My girlfriend told me she had sex with another guy, but told me two weeks later that she lied just to see how I would react. She did kiss him though, and does not deny it. I think they even dry hump. Anyways, she stopped seeing this guy. She is now my ex, and we still talk. Today we had sex, and after she told me to find a new girlfriend. She says she hates guys. I really love her. What do I do? Am I sprung? I am a good looking, charming, and sweet guy and my ex is a mean and cruel person but I like her. It's complicated. I have low confidence, it's hard for me to approach a girl. I mean I am the package baby, but the confidence stinks so bad. Dammit!
2007-12-04 17:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you feel for her, she will know it and use it against you. You need to take your power back by completely removing her from your life and thoughts. Think about other girls you are hot for when she is around or comes to mind.
2007-12-04 17:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Peter R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Daniel? Is that you?
LOL J/k
This story sounds exactly like my mean-azz sister. Her BF has the lowest of the low self esteem issues. He's a super nice guy--very quiet. But my sis is brutal to him--even in front of family!! I cannot figure out why he's still with her! (2 years now!) There's tons of sweet girls out there that are a gazillion times nicer but every weekend when I visit---there he is---still with her.
From an outsider's point of view, it's really sad.
Please don't stay with her. Every moment that you are with her, there are other opportunities passing you by.
I'd rather be happy & single than together with someone who makes life miserable. (and obviously doesn't care about your feelings---she's out humping every other boy in town---sick!)
Get an AIDS test too just in case. Also look out for cold sores. eww
2007-12-04 17:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzywiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I even have pronounced it got here approximately to me, we've been on and stale plenty then bang! Over, weeks of coronary heart soreness, her going off with no observe, i asked her if she were with yet another, she pronounced no, she could no longer do this out of self recognize/recognize for me, we've been given lower back mutually then 3 weeks into our new dating i found out that the 1st week into our injury up she had, a drunken night, he lived miles away, somebody she were in touch with for a on an identical time as, a pal, she known because it a 20 min fumble, intercourse, then for the three weeks we've been mutually nevertheless chatting with him, him asking her to come lower back up lower back, to do the flaws he had completed in the previous, i felt ill, grimy, the lies, dishonesty, now nevertheless mutually the believe has long previous, i'm getting the terrible feeling she could lower back, i even think of i dont fancy her anymore, nasty concern and only understanding what to do, nevertheless, thats existence and you're making your mattress.
2016-10-10 07:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i've said it occurred to me, we were on and off relatively a bit of then bang! Over, weeks of heart pain, her going off with no word, i requested her if she had been with an additional, she stated no, she could not do that out of self admire/respect for me, we acquired back collectively then three weeks into our new relationship i found out that the primary week into our smash up she had, a drunken night, he lived miles away, any one she had been in touch with for a even as, a buddy, she referred to as it a 20 min fumble, sex, then for the three weeks we have been collectively nonetheless speaking to him, him asking her to return up again, to do the things he had done before, i felt ill, dirty, the lies, dishonesty, now nonetheless collectively the believe has gone, i get the horrible feeling she might once more, i even suppose i dont fancy her anymore, nasty hindrance and simply understanding what to do, nonetheless, thats life and you're making your mattress.
2016-08-06 10:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games with you man. But guys usually like mean girls. that is what is keeping you interested. i would find another girl to date and see how she treats you and then chose between them or dump her now. Tell her you are through with her. it will totally make you feel good when she will still be chasing you and you are no longer interested in her.
2007-12-04 17:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by ace7star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I am a good looking, charming, and sweet guy/I have low confidence)
Contradiction much? The fact you're saying that, show's your blowing yourself up into something you clearly aren't. Charming, no, cocky. Sweet, no arrogant.
Now, onto her, she's a cheating s**t, you stupidly knowingly had sex with a cheating s**t, so I hope you used protection.
2007-12-04 17:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games, man. I get the feeling you are uncomfortable with the games she is playing. I'd recommend you get outta there and leave THAT kind of woman to the bad guys!
2007-12-04 17:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life. use the time to work on your confidence. it will be the best thing for you. that's what i had to do before i got into the relationship that i am in now. give me a buzz
2007-12-04 17:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by flavours_of_entanglement 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just leave her, you deserve much better. i have a wonderful husband that takes care of me and loves me to death : )
2007-12-04 17:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋