Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

do you think we should forget our pride because too much of thinking our pride sometimes makes people think we are ego.....what is pride here meant how important it is but as not to be appeared being ego

2007-12-04 02:19:46 · 3 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 3 month's since the break up. Right now she's dating someone...should I always leave her now partner out of our conversations? Sometimes my curiousity gets the best of me and I get into asking about the person she's dating. And I always end up feeling angry and hurt. So I know it's a bad idea. But what should I do to win her back? I know she still wants me...cause she keeps calling me....a couple of week will pass and then I'll hear from her...so the interest is there. But I'm not waiting around for her....I'm dating, and having fun with my friends....but part of me wish we could get back together. So does anyone have tips on how I can do this....

2007-12-04 02:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by SunnySideUp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother has cancer and is living with me. I live in a 2 bedroom apartment with an 8 month old and an 8 year old children. There is no other room in the apartment. I am a student fulltime and work part time. My mother is enrolled with hospice. She has been getting worse for the last couple of months. She had 2 surgeries to remove some of the cancer in her liver to prolong her life but it seems to have made her worse. She can do for herself but she wont. I cant even get her to take a bath (please no ewww or make fun) I am the only child (25) and the only other family is my aunt who has a 4 bedroom house. She wont help me with finding my mom a better living enviornment. Would I be wrong to place her in an assisted living facility? I want her to live with me, but I only have a small 2 bedroom and no money to move to a bigger place. I make sure she gets her meds but thats all I can do, having 2 young kids myself. She has medicare. Is assisted living the best, or will I be wrong to do this

2007-12-04 02:17:12 · 27 answers · asked by lwomar 5 in Family

do guys like girls who talk alot?
Because when i'm around this one guy at work i can't shut up!
I need advice!!!!!
please.

2007-12-04 02:15:45 · 39 answers · asked by christina j 1 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend and I have been fighting because his ex calls him at late hours of the night (1-3am) and i told him i don't really like that and he got upset and said "well she is just a friend. I always stay friends with my exes....and i am not going to turn my back on her" so I was ok with that, didn't really like it but I accepted it, but the thing i have a problem with is her calling at the times she does... so of course I'm going to tell him but all we do is fight about it because he doesn't understand where I am coming from... do you think I am in the wrong for getting upset about how late she is calling him and what not? what should I do? because he always sticks up for her... I am so confused.

2007-12-04 02:13:22 · 31 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have always been a successfull person who has a lot of friends and influence. I have used my influence to help friends when they are in need. Like giving them jobs or even taking them in when things weren't going so well for them. Now the shoes on the other foot and things aren't going so great for me. I'm still doing OK but none of my friends who are all doing great seem to want anything to do with me. They are aware of my situation and I'm not looking for anything just a phone call and maybe grab a beer or lunch with them. My father says that's how life is but is that just a pessimistic outlook?

2007-12-04 02:12:11 · 43 answers · asked by JK 2 in Friends

My husband and I got married in March when he was home on leave and we were planning on having a wedding reception at the end of December to celebrate with family and friends that couldn't be there for our wedding. (it was only a small ceromony) Well there has been a alot of conflict and clashing between our mother's personalities so we have decided to call it off, it's not worth all of the fighting back and forth so now I need to write a cancelation letter to inform all of our guest but I do not know where to begin. How do I keep it short and sweet and to the point with out too much info. I need to get these out ASAP!!! Thank you for your help.

2007-12-04 02:11:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I want to know what men find as a a turn off in the bedroom. What about a woman would make you never want to have sex with her again?

2007-12-04 02:10:32 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

If you're a teacher, perhaps your students could participate?


In recent years, my parents health (esp. my mother) has deteriorated. I recently moved 600 miles closer just to be with them. I fear this may be the last Christmas for one or both of them. They really LOVE Christmas cards! As I was rummaging through the attic to retrieve their Christmas decorations, I found Christmas cards they had received from 30 years ago. They throw NONE away. I was trying to think of something really special to do for them for Christmas and I came up with this idea. If you have the Christmas spirit, and want to do something nice for someone (who doesn't?) - please take the time to send my parent's a Christmas card. Christmas was always a magical time of year for our family and I truly want to make this magical for the both of them. Please! God Bless You and I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas.

Address is as follows:
Donald and Betty Coleman
704 Seattle Drive
Lexington Kentucky 40503


Please forward this to all your family/friends/coworkers.
God Bless!!!

2007-12-04 02:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by Sammy C 1 in Family

I have had numerous sexual encounters and been married 2 times. I think I would have been really disappointed if I had waited for sex with a partner who I found out after the veyr 1st time was inexperienced, had a small penis or immature sexually.
A friend of mine is getting married in June to a really nice guy, but I keep telling her she needs to have sex before marriage. She is holding off because he wants to, but I wonder if he is hiding something like maybe a small penis or who knows what. She has had sex before and I know she will not be happy if she finds out he has some issues there. What do you think? She has never felt or seen his thing before.
If you waited, were you satisfied, disappointed, surprised? Did it feel ok or did you feel like you needed to get a divorce the 1st time? I cannot imagine doing it the very 1st time on my marriage nite.

2007-12-04 02:06:09 · 17 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We are planning on getting married in the Spring at the Hershey Hotel in PA ,did anyone got married there? attended a wedding there? any other suggestions around the central PA area?

2007-12-04 02:04:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend got locked up in feb and I wanna know should I stay with him, we have been together for 4 years. I dont no if he is writting other females and he hasn't wrote me in a month. Is he talking to someone else and over me or what?he asked me to marry him 2 months ago should i say yes? I really love him though.!

2007-12-04 02:02:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is paying for our wedding and honeymoon and she wants to ride in the limo (that she's paying for), along with some other people of my family, with me and my new husband while we go to the airport (45 minutes away) to go to our honeymoon. What would your thoughts be if your mom told you that's what she wanted to do? Cause my thinking is we just got married (which is a symbolization of growing up, leaving the nest, being without your parents) we would want to be alone. But she is paying for it and I don't want to be rude but I don't think going to our honeymoon is a "family event". But she thinks it would be fun. I know "do what you want to do" and all that but what would YOU do if your mom wanted to ride along?

2007-12-04 02:02:16 · 41 answers · asked by KittyKitty 2 in Weddings

A man promised to marry me,if I could come to him every month and sign PNA for marriage.I kept my promise. I did it for a year,went from full time to part time job and lost my benefits and went to see him every month.
After signing PNA he refused to marry me. I suffered $10,000,loss because of keeping the promise (his condition for marriage)+mental trauma. Can I file a case against him?

2007-12-04 02:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Amina L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day my boyfriend (who's an army recruiter) told me about a training conference he had to go to for a whole weekend and had to wear his dress uniform. Then the next day he says its a ball but its mostly training and he is dreading having to go. It sounded as if he was trying to hide that it was a ball and I got upset and questioned him on it. He explained and said he wouldnt go if he didnt have to and I gave him the silent treatment and the doubting "uh hum" like I didnt believe him. The next day he sent me text first thing in the morning and asked me if I trusted him and said he cant stand to be checked up on and if i felt that way i shouldnt pursue this relationship and that his exwife did that to him and he wouldnt let it get out of control like that again and he will not be put in check . Is what I did that bad? Isnt he going overboard with the defensiveness. I havent responded to any of the texts yet because I'm upset that he said that and want to calm down first.

2007-12-04 02:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 01:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by Jackie F 1 in Weddings

From a survey done recently about 46% people had pre-marital sex relationship. what u think about it?

2007-12-04 01:58:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my bf the ***** that he is broke up with me over text!
I mean how lameeeee
I hated him and everything, and i didnt even cry when he said it
Actually i laughed....
Because he has no courage to at least call me or say it to my face!
Guys are such....Jerk offs
Not all of them, just most
Sometimes i wish he was dead but other times i just wanted him to hold me!
He said that he didnt want to hurt me because we were
apart so much, I think that hes just afraid of commitment
I mean he was a horable bf, never listened to me, never just held me and said he loved me, hardly talked to me, ignored my feelings, and other mean shyat that he would do and did.
I will get my revenge sooner or later!
I should make him feel bad or somthing
I'm not over him, But I'm not into him
I just hate to be alone, I like knowing that someone loves me
Or that i have someone to hug my tight and tell me everything will be alright!
=]
What should i do?

2007-12-04 01:57:07 · 18 answers · asked by Robin 3 in Singles & Dating

So i met a new friend online a few days ago. I logged on to a website for a local radio station and it is some what like Myspace, facebook etc. I said I was tired of the searches for new people on myspace so I am on here looking for new local friends or maybe more.

So this woman replies and said she works near where I live and that maybe I could buy her lunch or dinner one day, if you are looking for a new friend. I replied sure tell me more about you.
Well things have led to text messaging and a possibility of taking her out to dinner next week. I still have not talked to her on the phone and we only recently exchange pic over text messages. From the get go, she has been calling me sweetie and lately has turned into baby. She just text me saying "just wanted 2 let you know I am thinking of you"

She is 32 and has 3 kids (I am 27 with no kids). which I don't have a problem with but it is not what I am looking for at the moment. It is kinda of wierding me out. What do you think

2007-12-04 01:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by Flipper 3 in Singles & Dating

i have even online dated and met people in person and they don't like me AFTER i've told them how big i am... one guy even told me he loved me (over the phone) but when he met me he didn't say much except goodbye.....

2007-12-04 01:56:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her parents are divorced and her mother has been in drug rehab in another state.
Her father is in the hospital for a brain aneurism and is lucky to have survived. He lives approx 3 hours away.
She has many brothers and sisters, but the family seems to be scattered since her parents divorce. She just doesnt seem to have much of a family life.
I would like to do something for her nice for Christmas. Any suggestions?

2007-12-04 01:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

We have found a reception location that we LOVE, only problem is that it can only accommodate 80 people. We have 117 people on the guests list, most of whome are interstate.
Judging by cousins weddings (in my state and inviting the same interstate family) I know about 65 guests will definately come (11 of these are children, does that make a difference?) and 17 definately will not come leaving us with 35 that may go either way.
Do you think that is too many people to invite for the 80 person limit?
How many should I expect to show up out of the 35?
Do reception venues downplay their maximum capacity eg if 5 more than the limit showed up would that usually be ok?

2007-12-04 01:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Stiffler 6 in Weddings

2007-12-04 01:46:22 · 32 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. When i first met him, he was respectful, kind, thoughtful, tidy, affectionate, reserved man. He respect me as a woman, never agrued with me when we had a conflict. He was very laidback and reserved when we was together. He bought me things for the holidays and wasnt a bum, always had neat clothes on. Always was affectinate to me whenever and wherever. He was my love.. It got to the point where we was in love. Thats when he started acting different to me. I was shocked because me and him was so closed to be a family... In my eyes i thought we was gonnna make it... he stopped being faithful to me, he began puttin his friends before him, he was always busy, he stopped seein me, stop taking me out, he became mean and rude. I cried that day we split up for two hours listening to Neyo.. I dont understand what i did but he changed so bad.... and the thing bout it was he was going to be rich and take me with him and he end up changin why idk ?

2007-12-04 01:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Tasha aka Tee G 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont understand i walk through the door and she dont talk to me no one does not even my dad and i dont know why and it gets me really mad and im not going to talk to them about it casue im moving friday to my moms
what should i do?

2007-12-04 01:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by Kaylee M 1 in Family

I know that when I get married my spouse and I will feel on top of the world all the time. We will be madly in love with each other, happily together, etc..

But I've also seen and heard that a lot of couples die down in their love. (ex. old,married men going out with prostitutes or women cheating on their husbands who can never "get it up.") Is this going to happen to me? I really don't want it to, but is it just a side effect of getting old?

2007-12-04 01:41:40 · 39 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyf are really not gettin on atm, things are pretty low, yet we wont break up because something holds us together, you cant measure it, yet it is something we call love. Now its pretty strange that you'd take crap off someone that you wouldnt take off anything else because of love! I don't get it, what is it and why do we feel it? And if you let it go, will you ever feel like that again?

2007-12-04 01:39:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and i am 24

2007-12-04 01:38:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 01:35:17 · 14 answers · asked by bagels4588 1 in Weddings

This is sad but funny. She does not like me or my sister and only buys for the children she likes. She is really mean but I do not know how to react. I feel weird taking a present for my daughter but want to handle things politely without getting too involved with her. What would you do?

2007-12-04 01:33:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family