Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

Okay, I'm dating a guy, have been for about two weeks now. Our first date was very serious, and things have deepened since then. I really like him, I can see us being together for a while and all that jazz. But, in a week he has a friend coming out from the USA to here (Australia) whom he likes, and he intends to spend six days with this guy who likes him back. The guy I'm dating also has an older friend who likes him, and he told me that they recently had sexual relations, and that he may be travelling abroad with him next year.
This guy told me he could see us in a relationship soon and if we do start one, it'll be the first for both of us. But. What do I do about this American friend and other older guy? I mean, if he really likes me he wouldn't be doing things with them, would he? He seems to like them too, but we're dating and all, and we established that we're going to be monogamous.
I mean, should we start a relationship, or should I stop before I get hurt? Will I? Help please

2007-12-04 17:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by Jay Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

i have seen tips up on tips. on how to meet women in the right places. but my problem is i am always metting beautiful women in the wrong places. when they are busy going about there business and when they are on the train and it just kilss me that a handsome guy like me making so many beautiful women slip away can anyone givee me tips on talking to them would it be weird if i past them a note i have bad hand writting what if i type them and have an extra copy please give me any advice you have call me wierd call me desperate i don't blame you. i have so much love in side i want to show it to a woman

2007-12-04 17:48:38 · 2 answers · asked by mr MAN 1 in Singles & Dating

I never have sex...why does he get frustrated? I dont get it.

2007-12-04 17:48:19 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago and I want to get back but he doesn’t want. I love him, I can’t let him go. I want him back in my life. How can I get him back in my life? What should I do?

2007-12-04 17:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by May L 1 in Singles & Dating

I support gay marriage only if the two chicks are hot, period.

2007-12-04 17:44:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not meaning to offend, pls.
I just think that indians are very good looking, what are your thoughts?

2007-12-04 17:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you don't know what it is, this is the definition of it:

a form of marriage where a person has more than one spouse at the same time.

are you for it or against it? why?

2007-12-04 17:36:13 · 19 answers · asked by alb_spec 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is most cost effective? Make your stance for either side!

2007-12-04 17:34:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever felt at the mercy of someone, like it is not in you to say no if the situation comes up? Well have you? Can some 'chemistry' be so strong?

2007-12-04 17:32:43 · 1 answers · asked by highthoughts 4 in Singles & Dating

Please help me here. I am struggling to keep alive right now. I tried to commit suicide a few months ago and those feelings are lingering and worse. First, my mother, she is driving me insanse..most negative person you would meet always convincing in her secretive ways that my husband doesnt love me, wants divorce, and is messing around. I have an autistic son 12 who has not a clue whats up but I protect him the best I can from it. My husband always thinks I cheat on him, etc. but I have done of the following. I take off hours at a time to be alone and cry to myself as I am not one to do it in public or let anyone see me like this. My hubby lost his job recent and its been stressful and he has made me juggle everything. Its hard for me as I am on disablity with advanced lupus and the pain is unreal. My group of freinds left me right when I went through the suicidal thing because one mad up a lie about me and the others believed. The one I thought would never leave me has now

2007-12-04 17:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband has 2 kids from a previous marriage. He would like to gain sole custody, but still let their mom see them from time to time, but no over night stays. Reasons: #1 Her last live in boyfriend was a registered sex offender. #2 She smokes marijuana and cigarettes heavily in the house with the kids #3 Received a call from son's teacher yesterday, saying that he is going to be held back in 3rd for the 2nd time if he doesn't start turning in homework. When my husband asked mom about it she said that she's doing all that she can. #4 Mom allows kids to roam unsupervised AFTER DARK through the apartment complex,which is located in a very bad area. My husband called the other day to talk to the kids at 6:30 at night, which half an hour past dark. Long story short, mom was freaking out because when she walked out to the playground give daughter the phone she was gone.She was across the street at a park.She is 6yrs old. (My husband and I have both witnessed these things) Please help.

2007-12-04 17:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Fire Side Water Side 1 in Family

Ok, so your parent fills out a sheet for if they get sick you can do euthanasia..my dad is the first person for his dad then his siblings..is it wrong for me to ask him not to put me on it when he fills out his? I'm going to tell my mom that too, beecause I know I will be the first on her list..

do you want to be on a loved ones list for this?

2007-12-04 17:26:53 · 2 answers · asked by kikeish 1 in Family

This question is especially for women, but I will ask the men too. My husband and I eat out often. We usually sit in a booth and if we sit on the same side of the booth, he will make me sit in the inside and he'll sit on the outside. He's the same way with a table. He has to be on the left side, in the left chair, at all times. He feels that it's gay for the man to be on the inside.

What's up with that?

2007-12-04 17:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle moved my dad & I about an hour an a half away from my hometown to be closer to our family. A huge reason that was discussed to why we moved was to help my dad's drinking problem. This took place 1 year and 4 months ago. I saved my uncles life 4 thanksgiving's ago from an overdose of heroin. Little did I know my uncle still is an addict. Not a heavy user like everyday but here an there. Any use of heroin is too much. My dad and uncle aren't only brother's but bestfriends they are both aware of one another's addictions an continue's to hide it for eachother. My uncle promised me a year an four months ago (thinking he was sober himself) that he would get my dad into treatment an everything would be ok. I have a person in my life right now who is off an on seeing my uncle who understand's an is there for me to the fullest. For her own comfort I think she tells me things will be okay but deep down i don't think she knows what to do either? Any advice or help would be great!

2007-12-04 17:20:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well my mom and my sister keep arguing most of the time my sister tells my mom really mean things and my mom crys and she dosnt know what to do like right now she left to her job crying because my sister is very disrespectful so
What can i do to help my mom???

2007-12-04 17:18:43 · 4 answers · asked by =] 1 in Family

why are insecure girls extremely flirty. from my experience with women, i've noticed that extremely and very flirty girls are insecure. why is this? i mean, i think it's great and all to flirt, but to flirt constantly everytime you go out and everywhere you are ... that's just a bit extreme. normally a woman takes awhile to get ready, but i've noticed that these types of girls take longer than usual just to get ready. overall, i've noticed they're very insecure, so my question is why are insecure girls extremely flirty?

2007-12-04 17:16:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As Christmas approaches I am getting more festive and definitely feeling very naughty. I have several ideas to make sure i miss Santa's list. How about you?

2007-12-04 17:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Pumping Iron or Star Wars: Return Of The Jedi.

I

2007-12-04 17:15:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend told me she had sex with another guy, but told me two weeks later that she lied just to see how I would react. She did kiss him though, and does not deny it. I think they even dry hump. Anyways, she stopped seeing this guy. She is now my ex, and we still talk. Today we had sex, and after she told me to find a new girlfriend. She says she hates guys. I really love her. What do I do? Am I sprung? I am a good looking, charming, and sweet guy and my ex is a mean and cruel person but I like her. It's complicated. I have low confidence, it's hard for me to approach a girl. I mean I am the package baby, but the confidence stinks so bad. Dammit!

2007-12-04 17:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...lasting very long during "encounters" with my wife? If I called myself a "minute-man", I'd be lying because 60 seconds is really good for me...

Is there anything I can do to make myself last longer?

2007-12-04 17:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there was this girl called krystal whom i used to ask out 2 months ago but she said no. so then i dated my ex kathrin, who gave me the 'i need space' line but she's obviously interested in someone else.
krystal texted me a few days ago saying that if she wondered if i still did dancing and would like to go with her. we went today and she and i had a great time, she loved my jokes; and she was quite well dressed as well. and we spent a good amount of time flirting, then we went to a bar and she introduced me to some of her friends and i introduced her to some of mine. then we went back to hers, we haven't kissed yet or did anything. do u think i'm moving too slow? or do u think she's wanting something to come out of this, this is why she's not putting out so soon?
btw, it seemed as if like she was giving me little 'tests' like when we were at the bar she wanted me to ask the barman what drink was it that he was pouring at that time, what do you think she's trying to achieve with that?

2007-12-04 17:10:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this guy and i hooked up a couple of times...sober and drunk. he was clearly interested bc he usually came to see me when he should have been finishing his work. a weekend comes along, and i don't see him, plus there was a rumer that i was hooking up with another guy he's friends with. i figured he wasn't interested and ended it. on that weekend, i hooked up with the his friend that everyone thought i was hooking up with . the next night, they both find out what i did, and don't talk to me. so i talk to the first guy, and i explain what happend, and he pretends like he doesnt know. i ask him if he's still interested, and he said he feels the same way as he did when we were hooking up. but he can't promise me anything bc of he has alot of work. i asked if we could hang out soon, and he was like yes, if he finds the time.

so i see him places, but he kind of ignores me. not directly but he chooses to pretend like he doesnt see me....

is he still interested but is still bitter?

2007-12-04 17:07:29 · 3 answers · asked by kiki30 1 in Singles & Dating

He loved me and i loved him!!! he gave me everything he could possibly give. Was i right to dump the cake and give me some good advise for what to do? im the most popular girl at my school and all the guys are aftr me and i just dont feal like being in a new relationship. Im a chearleader dont i desserve to have my prince charming?

2007-12-04 17:03:57 · 33 answers · asked by i_s2_abercrombie99 1 in Singles & Dating

I went on a date and she told me i kiss weird she lost attraction after that need a kissing course

2007-12-04 17:03:22 · 3 answers · asked by Ben Z 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with this girl for about six weeks now everything is great but there is this problem, she is 17 and i am eighteen she is still in school i just graduated and i hardly ever get to see her and when i do its always for a short amount of time or to me its short two hours is the most time in a day and sometime i cant see her at all. i mean all i ask is to see her everyday, i don't know if i should continue with this and hopefully it will get better but i don't no what to do

2007-12-04 17:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by genuine 1 in Singles & Dating

3 months ago i found out that my husband's cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. ive read all their emails and saw all the phone calls on my husband's bill. husband apologizes, changed number,emails, etc. and even cursed the b*tch over the phone (the ex lives in another state, btw) so they never had sex its just a long distance relationship but still it was too much for me. i want the girl's husband to find out so she'll suffer too. i felt like she got away with it coz shes still ok with her husband after my husband dumped her and my family's the one that got affected. i want to get even but i don't know how. sometmes i just want to forget bout it but i just can't any advice?

2007-12-04 17:00:21 · 28 answers · asked by diamondgurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just really want to know opinions of males out there. Say if you really werent sure you wanted a long term relationship, would you be able to block emotions that are naturally present during sex? how do you do it? do you get uneasy? and if u feel that girl is feeling more for u than u do for her do u try to get out of relationship somehow?
I was hurt, thats all, and i just want some insight. thanx

2007-12-04 17:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sonike 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old and currently 3 months pregnant and my boyfriend is 25. My whole thing right now is that we're in a great relationship and love each but I seriously want to get married before the baby is born in may. My question is should I press the issue of marriage on him, or should I just wait and see what happens? I don't know if by me asking him why don't we get married would put any negative pressure on it?

2007-12-04 16:59:11 · 14 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My life has been full of up and down relationships and problems. I recently met up with someone that I have known my entire life, but have not seen in 15 years. We hit it off so well and have talked everyday since September. We both have so much in common, but also have so much 'baggage' that we know whatever will happen with us, will be quite some time from now. We are both single parents and know our children come first, and we refuse to bring them in the middle of a relationship. We are going to remain how we are, see eachother when time allows, and enjoy every mintue we can with eachother. The real kicker....we live 500 miles apart. Moral of the story...I am trying to find the 'perfect' song that I can listen to that kind of matches our story. I can listen to music 24/7 and feel that music really helps relax me and allows me to think. I am more of an alternative, rock, slow rock kind of girl. Love pearl jam, counting crows...I know this question is off the wall, but can anyone help

2007-12-04 16:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by the future Mrs.Dale Earnhardt Jr 1 in Singles & Dating

And she says just dress casual, should I leave any Star Wars apparel at home?

Just wondering because I got this amazing looking red and black polo with Darth Maul on it.

2007-12-04 16:51:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating