found myself too controlling at home husband kid and to a small amount at work although home is worse.I find myself telling my 7yr old if her bobbles arent straight or if my husband wants someting for dinner he should have something more healthy instead .It drives me mad so god knows how they put up with it.However if I don't say what I am thinking it eats up inside until I have to blurt it out.I never used to be like this

2007-12-04 22:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do I have to book hotel rooms for all our guests who are attending? Or will they book and pay themselves?

2007-12-04 22:56:47 · 22 answers · asked by dizzy l 1 in Weddings

I like a boy. he is very graceful. He is my very good friend. how to know his feelings? how to express my feelings?

2007-12-04 22:49:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

been with bf for almost 3 years. been up and down due to me having pmdd that i struggle with (seeing a counselor and take meds). i also have 3 kids that i care for part-time. i'm 28 and he's 29-no kids,never married.

we've discussed living together-marriage and said one way or the other things had to be figured out by this Feb when my apt lease is up. so far, plan is for me to move in with him (my cat and over half my stuff is at his house now)

got into a little tiff today mostly due to me being a little moody and tired. things seemed ok when we left for work but he won't email or call me back.

a friend of his back home in IL emails him from time to time and emailed him to see how things were w/his life and w/me.

he emailed back not saying anything about me so the friend asked again. he emailed the friend back saying he didnt mention me the first time b/c things are the same-one week good, the next bad. more below and important-please read!!

2007-12-04 22:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 nearly 14 and i am going out with this guy and i often sleep over his house his mum sleeps around and he is trying to make me have sex. he doesn't have a condom and i sneak out he is saying that he will use the pulout method as safe sex is that a safe sex method?

2007-12-04 22:36:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Omg I dont know what to do. My mother in law is married to a sexual predator and she lives with us. I just found out what he was in jail for how to i get him out of my house, my mom has no where else to go. and to boot he is not even registered with this county should i report him?

2007-12-04 22:35:02 · 27 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

didnt people say dont be clingy...but be there for her and give her lots of attention

um...how does that work? how can u be in the middle

2007-12-04 22:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

we are 4 daughers and one son to our fatther. He is a businessman. we all are married. Now father says only 10% of the property will be given to us and rest 90% will be to his son as every property he earned. Also he made to us sign a agreement that we wont claim in future in his sons property. Now around 30% of property are registered in our mothers name and rest on my father and brother. He also making efforts to register the mothers share on sons name.
Basically our grand father had some property and with that he started business. But now father says everything to his son and he had spend a lot to us for marraige. Can we 4 daughters claim equal share in fathers property, even if he going to write a will for son, our mother also supports us but afraid of father.

2007-12-04 22:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Radhika2007 1 in Family

She has a boyfriend for almost 5 years. He is away and she madly falls inlove with another guy with really strong feelings. They go through fantastic moments. Moments and feelings she sais she never went through before.
She loves her boyfriend though and tells him the truth. He wants to try for their relationship and she agrees even though she is inlove with someone else. She wants to try and get the new guy of her mind. Will her relationship ever be back to normal and will she be able to fall back inlove with her boyfriend and lose her feelings for the new guy?

2007-12-04 22:29:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Query regarding a friend it is not me.

2007-12-04 22:26:45 · 4 answers · asked by crumblecustard 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for nearly 3 years. We have opposite bedrooms because he claims I'm to restless when I sleep. Now the sex thing has became less and less, he claims its because of his new workout routine that leaves him to exhausted and it affects him. I pay all the bills and then he'll write me a check for 1/2. But the past 3 months he will usually give his portion 2 weeks or more after the fact. I've discussed this with him to no avail. I'm quite miserable at this point, and frankly I'm not comfortable in this situation. Any input would be appreciated.

2007-12-04 22:19:25 · 20 answers · asked by Desert D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i been with my boyfriend for around 5 months but i fancied him for a year before we got together.
I think about him all the time, i miss him so much when he isnt around and when we are spending time together i never wana leave him, he makes me so happy..and i feel so much for him..i love him more than life itself and i dont ever wanna lose him.
he says he feels the same as well. everytime i see him my heart skips a beat..before he wanted a break for a few days and i cried day and nightt..and now we are back together i cudnt be happier.
i feel like im the luckiest woman in the world
am i in love?

2007-12-04 22:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work for my ex-husband. We've worked together for 4 years and we've been divorced for 3. Most of the time things sail smoothly but this week we had a huge argument (cause he's a jerk) and he suspended me for 1 day cause I talked back at him. I am going back to work this morning and I am still full of rage cause he won't let me explain myself. I need to learn how to shut up!!!

2007-12-04 22:15:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 and my mother is EXTREMELY ANGRY AT ME i ruined her "meat teeth" yesterday ( i clean her teeth daily) and yesterday before mother gave me a bath she told me to clean out her "meat teeth" (the ones she eats meat with) so i cleaned them out and accidentally dropped them in the garbage dissposel !!!!!! I didn't know what to do... So while mother was bathed me i told her " i accidentally ruined your meat teeth" she then loss it and went CRAZY!! The first thing she did was rip me out of the bath and sit me on her lap and give me spanking. She then told me i cant come out of my room and here i am now? How should i handle this? I'm 26 year old man and i do have to go to work tomorow, but mother has me on punishment? How can i get her to stop being angry with me?

2007-12-04 22:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by alex555 1 in Family

2007-12-04 22:13:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 22:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i know that the majority of people will say you need to have individual activities when you're in a relationship and you should not be together all the time. However, in my circumstance my boyfriend and i have always done everything together. we still talked to our friends and everything but when we would go out we would go out together to hang out with them. we basically spent every spare moment together and we have classes together in college. we were like this until over the past few months, hes suddenly been wanting to go out with his friends alone and gets mad if i want to go. also this goes along with my last posted question go read it to further understand. but im just wondering if im crazy for being concerned about this sudden change?

2007-12-04 22:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

I just proposed to my girlfriend and she said yes! :) I want to buy her a beautiful ring, but I am not a rich man and I need some advice.

First off, I'm looking to spend $1000 to $1500 and I have no idea how much rings cost, and what I can get for that.

I'm thinking a simple but elegant white gold ring, with a moderate size diamond. A stone in proportion to the ring, that will have a nice sparkle to it. Meaning, not too small, but not a huge rock either.

What are the chances of being able to afford a pink diamond?

A. What kind of options am I looking at with my criteria?

B. What jeweler would you recommend?

I'm in the vicinity of Phoenix, Scottsdale and Prescott, Arizona.

2007-12-04 22:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Have you ever told someone you love them even simultaneously as you are breaking up with them? WHY? Is it because you want to hurt them as much as humanly possible?

2007-12-04 22:00:02 · 5 answers · asked by Sailor Rick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl I really like who also know how I feel about her - that I just don't like her as a friend. I can't quite know how she feels about me though. She once told me that she really doesn't know how she feels about me. She seems to at least like me somewhat though. She tells me that she doesn't really know the things she want. Her most often used expression is actually "I don't know." I asked her once if she liked me even somewhat - clarifying that I wasn't asking her if she like-liked me. She said she thinks so (not a promising answer..). Bottomline... I wanna know how she feels about me - even if she doesn't herself know. She seems to be the type of person that can't tell what they themselves want. Do you guys think she does like me the same way I like her? Any other advice to is welcome too.

2007-12-04 21:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who is always late - sometimes by ten minutes, sometimes thirty, but consistently late. She knows she is, she often says to me, "Sorry, I know I'm always late." It didn't bother me that much until recently, when she said, "The only thing I'm never late for is work, because I'm afraid of being fired."

This made me feel really unimportant - yes, if you are always late for work you can lose your job. But if you are always late meeting a friend you could lose that friend. Perhaps she doesn't realise this?

I'm not sure whether to confront her about her lateness, because I don't think she is uncaring, I think she is just one of those people who leaves things til the last minute.

Should I have a talk to her about it, or just start giving her an earlier time to turn up to meet me?

2007-12-04 21:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by jasmine 3 in Friends

infact I think I have fallen inlove with him, now the problem
we work in the same company, both of us have agreed that we will keep it quite. but it is killing me, i dont know how to act around him. we kiss alot around the office when nobody is looking. what should i do? weekends are great, i either go to his place or he comes to my place . weekdays we are strangers around our colleuges. help me please

2007-12-04 21:52:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 21:51:11 · 35 answers · asked by babu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Many times, if some guy has a girl sitting behind him in his bike or next to him in his car, he will be driving dangerously; Overspeeding, changing lanes at will, honking more and loud. My question is do girls like it and encourage it? And those who don’t like it, do you ever tell your guys to behave when they do such a thing?

I personally try to drive more safely when I am with a loved one, so this behavior puzzles me

2007-12-04 21:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by Gulab 6 in Singles & Dating