My bf threat'en to break up with me. ....?

Question

last nite but he still hasnt done it yet. He said he was last nite and was going to come and drop all my sh!t off but he never did.

does that mean he doesnt really want to or does it mean that he doesnt care anymore and will do it when he feels like it?

hes so stupid.

i needed help yesterday bcuz my car broke down and he never came through for me so i ended up having my boss who is a man come pick me up, so he is upset bcuz another man came and helped me. but i called my bf 10x and txt him telling him "i'm stuck can you help me" and he didnt.

Answer 1

don't stress your self out drop him turn the tables really make him think about what hes loosing

Answer 2

Maybe thats him trying to send you a signal that you are probably doing somthing wrong. Maybe you've been flirting with other guys or maybe somthing else that he may not approve off and it could be affecting your relationship. If he wanted to break up with you, he probably would've done it already. Aint no guy who wants to break up with a girl, going to tell them unless they're warning you of somthing. Plus, at the end you put "hes so stupid." So I just get the feeling that you dont really care if he does break up with you... if you really did care about the relationship then you should call him back and talk about what the "situation" may be...

Then again, he just might be tired of having you around. No offense. Guys are like that, they get bored of the same thing for a while.

So, dont be to heartbroken, you never know what he could be doing.

Answer 3

Were you in the middle of an argument? I have often felt like saying things like that when I have fought with my gf. I have never said it, but if she got me mad enough I may say it and not really mean it. You will have to talk to him about it once you two have calmed down. I don't know what to tell you about him not helping you out when you were in a pinch, even when I am mad, I will help her out, was he at work or something where he couldn't drop everything and run to your aid? Well, take what everyone here says with a grain of salt, you are going to have to talk to him directly about it. Good luck now

Answer 4

No girl he is not stupid........
You on the other hand must lack some self esteem! He told you all this and you still waiting around 2 see what he is going to do? If I were you I would tell him to drop it off & leave him alone! If he loves you why is he threating to break up with you? And the bigger question why are you letting him threating you? This is a great quote from Marilyn Monroe: "A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesnt believe, and leaves before she is left." Take it to heart!

Answer 5

Do you really need your ****, as he says? If not, tell him to throw it out. If you're fed up, wihich sounds like you are, kick his *** to the curb. He didn't have the kahuna's to give you a hand.....f$%&*ing moron.....and you! You called him 10 x's! I understand you were in a situation but come on.....10 x's? you have to learn that you must depend on yourself, if things get tough and you are unable to fend for yourself, then ask, but ask people that are dependable, not that schmuck you call a BF. This guy wants to leave you hanging on his leash for as long as he can, because you see, guys tend to do say that the relationship is over, then storm out or hang up on you, then doesn't act on his threats, he thinks he's teaching you a lesson by doing this, but in reality, he looks like an idiot, not you. Do not call him anymore, when he does, and he will, he'll act like nothing happened, or ask you if you if you've calmed down or some stupid thing like that, tell him he's a jerk and that he'd better calm down or he's the one that's going to get the boot. Use his own threats against him. Or just plain move on, forget your stuff. Good Luck

Answer 6

Ur right, he is bein stupid, but unfortunately it seems like he's jus bein a man. he's upset an prob a little hurt that it wasnt him that helped you, but f*%k him coz you tried foning him LOADS so what did he really expect you to do? what u have to remember is that men have really fragile pride an wen that's hurt they can react really childishly. He was probably angry last night an thats y he said what he did, but now that he's made that threat, my bet is that he keeps making it. if things get like this they'll become unstable and u wont know where u stand. if u love him an think ur relationship is worth it then talk to him to see if this relationship is still what he wants.

Answer 7

ok well my mom went through this and the best thing to do if he does it agian or if u get ino a fight you tell him its over and your getting your stuff know if he says he doesnt care give it a day he will call back or right when you say it he might say sorry but if he doesnt call you back in a day of you breaking up with him then he doesnt really care about you and you should just find some one new.

Answer 8

You called him for help and he ignored you? This guy is a big Jerk with a capital J. Tell him good ridance and move on! He isn't worth even a phone call to ask for your things back. If you are smart, you will ignore him completely and find yourself a guy that will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. Don't fall for any apology or plea's he may offer to try and win you back. Any guy who knows his girl is stranded and completely ignores her, will only give her more of this treatment in the future. He is a BIG LOSER!

Answer 9

He is stupid i think you shouldn't wait for him to break up with you but you take the first move. Break up with him! If my boyfriend just left me there after i asked and pleaded for him to help me get home cause my car broke down, i wouldn't have a second guess to break up. Trust me girl, he doesn't deserve you!

Answer 10

his heart is already out of the picture and if you hang on to him I'm afraid he will just treat you like dirt. Best to blow him off first and see if he realizes the mistake and comes back better behaved. Just tell him "I can tell your unsure-so we need a break,maybe in the future,if what we had is worth it we will come back together without all this uncertainty"

Answer 11

Do you want to rid yourself of him? If so, call and ask him where your **** is.

My ex used to say stuff like that all the time and in the end I had to practically peel him off my front door to get him to go.