Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is FLIRTING with you? Also guys how do you flirt with girls?

2007-12-04 07:58:21 · 2 answers · asked by eye~candy~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-04 07:56:56 · 18 answers · asked by jw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend suggested we do it some time, she used to be bi..and she said she loved the feel of pantyhose against pantyhose, hiking up her girlfriends skirts, sliding against each other, she wants me to pick out hose, heels, short little skirts, and play dress up..should I go for it?

2007-12-04 07:55:37 · 25 answers · asked by blythkd 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 07:52:22 · 20 answers · asked by luvgiraffes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've contacted the courts and their judges only do weddings at the court house, we want to be married but can't do so in the Catholic church at this time and don't want to be married by another minister. I've tried online and in the phone book and no luck, the courts couldn't tell me of anyone either. Do I have any other options besides having a friend ordained?

2007-12-04 07:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by L H 4 in Weddings

I am 18 years old, currently single but awhile back i got out of a 1.5 year relationship and before that i got out of a 1 year. When i was with a girl and i had problems i would always go talk to my friends that are girls just cuz they knew what was going on and were easier to talk to than my guy friends, they constantly reminded me that they wish they could find a guy like me and that i am a total sweetheart and great bf and that it is crazy for her (gf at the time) to treat me the way she does. I just dont understand, if i am such a great bf why do my gf's not appreciate it and take advantage of me? Am i not good enough? Were my friends just telling me that to cheer me up or did they mean it do you think? I just want to find a cool girl who wants and will appreciate getting treated the way a gf should, where are you at? If you would like to add me to messenger its jasonohall@yahoo.com.......Is it something i am doing that they take advantage of me or what is going on here?

2007-12-04 07:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it bad that I am always with my boyfriend.. does he need his space? Its really hard for me to just back off, but we are always fighting and hes always complaining that he never sees his friends.. I want him to want to see me just as much as he wants to see them.. so what should I do?

2007-12-04 07:47:52 · 32 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is how it goes. he ask if anyone want to join the sundays game and i said i don't because i'm always busy on sundays private things. then he said then i'll reduce your time in pplaying the normal games by a lot. therefore i hate him so much. i'm a pretty good player on my team. i'm so pissed off at him what should i do if he doesn't listen to my reason. how should i get revenge on him. i want to make his life miserable but how like are there any tricks to him thx

2007-12-04 07:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Friends

my wife and i slept with another woman together now she wants to be best friends with her and i dont think it is a good idea of course we have had some problems after with her getting jealous i cant even talk to the other woman now because my wife thinks im going to cheat on her any advice please i have had to piss her off so she wont even try talking to me to try to save our marriage

2007-12-04 07:43:03 · 36 answers · asked by crazyman6677 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my last few relationships are just making me wanna barf right now!
I am a very sexual person I have had problems with being told I want it too much
I am very honest and speak what is on my mind, I have been told I am too honest
I expect my man to be affectionate, I am too needy
I expect my man to love my kids and treat them with respect but also accept that they have a father, I am told I am wrong for being friends with their father
WTF I am SO about to give up on men!!!!! Anyone else feel like this?

I mean I know I am very beautiful I respect who I am with I can cook good I am a good lover and a good mom again WTF

2007-12-04 07:42:59 · 10 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Singles & Dating

So i met the greatest guy in the world, he treasts me and gives me everything a girl could want. I like him alot but i still think about my ex. We broke up 3 months ago and when i see him around i still get butterflies in my stomach. I still care for him but there is no use, I wan't to move on, really bad!! My ex and I will never be so why do i still think about him. Why can't i settle for the guy i met?

2007-12-04 07:40:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Fiance and I are struggling for money and we really need to get our credit scores up. So how can we do this with very little money. We have debt that we are TRYING to pay off but it just seems like something new keeps coming up that costs us money. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Our lease is up in March also and we don't know if we should renew the lease (which the price will go up and we're not sure if we can afford it) or should we move to another apartment in another county where the rent is cheaper. If we move then we both would have to find new jobs. It's so hectic, please help.

2007-12-04 07:38:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

really trying to find a cheap spot to go to in georgia, and also get my marriage license too this will be my first time doing this so i really dont know about this.

2007-12-04 07:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by K-DUB 1 in Weddings

We had a healthy romantic relationship but we were sexually incompatible. I wanted it a lot more than she did and to be honest I am a lot kinkier than she was willing to play along with. So it didn't work out but we remained friends. She's bisexual and she ended up meeting this great guy and marrying him.

I have a bad habit of spoiling my girlfriends with physical affection and romantic intamacy. As time gone by I notice she's leaning on me more and more for her emotional needs. I told her this is equivalant to having an emotional affair but she says we are just friends. She's deathly scared of losing me so anytime I bring the subject up she totally flips out and warns me that she'll be really hurt. I tell her she has to trust her husband and depend on him more but she says he's just not that kind of guy. I am at my wits end? Should I just end my friendship? I am scared it will hurt her relationship even more.

2007-12-04 07:36:48 · 9 answers · asked by Nikky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have 4 kids and going am getting a divrouce its my decision. My husband makes about 3800 month. I am trying to keep this out of the courts and we are being sibile. He has agreed on taking the kids everyother weekend. I do not work but am looking for work now. I just want what's fair I do not want to take everything from him. But even now he has not made the morgage like he said he would do. What do I do?? I'm scared that I will get kicked out of this house. HE keeps lying to me. After agreeing to pay the morgage that's all I asked from him right now.

2007-12-04 07:35:55 · 15 answers · asked by ஐ♥Bethஐ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm really stuck! I keep having really emtional times, where i just start crying for no reason. Somtimes i get kinda angry too, and i have a go at people for the stupidist things! I keep rowing with my mum alot lately and i really dont want to fall out with her agen. I don't know why i get so upset. Is it because i miss my dad so much? Or Because I keep all my emtions inside me and dont tell anyone?
x

2007-12-04 07:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like what turns you off the most?
Either personality or look wiseee....
doesn't matter.

All opinions are welcome =]
Thanks much♥

2007-12-04 07:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been dating for a year and a half now. We started dating my senior year of highschool (well the second half) We're both 18 and both of our parent taught us well. I promise we aren't two stupid teens lol. But the other day he was taking to me about christmas presents and showed me a pcture of a ring. EEK! when i read the add it said wedding ring! So that was pretty much his way of asking me to marry him. I made sure that i wasn't just assuming.Though I didn't turn him down, i didnt say yes either. He even showed both our parents before showing me. They didn't really think of it as a huge thing, just a ring, and it would be a nice gift. My mom even suggested getting matching rings and then when we get married that we should get something engraved. My question is though i am planning to wait quite some time before such a huge commitment, how young is TOO young to get married? I dont want to say yes and spring for a chapel asap, but i dont want to wait 20 more yrs either.

2007-12-04 07:30:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy 6 months ago and I’m starting to have very strong feelings for him. I am the quiet type and he actually met me while I was studying in the library. We have been on several dates and I’m always at his apartment helping him clean, cook and just hanging out. When his father died (3 weeks ago) I was the girl he called to come over to his house so that he would have a shoulder to cry on. I do so much for him I can’t even begin to list them all. The problem is there are so many girls who like him. He has so many girls’ numbers to the point he has to have two cell phones. One for family and close friends (me), and the other for his 300 plus female friends. Whenever we go out, his (female friends) cell phone is constantly ringing. I can’t exactly get mad because we aren’t a couple, well not yet. He wants to start a relationship and he tells me I’m the only girl he “really” cares about, but how do I start a relationship with a guy who has sooo many female “friends”? Please help me out. What can I tell him?

2007-12-04 07:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My only brother is getting married in a few months and I am trying to think of a good gift to get him. I am an unemployed college student so I don't have much money. I am hoping to find work soon and what I am thinking about giving him $1000 cash. Is cash too impersonal? My brother just bought a house and I think he is planning on taking a trip to Hawaii after the wedding so I am sure he could use the money. Also I am going to be best man at the wedding. We really don't know many people in this area so I doubt we will have much if any kind of a bachelor party (I really don't think he is expecting a party) so I want to make up for that with his gift. I am currently working on getting my pilots license so I would also like to take them on a trip some where maybe a few months after the wedding.

So is $1000 cash and a trip somewhere a good gift? Can anyone suggest a better gift?

thanks

2007-12-04 07:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by jon 3 in Weddings

This past weekend I suggested we visit my fiancé's sister who's living in another state. We decided to leave a day early because there was a snow storm coming and we had to drive home. The next day she sent my fiancé a scathing email accusing us of being too good for their hospitality. Even worse, she insinuated that I control him and that he has completely changed since we've been together! This came as a complete shock to me because it's totally untrue and I never realized until now that she hates me!

My fiancé and I are both totally hurt by her comments. Since the holidays are coming up, I'm going to have to face her in a couple of weeks and I don't know what to say. On top of that I asked her to be my bridesmaid for our upcoming wedding. Has anyone ever had a situation like this? I want to let her know that it's wrong of her to try to damage my relationship with my fiancé and his family, but I don't want to add fuel to her fire either. What should I do? Please help!

2007-12-04 07:28:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister in law has been living with and dating a guy for 5 years now. She has a child from another marriage and one with this guy. He is an alcoholic. For the past 5 years his drinking has steadily increased, also causing my sister in law to drink more than she should be. Over the past year things have really gone down hill. It reminds me of my life growing up. My step dad was a drunk too. Her bf has not been going to work, drinking more, becoming verbally abusive towards her and although she says it hasnt happened, I have heard of even some physical violence between them. Her oldest child is scared of her boyfriend. He has a lot of emotional problems, and behavior issues. I know the things that alcoholics do to maniuplate the ones they are with. The promising a change, the things will get better saying.. all of that. What i want is some true stories, if you are willing to share, some stories of how and why you finally had to leave the situation so I can show her some truths.

2007-12-04 07:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who loves their husband like I love mine?

It is intense and consistent. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world.

Anyone else???

2007-12-04 07:26:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife denies having an affair. All her friends are male and she never has time to talk to me due to working or being "BUSY" yet she has her cell phone glued to her ear all day. Last month alone she racked up 60 calls to 1 person for a total of 99 hours. I know it is wrong to snoop but if it walks like a duck & talks like a duck it must be a duck.
I found email that were of the phone sex nature which she claims were just innocent fun. I found an unopened box of condoms in her drawer that she was "keeping for a friend"who left it in her car. We have not had sex in months & are basically room mates.
I know the answer to my question but just wanted some verification to see if I am paranoid or correct.

And yes I can b serious about this 1

2007-12-04 07:26:27 · 22 answers · asked by U can't b serious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband expects me to just let him have intercourse when he is ready. No kissing, no foreplay nothing. It wasn't always like this. We used to have a great sex life, but for the last year or so, it's been like this and I feel completely used. What do you think? He says he likes it that way.

2007-12-04 07:24:58 · 24 answers · asked by swoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

describe the perfect body
(women's body lol)
girls can answer too
say what you think the ideal body is
AND WHY!

2007-12-04 07:23:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thought of not getting to have foreplay and sex in Heaven like what I'm able to do right now scares me.

"No foreplay and sex in Heaven" scares the hell out of me.


I better enjoy it NOW, don't you agree?

2007-12-04 07:22:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no clue what to do any suggestions?

2007-12-04 07:20:23 · 2 answers · asked by Alanna J 1 in Family

I have been with my fiancée for 5 years. We have a very good relationship. He has always had good manners and good morals. He has never given me reason NOT to trust him.
We have never had any relationship issues at all until this year. Last January, I was feeling uneasy and could not shake a very strange feeling. After some searching, I found out he had a profile on a dating site before we got together. Every now and then, he was getting emails titled " new matches"-he never bothered to delete the profile. One day, "bored at home" he opened one of the emails with the so called "matches". He retrieved his password and wrote to one of them. Now, this girl was a fair bit younger, very attractive and listed as a "car model". She had a pictures which in my opinion were almost "too good". The message wasn't sexual, but flirty and hurt alot. I confronted him and after denying it, he confessed.He allowed me to look through anything i wanted to prove it was just a moment of stupidity. Since then we have bought a house and got engaged. I thought i was okay, but as the day is getting close (5 months) I find myself still worried. He is very excited and is looking forward to the wedding. I on the other had go through phases where i am upset and worried all over again. I am unsure if it is just insecurities kicking in, cold feet or something else? I am quite intuitive and am often sure of my feelings... but this has me messed up! Another point to mention is that during this time, my father because terminally ill with cancer and passed away recently (my fiancée by the way was with me the entire time and really was a huge help to me and my family). Could this have something to do with the way i am feeling? For whatever reason, i am having a really hard time believing that people can be truly sorry for their actions and NOT repeat their mistakes. Is this just silly? Is this a red light that i have trust issues in general.. or am i onto something?

2007-12-04 07:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Spring 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy and i have been togather for almost 2 years we used to have sex all the time but now it has changed we both are in the mood sometimes but not all i think i am more then him now when we are done he gets up and sometimes says are you happy now or how was is somthing like that then goes out and smokes a ciggarett or whatever he is large and sometimes will say that he wasn't even hard but he came he says he forced himself to come and he could have kept going the other day he said baby it aint you i am just not happy with how i loook right now but i don't belive him i think he is loosing intest in me but at the same time he calls me before work during work and after work we must talk about 5 hrs per day if we are not togather i am trippen help

2007-12-04 07:18:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating