Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

Okay me and my husband have been together for 8 years and married 2, I stoped haveing sex because it's just not good to me anymore, and feel it's a waste of my time to have sex if I'm not even into it. My husband told me he would leave me beacuse were not having sex..married men and women what do you think about this?

2007-12-04 16:51:19 · 27 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

boyfriend is having a hard time finding jobs since he has been out of jail this year (due to record) we have looked everywhere for jobs he has filled out tonss of applications. he was hooked up at a job right now earning abt 7 per hour. He struggles with rent EVERY month but still thinks he can afford to buy useless stuff which is so ANNOYING.He HAD lots of money but manage to spend it He's the type that would buy 20,000 rims and stays in an apartment on welfare(which is STUPID) im trying to be a good girlfriend staying there for him when times are hard all that good stuff but i can't see a future with him (marriage) because of his spending habits. I seriously want my kids to enjoy the good things n life instead of seeing their parents struggle, i want to afford insurance! we are both very young (im only19 hes 22) but this is just the stuff i think about. Im serious abt my "future family"( no kids at the moment) and money. Would someone's bad money habits be a deal breaker for you??

2007-12-04 16:47:23 · 31 answers · asked by Helpkwas! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Texas and I am going through a divorce. I was looking at getting custody of both of our children when my ex dropped the bomb that she was pregnant when we got married and not by me. She actually produced the guy and we had court ordered testing done..he is her father and he has known all along. My daughter is now living with her mother and won't even talk to me stating I am not her father she wants to find out who her father is and get to know him. I have my son and we will be going to court soon to finish everything. I just would like to know what court prcedences have been set in situations like this one. I think someone owes me 14 years of back child support since I provided 100 percent of the support since she was born!

2007-12-04 16:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by Eric F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was notified that my dad died on Thanksgiving. I have not been in his life for 6 yrs, but I have tried numerous times to contact him. I wrote him a letter in early Nov. but never mailed it, so now I have to live with that regret for the rest of my life. Dad was struggling with lung cancer when his home caught fire on Thanksgiving, he died from smoke inhalation. Now my mother is telling me to find out if he had a will or life insurance. I'm struggling with what to do now. All I really want is a few pictures of him, but my mom says I need to get what is rightfully mine. Anyone with some advice???

2007-12-04 16:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by Angie A 1 in Family

Hes negative all the time and no matter what i do hes always pessimistic and mad. Hes angry at the world and he always keeps things to himself. He also suffers from paranoia.WHAT DO I DO>?

2007-12-04 16:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by DEE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanted to hear other people opinion about this.
Ok I have a younger sister who is 17 years old, and since me and her are the only two kids in our family we have a close connection. But being a big brother she always comes to me for advice, but the one thing that kind of bugs me is that she has a boyfriend that lives about 20 miles away in the middle of nowhere. She always drives to see him and do things with him, but as a man I always see it as the mans responsibility to go and visit the girl that your dating, instead of putting the girlfriend through a hassal. I don't see nothing wrong with a girl to come see her boyfriend every once in a while. My sister goes to see him every week and he's always putting off a excuse or doesn't want to come to see her. Doesn't it seem fair if my sister goes to drive to see him he could at lease drive and see her. Especially how gas prices are?

2007-12-04 16:44:26 · 4 answers · asked by JoeSS87 1 in Singles & Dating

He was there when I went through the hard times with my ex. He called me every day to ask if I was okay. We e-mailed all the time. He was married before, so, I presume he's more sensitive towards women. Everything is fine except that now, he's confessed to me that he likes me a lot, a lot.... He even had serious flirtings with me. I could not resist it sometimes. He said that our relationship/dealings is confined to only this because he's seeing someone else. I feel bad flirting with him because of what he told me. He shares with me his problems with his gf.... and he tells me he misses me more than he thinks he should. What do I do now?

2007-12-04 16:43:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Who do u like better the girl that is stunningly hot but a b*tch or a girl thats ordinary looking (not ugly) and has a heart of gold?
2. Is it ok for you if ur girlfriend makes the first move like hold ur hand or kiss you when you havnt done anything to her yet?
3. What is the best nickname ur girlfriend can call you?
4. Do you think girls that is 5'2 really short?
5. Do you think girls that have accent is sexy or not?

2007-12-04 16:39:56 · 22 answers · asked by Ldea_27 2 in Singles & Dating

She is in another country trying to achieve a better life for them both. He sleeps with his x girlfriend on valentines, and he says he did not want the child, but now of course he loves the child. They are still not married. Is it right (good Karma) to still love and want a man who is not married but has a child now with another woman. ??

2007-12-04 16:38:55 · 10 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is 18 years old. He wants to get married to his 15 year old girlfriend. He just proposed to her and their in love. Sexual relations aside, what will it take for them to get married in Washington State, or surrounding Northwest states?

I don't want any BS replies and answers, no calling him a pervert, or child molester. No idiot comments is all I'm saying.

Is it possible for them to get married under the law? With or without parental consent?

Now please answer my question, my question is not should they, but how can they. They don't need YOUR opinion about it, or your advice relating to shoulds, and should nots, they simply want to know if it's possible, and how it's possible.

2007-12-04 16:38:45 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. Unknown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in college but I feel like my friends don't like me...Am I just being too sensitive or something? When I call them, sometimes they don't pick up the phone...And last night, I talked to someone and he said he was at home doing something. I told him to call me back when he's finished, but he never did. So I met up with another friend and went to go to the bar, and saw him there! What is up with that?

2007-12-04 16:36:24 · 28 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Friends

2007-12-04 16:36:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, well my now fiance and I got engaged last Friday. We kept it to ourselves for the most part, for the first few days. We told just a few very close friends. Well its been 5 days and this is something extremely exciting for me, I wanted to tell the ppl I care about you know? So I kept asking my fiance, hey, when are you gonna tell your parents and my dad? And we just never had the right moment honestly. So tonight I said Brad, I really want to tell everyone. And he said ok, just do it. So I posted a bulletin on my myspace. My myspace is ONLY ppl I personally know! Well his sister saw it and called his mom, and his mom is freaking out. She was screaming crying, etc. I mean, shes upset that he didnt tell her before we got engaged. But thats our decision. Its not like we went out and got married. The wedding is well over a year away! Should we feel guilty? I mean its our choice to be engaged or not, it was going to happen anyway, talking to them or not. I feel so miserable now Should I?

2007-12-04 16:36:07 · 7 answers · asked by Mary 4 in Family

And he still lives at home, lacks a college degree, and works at 11/hr

Anyway, I guess this is mainly about the fact he's dating someone so much older. Our mom is pretty disturbed because this woman is almost her age.

2007-12-04 16:34:12 · 18 answers · asked by Summer 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well my now fiance and I got engaged last Friday. We kept it to ourselves for the most part, for the first few days. We told just a few very close friends. Well its been 5 days and this is something extremely exciting for me, I wanted to tell the ppl I care about you know? So I kept asking my fiance, hey, when are you gonna tell your parents and my dad? And we just never had the right moment honestly. So tonight I said Brad, I really want to tell everyone. And he said ok, just do it. So I posted a bulletin on my myspace. My myspace is ONLY ppl I personally know! Well his sister saw it and called his mom, and his mom is freaking out. She was screaming crying, etc. I mean, shes upset that he didnt tell her before we got engaged. But thats our decision. Its not like we went out and got married. The wedding is well over a year away! Should we feel guilty? I mean its our choice to be engaged or not, it was going to happen anyway, talking to them or not. I feel so miserable now Should I?

2007-12-04 16:34:06 · 18 answers · asked by Mary 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ilike to ask is 33 years off ageand iam 31 can she still have baby

2007-12-04 16:33:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well my now fiance and I got engaged last Friday. We kept it to ourselves for the most part, for the first few days. We told just a few very close friends. Well its been 5 days and this is something extremely exciting for me, I wanted to tell the ppl I care about you know? So I kept asking my fiance, hey, when are you gonna tell your parents and my dad? And we just never had the right moment honestly. So tonight I said Brad, I really want to tell everyone. And he said ok, just do it. So I posted a bulletin on my myspace. My myspace is ONLY ppl I personally know! Well his sister saw it and called his mom, and his mom is freaking out. She was screaming crying, etc. I mean, shes upset that he didnt tell her before we got engaged. But thats our decision. Its not like we went out and got married. The wedding is well over a year away! Should we feel guilty? I mean its our choice to be engaged or not, it was going to happen anyway, talking to them or not. I feel so miserable now Should I?

2007-12-04 16:32:28 · 34 answers · asked by Mary 4 in Weddings

I'm currently a freshman and after school today while I was talking to my friend, a guy I didn't know came behind me and smelled my hair. I didn't even notice he was there until my friend told me after he had left. He also left before I could see who he was. She said he was there for around 30 seconds and it kinda freaked me out. Now I'm worried he might have done something or put something in my hair...

Am I being paranoid or should I be worried?

2007-12-04 16:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She hangs with her "friends" every weekend which are mixed and she knows them since high school....she even went out with one a little while this summer after he hounded her and of course, he cheated on her and there goes her trust issue again. At what age do guys really start dating for serious relationships because I really don't want her to date anymore guys her own age or from her "friend family"....any suggestions? By the way, she is knock out gorgeous, size 0, going to grad school and is already a nurse with her BS so she is NOT dumb......help me out....and don't say the interns....she doesn't even talk to them at work let alone date them....

2007-12-04 16:28:14 · 2 answers · asked by mac 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband is cute and friendly. I love him but sometimes he hurts me in ways he doesn’t understand. We have been married for 20 years with three fine boys. The problem is he has been caught with other woman in ways I don't like. Women are coming on to him when I happen to be there. The thing is I am not there that much to check up on him at his work and other places he goes. For how many times I do, (20 years), I have seen things that would make most women leave. One time my husband was in a sexual position with another, and for about all the times I have visited him there was a woman in his office making the move. The thing is I know he is the instigator. He said he is just a friendly person and I know that because he has had a lot of woman all over him. Just about wherever he goes he will meet woman. He has told me a few of these ladies’ stories and what they wanted to do to him!!

2007-12-04 16:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My birthday falls right in the middle of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Every year, my family and friends use this as an excuse not to help me celebrate my birthday. Although I understand it is a busy time of year, it hurts my feelings that I get put on the back burner. I cannot remember the last time I received a birthday gift. How do I get my friends and family to understand how bad I feel when they over look my birthday?

2007-12-04 16:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by foxygoldcleo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive changed my life i used to sell drugs but not anymore. god came and got me but know i need help catching up on my support

2007-12-04 16:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend who she told told me she said this. i think the reason is because she's been hurt in the past. its been like a month since she said that and we've been going on dates and kissing at the end of the night. what does this mean?

2007-12-04 16:17:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 16:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-12-04 16:00:18 · 1 answers · asked by mimi26 1 in Singles & Dating

I married my husband 2 years ago, I am now 23. He is a very wealthy business owner and has provided me with endless opportunities. I became pregnant with his child last year and during about 6 months into the pregnancy I started having sex with my brother in law. We would take the jet down to our yacht in the Bahamas and pretty much have sex the entire way down, and the activity also accounted for a lot of time spent on the yacht. So, one day I left the baby with the nanny from japan named Suh-Muh. So my brother in law and I decided to end the affair but a few days after I started having sex with one of my husband's business partners. It's ok for me to do this though because my husband has a house in Toulouse that I'm not supposed to because he has sex with other MEN at it!! He's not gay though, trust me (just MSM, i looked it up) So, the thing is, my step daughter found out about my second affair and now makes me arrange for cocaine to be delivered to her every week. How do I

2007-12-04 16:00:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My father looks at pornographic material on the internet. REALLY BAD stuff. I am postive that it was him looking at this stuff bacause all of these bad websites are on our computer history, and I walked in on him watching this stuff once. I am disgusted by it and it makes me feel differently about my father. What should I do?
Thanks.

2007-12-04 15:57:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1.I’ve caught him staring at me.

2.I’ve noticed that every time I am leaving the roller rink he waits at the front where I am leaving and stares at me as I go past.

3.Before he asked me out he was waiting at the front as usual and I was talking to my friends dad right in front of him, when I saw him staring at me in the corner of my eye, I look and he turns away quickly.
4.He asked for my number.
5.He got his friend to ask me out.
6.We had a conversation in texts.
7.He pointed at me to one of his friends while I was looking.
8.He asked my friend if another guy asked me out... while I was on the rink.
9.He lays down in the middle of the session on the barrier and stares up at the ceiling like he is thinking about something.

Do you think he has a crush on me? He has asked me out and I don't know what to say... Please Help...

2007-12-04 15:54:37 · 19 answers · asked by m; 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. my brother is engaged to a girl. right now he is in jail. she lost her engagement ring and cant find it. if she told my brother he would get really uset. should we get her the exact same ring for christmas, (it was only $98) or dont and have my brother get upset causing the girl to get upset causing my mom to get upset which will cause ME to get upset. i dont like being upset. its not fun. please help me. im not posting this to be judged, so if ur jus gonna say somethin like "wow you rly have a screwed up family" or something, SCREW OFF.
but thanks in advance 2 ne 1 who is not rude and doesnt judge other people...

2007-12-04 15:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by Teddi 1 in Family

2007-12-04 15:51:19 · 8 answers · asked by Deflin-Girl 1 in Singles & Dating