Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

2007-12-04 03:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by Camy 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if it's stange or not but I really like checking myself out naked.

Do you?
Are you a guy or girl?

I'm a guy here.


just a curious question


I mean I'm in front of a mirror far less than most girls making themselves beautiful, putting on their face but...

2007-12-04 03:31:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there any such thing as true love and how do you tell if it is true, and not just being afraid of being alone. if you have a story about rue love do you mind sharing it, maybe i can tell from yours if mines true love or not. thanks

2007-12-04 03:31:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up two year's ago and I still love her...How do I make her tell me the ture feeling's for me?

2007-12-04 03:29:51 · 11 answers · asked by Andy L 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, how'd things turn out?

2007-12-04 03:25:43 · 17 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband has made no contact with our children since November of 2004. He has not made any effort to visit them or contact them in any way.
I have remarried, and my husband wants to adopt the children, and the children want him to be their REAL father, not just their step-father.
I am not even sure of where my ex is living now...it has been a long period of time since I had any contact with him. My husband and I have remained listed in the phone book (yes, he knows our names) and he know where we live...I have done this in case he wishes to contact the children. I have done everything that I can to insure that he is able to maintain contact with them but he has not. He has not sent a letter, a Christmas or birthday card, not made a phone call to the children since 2004. What can I do to terminate his parental rights and enable my husband to adopt them?
We live in Minnesota, and my ex's last known location was in PA.

2007-12-04 03:24:40 · 24 answers · asked by Kahlan4767 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 03:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by Soo In 1 in Singles & Dating

that your parents gave you as a child...
and what did you do to deserve it??

2007-12-04 03:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I have a 13 month old who has been attached to me since he was born. It seems like me, Daddy and Grandpa are his favorite people. But yesterday I got home from work and gave him a big hug and kiss hello as always, he gave me a smile and then cried and reached his arms out for the nanny. I was immediately heartbroken. Not only was he not so thrilled to see me, but he didn't even want me at all! He wanted the nanny! I know I should be happy that he loves her, but I'm so sad! I'm Mommy! I'm supposed to be number 1! =(

2007-12-04 03:14:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother left me and my sister about 9 months ago. She pretty much emotionally scarred me for life. She left her kids for drugs and a bunch of other stuff. She hasnt talked to me in months. Now all of a sudden she wants to come back into my life and be the mother that she will never be.....I cant even talk to her without crying because she hurt me so bad....I dont know if i should let her try to be a mom to me or should i just keep living my life without her?

2007-12-04 03:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been living together in Alabama for the last year. Soon I will be moving out and getting an apartment of my own and, of course I will need furniture. However, my boyfriend intends on keeping the furniture that we each paid 50/50 for! I can understand this to a point considering some of the stuff thats happened between us, but I REALLY want the entertainment center we bought! He knows this and when I asked him what I'd have to give him for it, he said $500! **We only paid $150 for it!!** It's a super nice hand made solid oak entertainment center with bookcases and everything -- something of equal value would probably cost upwards of $700. My question is: Is there anything I can do to keep it in my possession? (I mean, short of keeping the apartment key and going back and taking it when he's not there...)

2007-12-04 03:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by acousticity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My so called friends are being very two face right now because they think I'm talking mess about them behind their back.....should i let it go......or should i wait for them to tell me somthing about it

2007-12-04 03:08:34 · 15 answers · asked by Karizma 2 in Friends

We get along really well and be together for almost 2 years. We just married 3 months ago. He does has financial problem. He has really bad credit, don't have any credit card. His job is really bad, at 40 he's still working at the gas station at $8.50 an hour. He got fired a year ago after he met me. I stood on his side until now. I support him financially sometime. I provide the home for us to live. I paid all the bill in the house. Last weekend, we go drinking in the bar. We haven't done this long time. I didn't have much $ at that time so I borrow some cash from him. Anyway, when we went to the other bar, I did use my credit card to pay for both of our drink. This morning, he said I owe him money. I'm so mad. What about whever I paid for him in another bar? He said I'm drunk and I don't remember. I know what I'm doing and I didn't get drunk untill I don't remember how much I spent. I never counted every single cent he owe me but I can't believe he did that do me. I'm really sad.

2007-12-04 03:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by Penny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm honestly a normal girl, im attractive and in shape, but i go to a small art school in a large city, (philadelphia) and am finding it hard to make a solid group of friends who want to go out and have a good time. my friends at school are ok, but none of them ever want to be bothered to do anything, or dont live close to me, as most of us dont drive, or are busy. how would i go about finding friends who want to go to shows, bars, movies, dinners, etc. im not really the party type which is a problem, im content to sit inside and draw, read and watch movies. but i do love going out. i have awesome friends in virginia, but i live in pa, so ! haha. what can i do? i kinda want a job, but its really hard being in school and working. i barely finish my projects now. so that might be out of the question.

2007-12-04 03:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by outofmyhead 1 in Singles & Dating

sister inlaw, grand mother, Teacher,volunteer, friend,and the list goes on.....and you are?

2007-12-04 03:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by Sugar 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single mom with 2 boys, Ive got a great face and smile I am an average built person, who lives life to the fullest, and doesn't drink at all... By my own choice, I prefer not doing the bar scene been there done that never again Thank You its worse then High School...... I am 31 Brown hair/eyes, I am a real outgoing outdoor type of girl I am country all the way I can bait my own hook while out and about fishing.. So why not me?????

2007-12-04 03:00:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the hotel that we reserved for our out of town guests has a shuttle available.

the wedding ceremony starts at 4:30 and the reception ends at 9:30 and the hotel is 11 minutes away from the venue.

what time should I have the shuttle leave the hotel and venue? how early should guests arrive and should I just have the shuttle pick them up at the end, 9:30?

2007-12-04 02:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

"so you are doing aerobics after working all day hop you are paying tax on it? & congratulations on letting your husband out Saturday Night he is looking more fit now than when he was 30. The next time I see him out I'm going out of my way to shag the pants of him and haven't failed in doing that You see i've got a body to die for and I can use it you see I don't like you"

We have checked all our phone records and cant match the phone number - and get no answer when trying to call it - Worth noting I am an aerobics instructor (all taxes fully paid) - with my own body to die for!! My husband and my relationship is quite rocky as it as - this really doesn't help - He has had anonymous letters in the past about my fidelity !! which came from a source very close to home - I am getting really paranoid and considering everyone around me including HIM ! as he has done similar in the past - I am going mad

2007-12-04 02:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by k 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance, whom I dated for more than 4 years broke up with me in June, 5 days before our wedding, I thought we had an AMAZING RELATIONSHIP and would do anything for her. Needless to say I was completely and utterly devastated. She told me she needs to find herlsef and her individuality. I miss her more than words and it is now December. I have only heard from her once when she returned the ring. My mother almost had a nervous breakdown when she found out what happened., I have been pretty depressed. I have been seeing a therapist ,which helps me. How do try to move on, I have been trying to keep myself very busy.

2007-12-04 02:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my 14th year of my second marriage and My wife and I argue about her son constantly to the Point of separation and POSSIBLE DIVORCE!! My Step son is almost 20 years old and still lives at home. His Mom thinks he can do No wrong. I raised my 3 kids much differently. My step son Works and makes as much money as My Wife and Myself individually. He will Not do any Chores around the House. She Lets him come and go without Curfew or Answering for Himself as to his wear abouts. He doesnt contribute to the Family Financially. He has his MOM do his Laundry. He Has his Mom buy his Food even for his Work Lunches. His Room is always the Pits. Mom Cleans his Bathroom also. I try to make him be more responsible for his self and his Actions and My Wife Jumps to his defense Saying Hes Still Young and Needs to live a little!! Or she will say Im not goping to make him do Chores or even pick Up after Himself HE MIGHT MOVE OUT!!! Any Suggestions??? Im 49 Years old My wife is 42 Years old!!!!

2007-12-04 02:50:07 · 5 answers · asked by Ed P 7 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is an idiot My granddaughter is smarter then he is and she's only four Half of my family can't even stay in the same room with him.Keeping my mouth shut is not going to happen and yes my daughter knows how I feel.

2007-12-04 02:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am havin a hard time thiking what to say to my mom. i already have a family of my own, my husband works abroad. but these times have been too hard to me (financially speaking) and my husband's and my salary is currently not enough for our bills and other needs. i have two kids and no matter what i do to cut off expenses, it is still not enuf. i wanted to ask mom to lend me some money. i have already asked her once and she did lend me, and i haven't paid her yet. should i ask her to? and what is the best way to ask her if i should. thanks.

2007-12-04 02:38:09 · 3 answers · asked by neLLy 2 in Family

My boyfriend of 6 yrs had to go to a concert to watch his son last weekend. We go everywhere together except for this. The kids mother called with 1 ticket and only 1. He said she bought 20 tickets and only had 1 left for him.
I think she did it deliberately because she is so jealous of me.
His 2 adult kids from a previous marriage went, and it was just like old times except I wasnt there. Is it me or was she being a manipulative old heffer again? He said she wouldnt do that, but she did, so who is it me or is he giving her too much credit. She has done things like this before.

2007-12-04 02:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

My husband's cousin and his fiance called yesterday to let us know that they are getting married on Saturday and to invite us to their wedding. It's going to be immediate family and close friends only. My husband and his cousing are very close. I'm also helping the bride to get everything ready on the big day. They had a baby in March so when we got married in April, they came to the wedding, but said that they couldn't afford to get us a gift. We were both just glad that they came. This time, we don't have the extra money to buy them a gift on such short notice especially right at Christmas time. Under these circumstances, is it wrong not to buy the couple a gift? Thanks for your input. The reason they moved the wedding date up is actually because they are expecting another baby.

2007-12-04 02:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

do you think ;she will have the will power . not too open them;before the big day .i don.t belive she will .

2007-12-04 02:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got a king bed and i still cannot sleep in the same room at night with him, the snoring is unlike anything I've ever heard before. He goes to bed incredibley late and gets up early. I require more than 5 hours of sleep a night. It's been 5 months and I feel like I'm about to die and my eyes are turning black and purple underneath. I've been trying to sleep in the spare bedroom but he seems offened. I don't want to ruin our marriage but I can't get no sleep then work all day and come home and not be able to sleep at all. Any advice? I've tried ear plugs, my ipod etc. nothing helps.

2007-12-04 02:29:23 · 20 answers · asked by This Jersey Girl ♥♥♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband pushed me into the wall where I end up with 4 staples to my head. My thing is it still bother me even though it happened 14 months ago. I don't know if he will do it again even though he said he never will.

2007-12-04 02:24:27 · 10 answers · asked by jc g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Currently filing for divorce after 14+ years of marriage. Children have been living with in constant redicule and tension for several years, as well as my self. Husband and oldest son almost got into a fist fight and that was my final straw for filing for divorce. Husband is ADD, works constant, gives orders to all, short tempered, alcoholic with some good nuturing advice for keeping the kids in line. What he portrays outside of the home and what he is like in the home are two totally different people. Husband is always right. Now the ball is in motion, counselng is being saute for all (not for keeping marriage) and kids have been appointed a law guardian because husband is contesting divorce on moral grounds (a real laugh). Husband belittles me, my family and calls us names in anger (and has been agressive towards me). Says that I am incapable of managing with out him. Kids believe various things their father has said. Tired of defending myself, comments welcome.

2007-12-04 02:23:52 · 5 answers · asked by lanabee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guy friend. We have been emailing each other for the past 4 months. My husband used to be abusive and never really acknowledged me before he found out about my friend. My question is should it mean anything now that he changed because of that or do you think that he will change into his old ways after awhile. My husband treats me like a queen now but why did it take for me to find a friend for him to do that?

2007-12-04 02:21:47 · 5 answers · asked by jc g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hate the thought of feeling sorry for myself & find it near impossible to tell others how I feel so I'm going to write on here.I'm 24 FM, used to model, used to be addicted to cocaine, used to have an eating disorder & have been in two bad relationships. I am now with a guy I used to think loved me for me & thought he & I would make an excellent team but now I just feel hurt all the time & cry as I write this!I don't like myself much mainly for all the wrong decisions I've made in the past. My bf often reminds me of these things when we argue & I probably deserve it but I would love to beable to love myself again.I hate feeling so bad, I feel bad for all the people I've hurt & always feel v bad when my bf ~& I argue for hurting him.He makes me feel (not on purpose) so insecue by saying about other girls being hot, telling me I've made plenty of mistakes and asking me to kiss his gf when he's drunk.He's real popular & I think maybe I should just try get along & bow down.

2007-12-04 02:20:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating