Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

my bf and I have dating for about 3 months, and having sex weekly, problem is I like to be on top, because it gives me more pleasure and allows him to suck and play with my boobs, which brings on another problem when we are having sex he goes soft on me when we use this position, is this normal. we are not that old both of was are in our 20's

2007-12-04 06:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy for about a year and a half but we've not spoken for that long either because he was put in a different class to me.
We're not in any of the same classes and I only see him around school or in the canteen.
I don't know how to approach him after all this time. We used to talk, we just haven't done for a while.
He's quiet shy and always hangs around with a group of friends.
How can I catch his attention and develop our relationship?
We're both 16.

2007-12-04 06:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy meets his ex girl friend after an year of his marriage to someone else. they both had fight as he stopped talking to her and she asked him why he stopped talking to her..he explained that his wife may not like him to be in touch with ex..and he told her that its better that she not discuss the issues abt her past because she is aware of the issues that can come up..and he said he is afraid that he may want to have sex with her.

was he emotionally attached to his ex , does he love her or the wife.

he married the other lady because of parents pressure . it was arranged marriage while his ex was his best friends for few years. they did not have sex ever..

thank you.

2007-12-04 06:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What personal qualities are important in her. Serious answers please. Thank you.

2007-12-04 06:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by forget me not 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the outgoing and very perky girl.
Just that when ever I meet a new asian guy,
I get so nervous and so shy.
It's crazy, even if there nott good looking
I like them! Is this too weird? Am I the only one
feeling this? I know I am young, but I can't help myself.
And now there's this guy, I just met him. .
And he's been on my mind since then 24/7 !
It's crazy. I have a crush on every asian guy.
It's sad . . .

2007-12-04 06:27:04 · 2 answers · asked by fatty nhu 2 in Singles & Dating

If you get married to a peron but your family is not ready to accept them at any cost, who would u choose out of the two ? You know your partner for just a year but your family for ever. And is it true that an indian parents will find a better life partner for u than u cud find for urself ?

2007-12-04 06:26:34 · 26 answers · asked by HiddenSurvival 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I suspect this girl likes me and there is a whole load of other events which add weight to my arguement. On monday at the bus stop when I came she got up and opened her body to me and was looking me like she was telling me to make a move, then today I was sitting and her body was facing me I looke at ther and she tilited her head in reconzige, does she like me?

2007-12-04 06:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by answers 1 in Singles & Dating

I certainly couldn't!

2007-12-04 06:20:42 · 44 answers · asked by Ahwell 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was married to a catholic armenian woman (church and court), he did not convert.
we are planning to get marry soon and I want to know if we can get marry by the catholic church.
Does the armenian church belongs to the catholic religion?
We are both raised catholic. Any feed back will be helpful. Thanks

2007-12-04 06:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by Incognito 1 in Weddings

You know what they say ... no man can be trusted. They all have perverted minds and desire young girls.

Women, would you honestly leave your husband alone with your own daughter?

2007-12-04 06:11:38 · 61 answers · asked by Ruby Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That I'm In Love With A Teacher, And He's In Love With Me?
(from the point of view of 16 years old ie. 5th year (in uk/scotland))

2007-12-04 06:10:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was in a 2 yr relationship with a woman who liked to hit!..sure i have a big mouth but i don't believe hitting is justified if i happen to say something that sets her off...i am a rather big person and retaliating in my opinion is not only illegal but morally wrong!!...i don't see the point hitting her back,plus i hate when she does this in front of the kids...am i wrong for leaving her???..this is like,the 5th time she's done this and i try to hang in there for the kids,but i've had enough!!am i wrong to get a lawyer and fight for custody of the kids??...

2007-12-04 06:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On who and when were they last used?

2007-12-04 06:08:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 06:06:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged, and my fiancé is wonderful. However, the whole family seems to turn a blind eye to the antic's of my bf's grandfather. He can't go ten seconds without making a disgusting joke about anything from pedophilia to incest or a sexual comment about me.
For his bday, my bf was given a book on art. The cover of the book was a painting of a naked couple in some sexual act. The first thing out of grandpa's mouth was "Hey, that's Zoe (me) and Terry! (my fiancé)".
He will point at my shirt and say "Did you spill something on your shirt? You better take it off!"
Once, me and some other family members were in grandpa's bedroom looking at a quilt, and when my bf walked in, grandpa said "Look Terry, I already got her in my bedroom! I didn't even have to ask!"
I'm not prude, but I've had enough. These comments gross me out and make me uncomfortable. I am not prepared to confront grandpa directly.
Am I out of line in saying that I will not attend any events at which he is present?

2007-12-04 06:05:09 · 10 answers · asked by Zoe 6 in Family

and the worst part was, i cheated on him and left him to marry my husband.. we were arguing at the time i met my now-husband now but we were able to patch things up afterwards... my husband had no idea i was engaged and very much still in a relationship with my ex (i told him i have broken up with my ex already) so he courted me and we fell in love and had sex... i was a virgin that time.. we went out on vacation for 1 week and told my ex to not call me or send me text for a week cuz i will be traveling to faraway town and there will be no signal.. so the day my vacation has ended with my now -husband or exactly a week after, my ex called me and told me how much he misses me but then i knew i had to break it up with him that day cuz i feel so horrible cheating and lying on him much longer and i knew deep inside me that i love the new guy much more than i did love my ex.. he was miserable and kept asking me back, I also never told him i got married a month after I dumped him, should I?

2007-12-04 06:04:19 · 17 answers · asked by M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is 59 years old. We have been married for 28 years. Over this period of time I have noticed that he seems to have a special affection for one of my niece's. She just turned 50 in November. Whenever a special occasion come up when all family is gathered or if we should happen to go into the store where she works he seems to be a bit on edge. At one time I had suspected that something was or had gone on between them. I have mentioned it to him on several occasions. This last weekend we attended a family gathering. At the end of the evening when she and her husband were leaving she came over to give me a hug as usual, when she went to hug him, it appeared to be more than just a casual hug. It was very noticable. I warned him tha the next time it happened that I would make it known to her and her husband plus he would regret that it happened. Question: What should I do about this problem.

2007-12-04 06:01:44 · 15 answers · asked by Marny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please comment. In my experience, yes.

2007-12-04 06:00:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 06:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok let me add that ... We are VERY sexually active (like daily)..I am always open to try new things. I am very attractive and a professional -so I know that it's not me. I'm not a prude or anything like that. So I don't understand why the secrecy??? And when I caught him last night -he was mad at me, he yelled at me and was very defensive. That's why I believe there's more to it...That's why I am pissed off and want to leave him. So now what advice can u give me???

2007-12-04 05:58:43 · 43 answers · asked by sushi girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 05:57:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever loaned money to a man or woman you loved but then they broke your heart and didtn't pay you back? In other words, have you ever been used in this fashion? Do you know someone who has? How did you/they handle it?

2007-12-04 05:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is getting married in the new year (new years day actually) however, she's going out of the country to get married (india) so all her cousins won't be able to attend the wedding. However in my culture it is custom for the bride's sisters and cousisn to make fun of the groom and vice versa. Since i can't go i'm looking to make a gag gift thats filled with a lot of funny things that we can give the groom...ie. the perfect husbands guide to marriage....or fake candy with humerous labless (oh horny....instead of oh henry..) ....stuff like that...we already have a leash.... and also if you have any idea's that include babies as well....like a diaper.....(they are planning on getting pregnant right after they get married)....Anything will help

2007-12-04 05:55:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was engaged 3 years ago but decided to call off the engagement when I found out my fiance was involved in criminal activities. When he found out he became very angry and beat and raped me (taking my virginity) and resulting in a pregnancy. Since I could not have an abortion I gave birth to the child and then he was adopted by a relative.

Now recently I recieved a marriage proposal from another man, who is Sikh, he knows I was engaged before... but he does not know that the bastard raped me. I care about this man very much and I believe that honesty and trust is a crucial foundation for any marriage to work successfully... so naturally I feel compelled to tell him-- and sooner that later-- but I am worried that once he knows he may see me as worthless or less of a woman since I am no longer a virgin or worse-- not want to marry me.

What are you opinions and views on this situation? Any thoughts are greatly appreciated. Thank you?

2007-12-04 05:55:02 · 10 answers · asked by Soleil Aditi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my mom is going away this weekend about one hour away and so is my brother like an hour and a half away. And I dont live with anyone else. Im thinking about have a couple ppl over for a party.. not really a party cos there wouldnt be a lot of people maybe like 8 or ten. But i wanna know is this a bad idea? I really wanna do it and i have before but i gor caught because my brother wasnt out of town and he was at his friends house and forgot something and had to come home to get something and when he got there he saw an empty beer can. But i denyed it all. Anyways any suggestions ?

oh yea im not staying at my moms the whole weekend.. ill be at my dads and ill tell him im going to a friends when really im going to stay at my moms.
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how about if i jus have one guy friend over is that better?

2007-12-04 05:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there this guy whos girlfriend just broke up with him and now hes keep kidding himself she likes him still. but i know she doesnt..... how do i tell him that and tell him why (hes is too needy) without crushing him....

2007-12-04 05:49:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 05:47:47 · 34 answers · asked by FV 2 in Family

Well, I have and it was the one person I looked up to, the one person I saw as my father.( My Uncle) He betrayed me by making me stay with him not because he loved like his daughter, like I thought, but because he wanted the house my mother left me in Mexico. I found out one night When I heard him talking to one of my sisters (MY SISTER) telling her that as soon as he could he would go to Mexico and put that house under his name and then send me to foster care. I mean can you belive that? I didnt AT FIRST

2007-12-04 05:47:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went out on a first date and when I picked her up I really had to go. She was very nice about it and let me in.

But I plugged up the toilet and there was nothing I could do to fix it.... so I left it.

The date went really well but now she won't take my calls for a second date. What can I do?

2007-12-04 05:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am making a cd and my best freind's mom gave me a hundred dollars to help out. i said thank you like, at least 3 times. should i still give a thank you card? im not reallly sure.

2007-12-04 05:46:16 · 39 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Friends