Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

one of them goes to my school, talks to me in school and over msn, and hes really nice and we get along well.. he always insults me, but in a playful way.., he play fights alot with me and other girls...

then theres another guy, he went to my school last yr, but then moved to a different school this yr,, i contacted him over msn, and he always calls me sexy and asks me wut colour my bra is and random jokes and stuff.. and im starting to like him as well because he is really funny

i dont know which one?? helppp?
(we r all single, no complications)

2007-12-04 05:45:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 05:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-04 05:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by *stacie* 2 in Singles & Dating

I applied for child care assistance and was denied. I dont make enough to afford a regular daycare and the home daycare's are a mess. They are unreliable, they do more of their own stuff than watch my son. I'm a single mom, I make barely enough to get by but not enough to move forward in life. I want to go back to school, I want to get a car, I want to have everything my son needs without scrapping around for the cash. I have seriously considered quitting my job to stay at home with my son and take assistance for everything. I hate to live off the state when i am more than capable of earning an income but I am starting to feel like that might be the only option to keep my sanity. Does anyone have any good advise for me? thanks for reading.

2007-12-04 05:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by Miss mama 2 in Family

2007-12-04 05:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is something I just noticed the other day , but it has happened a few times before with different girls , when we are talking she will take her lipcolor gloss stick thing out of her purse and do her lips..What the hell is that all about? It doesen't bother me it just made me wonder why now , what triggered something in their brain to make them think to do it at that moment????

2007-12-04 05:39:46 · 66 answers · asked by Confused 6 in Singles & Dating

1) I am a Christain who is now friends with a girl who is Jewish.
I was heading home with my friend after volleyball practice. We were just having a good time when a couple of other girls walking in front of us turned around and spat "Jew!" and a couple other names at my friend. These girls are on the volleyball team too and have been avoiding me ever since I've hung out with this new girl. I didn't really pay attention to it though. I never knew that she was Jewish, not that it matters. Anyway, I was shocked. I have a temper but I'm not one to act it out, so it surprised the girl (who called my friend that) when I punched her. It surprised me too but I was pissed. My friend was on the verge of tears and I was frick'n pissed. What right did they have to say that? None! I thought we were over the who's who and who's what. Now, out of curiosity, how do you think I handled the situation? I probably could have done it better but I will never regret what I did.what the world has come to?

2007-12-04 05:39:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-04 05:38:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is in 2009. The venue and most things are booked. For number reasons we need to know who roughly can attend and who can't soon.

Is there cards you can send to let people know they are invited in advance, so they can book time off/holidays to come or they can write back saying they won't make it.

We don't want to send proper invites until nearer the time.

2007-12-04 05:37:44 · 24 answers · asked by David D 1 in Weddings

2007-12-04 05:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by tames_fish 1 in Singles & Dating

what initially attracts u to a guy u have never seen before?
Also after meeting a guy what makes you attracted to him even more?

2007-12-04 05:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there is this guy I've liked for years. There is a defininte attraction..he told me once. The thing is he lives in another state as his family moved after we met. Sometimes, we flirt..very subtly. He wants to come see me on next long wknd and thats good but he never asks me if I'm dating anyone and this makes me worried. He mentioned one girl he was meeting to go to a party with and I asked if it was a girlfriend and he said no, she is a friend. I'm thinking if he was having something with her, he probably would not have not mentioned it at all as it might stop his chances with me? One time we got together and kissed and he got very quiet. Do you think these are signs of attraction? he is not a shy person generally.

2007-12-04 05:36:17 · 9 answers · asked by profe 1 in Singles & Dating

My situation: I had our 1st baby in May. DH and I took baby to grandma's house (stroller ride) everyday during the summer b/c our horses were at grandma's house, and we needed to care for the horses. We live only a 5 min walk away from Grandma's. Every time we went to the farm, I'd say hi to Grandma. Grandma had a diaper changing station in her livingroom, and I used it almost daily b/c baby would fill her diaper almost everytime we went to Grandma's.

Mid Sept, grandma commented to me that I needed to not come over as much; she was seeing too much of me. The comment was hurtful, but perhaps necessary. I have quit going over to Grandma's and I have been very resentful about it b/c I am hurt by the comment.

What hurts me the most is that Grandma (m-i-l) goes to my s-i-l's numerous times, and Grandma hasn't been to our house once since mid Sept. BTW, my sil lives close to Grandma's as well. She has two boys (6 &10).

Grandma sees our baby occassionally, but I have...

2007-12-04 05:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by Sylves 3 in Family

we just don't get along. i even moved away. and we just don't talk to each other any more. help

2007-12-04 05:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by SunnyDays 1 in Family

We don't speak to my husbands family because they say they hate me. They made my first pregnancy very hard and pulled my husband away all the time. I spent it by myself most of the time because we lived 2 hours away from my family. We live now near my folks and away from his parents and he doesn't speak to them anymore. I just don't know what my family would think since we are only 22 and have only been married for 2 years. We are currently staying with my parents to get some money saved up to buy a home and I also don't know if now is the time to get pregnant. Help!!! Thanks all,

2007-12-04 05:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by nikkistoyz 1 in Family

I cant stop thinking about him I mean it. why???????????????????
what is he thinking about ...then I feel I might yell at him if I ever do met up with him...I won't.. mabey...i won't ...I ain't going to cry not infront of him...lol .I am getting so use to having you guys up there that I it doesnt seem that you are so when you do stop can you tell me because that would be funny but not to funny I would hate to laugh at real news if u know what i mean

2007-12-04 05:31:23 · 1 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Singles & Dating

I walked in on my sister having sex. I am 14 and she is 16. I don't know what to do. I have always been the good, nice girl and I don't want to get my sister in trouble, but I think my mom should really know. I'm so confused. Can someone help me?

2007-12-04 05:29:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Our venue requires business causual for our rehearsal as they may have other events going on at that time, but we arent having a formal dinner, just parents and those in the wedding party (very few) coming back to our house for a nice casual dinner. I want to stand out as the bride, how do I do this if everyone else is dressed up as well? And I dont want to go over the top because the dinner afterwards is very casual and relaxed. Also, Im assuming I should wear something somewhat comfortable as the wedding is the next day... any suggestions? Oh and it will be February. Thanks so much!

2007-12-04 05:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I told him i didn't want a boyfriend and stopped at things SOON before it got "serious". We weren't even dating, just hanging out. My reasons for not wanting to be in a relationship has nothing to do w. the person - it's just something i'm going through in my life right now. He said he understood but his actions contradicted what he said.

I hung out w. him yet resisted to be physical (I didn't wanna just abruptly ignore him, slowly avoid him). He would tempt me and stupid me fell for it a few times and I finally stopped and said, "that's it' and he got mad. He blamed me for everything despite the fact i warned him and established what i had wanted. It's like he listened but didn't get it. He thought the fact that he kept pursuing me against my wishes showed how much he loved and cared for me

what do you think?

2007-12-04 05:29:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so last time I said how l like the RA. And this past week, I accidently cut myself, so I had to go over for a band-aid. He gave it to me and we talked for a bit. Then two days later, aka last night; I had to print an essay that's not due in two more days.I ran out of ink and I could've gone buy some to the store but I was too lazy and the weather isn't exactly inviting. So I went over again and asked if he would mind if I printed something. Since his computer wouldn't work, I had to use his roomates. When I went back to his side of the room, he had already put my stuff on a table that was on the way out. Is this like a sign, of yo get out of here now?? I don't want to be too annoying...

2007-12-04 05:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by rockgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got drunk a week ago together at home. This is RARE - first time in a few years. We had a funny, clumsy, but terribly honest 3-hour conversation with each other about things. We could truly see into the deepest regions of eachother's soul. I know this can be a bit scary sometimes for both people, but we enjoyed completely.

How does this work out for you?

Oh and yeah it ended with a whole lot of good sex.

2007-12-04 05:27:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is 17 with a 5 month old baby. Her husband just kicked them out of the house, leaving them homeless. I don't have the money to get her here but she said something about a shelter for single teen moms? Does anyone know about this place? Any help will be appreciated. She lives in Tampa, FL.

2007-12-04 05:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by Momma Jette 4 in Family

2007-12-04 05:21:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you get engaged, obviously you wear the engagement ring, once you are married and get your wedding band/ring do you stop wearing the engagement ring or do you wear them both?

2007-12-04 05:21:19 · 28 answers · asked by cutchiesgirl 1 in Weddings

2007-12-04 05:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by sophie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 05:16:43 · 10 answers · asked by Shary 6 in Weddings

My son came home yesterday and told us that some kids on the bus were saying that there is no Santa. He said yes there is because on my presents it says from Santa, and they of course said Parents just write that on there. I know he'll have to find out sooner or later but I don't want to take that from him yet. santa is not what Christmas is about in our house. We definatelly celebrate the Birth of our Savior but, Santa is so much fun to do with the kids and see their little faces light up when somehting is from Him or when we track him on the computer. However, i'm feeling really guilty because just he night before we talked about how Mommy and Daddy tell him the truth about stuff, even Big stuff and explain it to him so he'll understand instead of hiding things and cushioning everything the way some parents do, and he said that's why i like yall so much.......What to do? Ugh!!!!!! I also have a 5 yr old daughter and am afraid that he will share this info with her as well

2007-12-04 05:13:35 · 22 answers · asked by HisPrincess 4 in Family

My friend was going through my other friends comments, and she saw a mean comment i sent about her. I feel really bad, and i dont want her to be mad at me! what should i do!?! i dont want to go to school tomrrow because I have all my classes with her. =[! HELP ME!!

2007-12-04 05:12:13 · 11 answers · asked by dsfas 1 in Friends

Been married for 16yrs, have 2 kids. One is grown and moved out. She wants to start her own business and I work nights till 10 pm. Our schedules are opposite. Recently she has been so involved with her business we have not had time to be intimate with one another. I love her still. This is from a man's perspecitive, and yes I do help out around the house to keep it going while we are in this time of change. Any advice to help get us in the bed would greatly be appreciated. Thank you.

2007-12-04 05:10:24 · 36 answers · asked by meiyotora 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i wana ask my crush to stay with me after school to "help my homework"....i need to call him but dunno how to do it without making myself look like a stalker....

2007-12-04 05:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating