Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

i work at target and there is a new girl who works in the clothing department. i'm really attracted to her in a physical way, she's not ridiculously hot, but she's cute, or gorgeous you could say. i am friends with most girls in clothing, but she is new so i haven't really gotten to say much of anything but hi, who are you. i am really interested in asking her on a date, but i don't know exactly how i should handle the situation. how would you guys recomend asking her out on a date, or even just to hang out after work?

2007-12-04 04:29:59 · 8 answers · asked by Sean R 1 in Singles & Dating

last nite but he still hasnt done it yet. He said he was last nite and was going to come and drop all my sh!t off but he never did.

does that mean he doesnt really want to or does it mean that he doesnt care anymore and will do it when he feels like it?

hes so stupid.

2007-12-04 04:29:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her idea not mine. But we both uses out the word um thinking of the next question. what were some you got asked

2007-12-04 04:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by ronnie s 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a have my thoughts and have already heard a few reasons but i read another question on here and it made me think of this.

alot of times men dont mind being the other man. its like if you keep giving me the sex i want i'm cool.

would you or would you not be okay with being the other woman? i mean its not a secret. he told you up front he was with someone. what are you looking to benefit from being with an already involved man? i mean is it, as long as he fullfills certain needs of yours (sexual, financial, etc) do you even care if he goes home to another woman?

2007-12-04 04:25:38 · 35 answers · asked by cuffem916 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-04 04:25:18 · 4 answers · asked by NiGhTmArE 1 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend and i have been to gether for 3 in a half mouths and he is tellin me he loves me and i dont know how to tell him i am not ready to let him ............

2007-12-04 04:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by connie w 1 in Singles & Dating

More and nmore often I am seeing married women not wear their wedding rings. They either wear nothing or another piece of jewelry. Can anyone, especially a woman explain this trend?

2007-12-04 04:21:38 · 35 answers · asked by byrnechas 2 in Weddings

Would just like to ask......and if she`s sensitive, then would it lead to love. Like RECIPROCAL LOVE????

2007-12-04 04:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 32 and never get to spend time with my mom. She spends plently of time with my brother who lives there, and my sister who just moved out after living there about 2 years. I have a 19 month old and a baby on the way. I'm sick of waiting for her to be a good grandmother and mom. I've seen her one on one for two days out of the last year. (She lives in the same town as me). If I don't go out of my way, she would never make the effort. And talking to her isn't going to get me anywhere. Would you ditch your mom in this situation? I come from a single parent home.

2007-12-04 04:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by Sweetness 6 in Family

i feel like my mates leve me out a lot they all seam close and go to parties together while im left at home also i knopw this sounds realy bad but i went on there bebo sites and there was no pics of me or even a metion they only come to me if they want something or if i follow then i have no other freinds in college what should i do i feel soo lonely

2007-12-04 04:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by James S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 04:18:53 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyf was with his ex for 3 years and they split up 4 years ago. Him, his best friend and best friend's girlfriend Cath are all still good friends with the ex and apparently Cath said to the ex that she really wanted to hate me the first time she met me but actually I'm alright (the ex told me this and also told me Cath isn't a very nice person) I'm pretty annoyed about the whole thing but my boyfriend says I'm stupid to be annoyed, would you be?

2007-12-04 04:11:00 · 29 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the top 10 ways to get a guy to notice you with out haveing sex with him.. im not the type of girl who does things like that so.. its a littel hard and im only asking bc im trying to get a guy to notice me and i have no clue how to do it i tried asking my mom but she gave me stupid advice so if u people could help then ya thanks:-)

2007-12-04 04:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Singles & Dating

About 4 months a go my cousin asked if he could borrow some money from me. He asked for $300. He said that he would pay it back to me with in 2 months. I gave him the $300, but he hasn't given me any of the money back. I'm 20 years old, & I recently enlisted in the United States Army. I've decided that as soon as I leave for basic training I'm just not going to see or speak to him any more. I'm going to pretend that he isn't a member of my family. Do you think I'm making the right decision?

2007-12-04 04:08:03 · 17 answers · asked by James 3 in Family

like it burned your buthole when it comes out? how do you avoid this?

2007-12-04 04:01:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl, i know for 3 months only as friends, called me and asked me if i can come with her to her parents house for christmas 200 miles away,

1- is she feeling lonely and want to show up to her family with a guy
2- does she has feelings for me

2007-12-04 03:59:02 · 29 answers · asked by ilovelife 4 in Singles & Dating

Or do you take "spousal maintenance" (aka alimony) from a man?

2007-12-04 03:58:53 · 21 answers · asked by Yaakov 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I've been with my bf for 10 months now we're both 24 and I love him so much. He asked my dad for permission to propose to me and was turned down . My dad said we'll have to talk to our daughter and we'll get back to you. Well 2 1/2 weeks later my bf asked him what he decided and yet again he said all this crap.
So later that night my parents came to talk to me about this. They are SO against this because he is a sick person he has really low blood pressure from a diease called POTS and just recently has gotten a good job that he can work. My parents are having a cow about this. They think he'll never get better and I'll be stuck in a crappy marriage and be taking care of him for ever. I know in my heart that its not going to be that way since we've been together he's getting better and our prayers have been answered. My parents still wont except this. He makes me so happy and I love him so much and I've told them this over and over and now they have my whole family and even some of

2007-12-04 03:58:42 · 32 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Weddings

Ok, It's been 2 weeks since my daughter sent me the nasty E-mail telling me I am not the gramma she thought I would be, she had disowned me, telling me not to call until I was preparred to spend more time with my grandchildren, of whom I did see at least twice a week, I work and take care of my Mother of 88, I love my children and grandchildren but only have so much time left after all of my daily duties and responsibilities.
Any way she finally called me to say that the baby has pnemonia and the 4 year old has a cold and she thought I should know! There was no mention of the hurtful letter she had sent me and no apology.
I love my daughter and miss my grandchildren, but feel that she should at least say sorry Mom I had a bad day and my hormones are out of wack (she is pregnant also)

I am still sick over the whole thing and I don't know what to do, I feel she has no respect for me and I am afraid she will hurt me even more.
I am so upset, I need some advice on what to do?

2007-12-04 03:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by Minustone 2 in Family

2007-12-04 03:53:26 · 34 answers · asked by Pitstop!! 4 in Singles & Dating

im so worried!! she told me this morning to take the keys and i said ok but why and she said dont worry ill be back before you get home. i came back from school over an hour ago and she still hasnt came back from wherever she is? i havnt seen her since this morning and im really worried! i think she has her cell phone with her but i dont know her number!?

2007-12-04 03:52:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My son was taken by child protective services last month when my wife attempted suicide. The child was placed in the care of my wifes mother, and I was not permitted to see him. Since, my wife has been released and was arrested on marijauna and cocaine charges. She is out on bail and living with her parents. The judge issued a no contact order against her, so she is not allowed to have contact with me. Because she is living in the same home as my son, I have not been able to have contact with him. I would like to file for divorce and get a custody order giving me visitation… or at least get temporary visitation through the court or child protective services. I am disabled and do not have the financial means to hire an attorney or even pay the court costs. My family has offered to help me, but I would have to move to Washington, yet I fear if I do so, I may never see my son again. I live in fulton county, OH.. is there any help out there?

2007-12-04 03:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by Cbauer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I been talking, and even more 2 this guy. He likes me, and I like him yesterday I got mad at him 4 a comment he said, and he said I shouldn't get mad 4 that. Because I'm not his women, and he isn't my man, and I understand that Then he said I still his baby wht type of stuff is that. But I feel like he don't have 2 always bring it up in my face. Then he said I'm making it a big issue about the entire thing but I think I'm not. But 2 day he said he still feel the same way 4 me but I'm not his women.

2007-12-04 03:51:47 · 2 answers · asked by citythang20 1 in Singles & Dating

well I have a brother... who dont want to work at all
he is 36yr old now, married with one boy and girl, but doesnt work, earn money, my mom gets pension he lives on it

he is an electritian, drinks, smokes, spents lavishly other's money, has got good relations with local people, into politics, helps people a lot, kind hearted, very religious...

I am worried about him, I want him to work and earn for the family, what he will do when my old mom dies? why should he live on someone else charity?

I advised him, argued with him, gave money to him for business, but all are in vain.. can any one help how can I make him want to work and earn?

2007-12-04 03:51:39 · 31 answers · asked by Buddy 2 in Family

uhh
idont understand guys
1. they talk to you for a bit then after they dont talk to you anymore its like they just use you. ijust want a guy i can trust and wont remind me like all the ohers
:(

2. i tend to lose friends easily i need a good way to keep my friends without losing them

3. to get along with my dad more he gets mad when i dont call him but i dont like the phone but i still txt him?

2007-12-04 03:50:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We were together, I broke up with him, and now I'm trying to get back together, but he's telling me I need to really show him how much I care about him. What should I do?

2007-12-04 03:48:38 · 8 answers · asked by travizwebb 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is an *** every other day. The other days he's perfect, and I couldn't ask for better.

I talked to a counselor that said I may have emotional needs that his type of person cannot fill.

Still we'd be on the phone, and I talked to him about how we needed to fix the problems (that I'm talking about right now), and he just wouldn't listen. I ask if he's listening and he just gets angry. He's playing on the playstation and I ask him just to give me his undivided attention for 10 minutes and he said NO. He mocks me when I'm upset, and I tell him I should have to worry about him mocking me when I'm upset and he reluctantly agrees, then 10 minutes later he's back to his *** self again. He has a horrible temper, though he's never hurt me. But emotional I get hurt everyday and sometimes he thinks about giving up because he can't stand hurting me anymore.

2007-12-04 03:44:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the thing is, my ex and i arnt supposed to be in any contact whatsoever (no emailing, phone calls, talking, etc. etc.) but my mom has granted me ONE week to talk to him at school, no outside contact at all though. i still have feelings for him but i have no idea if he still does either. when we couldnt talk he constantly kept staring at me and smiling at me and always trying to talk to me even though we cant at all! we broke up 5 months ago but havent talked in two. when i was able to talk to him yesterday, he was so happy to talk to me and started making all these plans to get together (my best friend, him and i) and also when we were walking to class, my friend was like to me "your such a whore" and then he was like to her "shes the coolest whore i know :)". my best friend and my other friend say that he recently told them he wants to get back together with me and he misses me and he still likes me. i just dunno why he wont say it to my face then... :S

2007-12-04 03:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you a tickle torture type or a playful tickling type?

Do you like to be tickled or just tickle?

Do you consider it a fetish or an interest?

2007-12-04 03:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the thing is, my ex and i arnt supposed to be in any contact whatsoever (no emailing, phone calls, talking, etc. etc.) but my mom has granted me ONE week to talk to him at school, no outside contact at all though. i still have feelings for him but i have no idea if he still does either. when we couldnt talk he constantly kept staring at me and smiling at me and always trying to talk to me even though we cant at all! we broke up 5 months ago but havent talked in two. when i was able to talk to him yesterday, he was so happy to talk to me and started making all these plans to get together (my best friend, him and i) and also when we were walking to class, my friend was like to me "your such a whore" and then he was like to her "shes the coolest whore i know :)". my best friend and my other friend say that he recently told them he wants to get back together with me and he misses me and he still likes me. i just dunno why he wont say it to my face then... :S

2007-12-04 03:35:39 · 2 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating