My husband pushed me into the wall where I end up with 4 staples to my head. My thing is it still bother me even though it happened 14 months ago. I don't know if he will do it again even though he said he never will.
2007-12-04 02:24:27 · 10 answers · asked by jc g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave its the best for you. Its just like cheating if he did it once he will do it again (Not saying your man did). So its better to leave now than hang around to see if he dose it again. love isn't suppose to hurt. Is it?
2007-12-04 02:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Aikalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time any man puts is hands on you is a sign that you need to get out of the relationship. In most cases domestic violence starts off like this. I think that there is a very high chance that your husband could push you or hit you again. Maybe you should try taking selfdefense and talk with your husband one more time.
2007-12-04 02:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forgive him if the two of you are resolving what happened to a verbal promise of not doing it again.
What happened 14 months ago obviously had some deep rooted issues. Unless those issues are brought up and dealt with going forward, you will never trust him.
Trust and honesty are the foundations of marriage.
2007-12-04 02:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened, what was the situation, there are always 2 sides to every story. If it was 14 months ago and im sure you have had some arguments since then and nothing has happened i would say he really felt remose and wont do it again. I wish you luck.
2007-12-04 02:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he said he never will do it again, but what else is he going to say? Is he going to tell you to brace yourself & i'll break your arm next week? I don't know what angered him to hurt you but My husband has never touched me and I can be a real pain in the a$$ . If you love him enough to stick it out stay but just be careful. And if he showed the smallest sign of being abusive to me again I would leave.
2007-12-04 02:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by MmMoore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing to get past but if you forgive him then you can move on. Forgiveness doesn't mean what he did to you was alright or that you will forget. It's a gift you give to yourself so you can move on with your life. He doesn't have to be in your life for you to move on.
2007-12-04 02:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is abuse. Has he pursued anger management counseling? Marriage Counseling? I would insist on those things. Has he done anything (even minor) since then?
2007-12-04 02:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by JLM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rule goes you are suppose to forgive but you never forget
2007-12-04 02:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't until he was out of my life...and even then you never forget.
2007-12-04 02:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm pretty sure he said he will "never hurt you" before you got married?
2007-12-04 02:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by compradore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋