Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

2007-12-04 07:16:10 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While I was still with my now ex we spoke about exes and we both had the same opinion about not keeping in touch with an ex when you are in a relationship unless there are ties (kids). Now I broke up with him because I was going thru life changes. the main was work. I was devasted and felt that I had to find a job so I wdnt depend on anyone. I was upst and tld him straight away how I was feeling and that I didnt want to be a burden. we did not contact each other for 6 weeks. Then I did. For 3 mths we would contact each other for a gen talk in the hope of makng it work. I eventually broke it out and told him I am settled in a new job and I still have feelings for him &that Id like to get 2gther for a coffee. He calld me and we spke about general stuff for about 10 mins then he told me he has a gf now and how gr8 his life is bla bla bla. I was devsted but had to control my emotions so i showed no emotion and just said ok. He thght I knew he was with somethru a friend. ididnt.

2007-12-04 07:15:39 · 15 answers · asked by zora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex Wrote Me A Note Telling Me Hes Still Loved Me...But Then The Next Day He Wrote My BestFreind A Note Saying He Wants To Git With Her And Have Sex With Her...I dont Know What to do... Any Advice other than get over him...cuz that isnt gonna happen any time soon...

2007-12-04 07:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by pink_is_perfect13 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for awhile and he is so sweet. I'm in love with him even though he makes me made sometimes. I'm 17 and a virgin but I'm ready to give it up, he doesn't preasure me or ask me to, but he has said he wants to be my first, and I want him to. The only problem is I'm nervous, what should I do?

2007-12-04 07:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's been a week since he contacted me, he said he needed a break because we constantly agrue all the time and he tired of all the headaches. He told me he will always love me but I drive him crazy and he needs a little space. I just want to know does time help or what is he thinking..... does he miss me as much as I miss him? I'm going crazy!

2007-12-04 07:14:06 · 24 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-04 07:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok. So my Fiance got married in a foreign country a year ago, almost. WE were in an big fight at that point, and were not together. This was NOT a planned wedding between them. They are long time friends, and were NOT thinking. They went in front of a judge and did this secretly. And, I dont know why my fiance did this, as he knows he will not be going back to this country for a long, long, long time! Anyways, we have a baby together, and are now trying to work things out, and Im TRYING to forgive him for what he has done. Its not easy. Anyways, this girl he got together with, is a total nightmare! We are ion the process of filing this divorce, but they have not talked in at least 6 months now, and I see her page on friendster.com, so I know she is still around. But I think she is still pineing for MY man. So, I want to know, should I email her and tell her off (again) and tell her that we have gotten a lawyer and are filing this divorce? Becasue she is really pissing me off.

2007-12-04 07:13:39 · 28 answers · asked by BKR 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If your long time boyfriend or husband was nuzzling, kissing and caressing your breasts?
...and why?

2007-12-04 07:12:11 · 16 answers · asked by syrious 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-04 07:11:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We live 2 hrs away from each other. . . How often should I expect to see him ? What would be the healtiest for the relationship?

2007-12-04 07:11:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm so screwed up right now. My daughter says my live in boyfriend abuses her emotionally. He is very controlling. I don't know what to do. He wants to punish her for every little thing and tries to tell me she isn't even trying just because she is your typical lazy 14 yr old. He's had something negative to say about all of my family members too. I don't know who to talk to because he's alientated everyone and I'm embarassed to talk to my family. I'm also afraid. I've mentioned that maybe he should get his own place, but he won't budge. I had conflict!! I've even talked to his brother about it. He's kinda supportive. I just don't want to bother him more.

2007-12-04 07:10:13 · 12 answers · asked by trooper 1 in Family

ATTENTION ATTORNEYS OR PARALEGALS OR EXPERIENCED PEOPLE Ok.. I may seem a bit mean HOWEVER I dont care at this point. My husband and I have been chasing down his ex-wife for the past two years to get to see his daughter and his ex-wife just makes it more complicated.. We are trying to figure out ways to keep her butt in court and make her life more difficult in anyway. Just to give an example.. SHE NEVER FOLLOWS THE COURT ORDER - HOWEVER We are stuck paying and paying and paying her. She simply does everything she can to make everything difficult.. Has anyone been through this and has any suggestions on how to LEGALLY make her life difficult.. And by legally I mean being able to really nail her to the wall with out breaking the law..

2007-12-04 07:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have a million dollars but i have some money.

2007-12-04 07:09:02 · 29 answers · asked by spyke 1 in Singles & Dating

It could be co-workers your boss tell me what you hate most about your job.

2007-12-04 07:06:46 · 34 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2 in Family

Wedding is May 31st, silver dresses for bridesaids, with royal blue accents, Thank you for your advice!

2007-12-04 07:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by Q-girl 1 in Weddings

2007-12-04 07:05:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

later apologizes..like there are times when we have arguments..not like screaming and yelling but more like talking out our feelings..usually he says to me we spoke about th is already..thats it its over with...and i am left with nothing was solved.......he tells me mean stuff and then apologizes later......he does this all the time we have aguments..and i always tell him that he hurts me so bad when eh say mean things it takes alot of energy from me..because i am not one to hurt any ones feelings.......he says he cares about and love me but when he come out his face like this it hurts me.....if someone cares why would they say mean things and later tell you dont take it personel

2007-12-04 07:00:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You went to several parties, such as, pampered chef, scrapbook, and home interior parties of a friend of yours and you spent ALOT of money, especially at the scrapbook party and then you had 1 signature home party and that friend didnt come to yours and gave you a lame excuse about not coming? Would you just ignore it or would you let them know how you feel? Do I have a right to feel used or am I being petty?

2007-12-04 06:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ang 3 in Friends

I kinda know the guy, hes my brothers best friends brother. He told me his work was having a concert and I should stop by. On Monday he stopped me in the hall and asked me why I didn't come? Was him asking me to stop by considered a date?

2007-12-04 06:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by arwww x p 1 in Singles & Dating

eg yesterday, i was your friend,
today, i'm still your friend,
don't worry about tomorow, i'll always be your friend.
that's a promise!
Friends forever*

2007-12-04 06:52:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so if there is one or the other ;wher do you think your going .

2007-12-04 06:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-04 06:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by oneakmusic 2 in Family

basically i have made a new years resolution to get over this guy ive been miserable over for long time, i kept the misery alive by having him on my bebo and myspace and daily checking his profile also waiting on i.m to see if he will talk to me he hasn't spoke to me for 2 months. we have quite a history i was the only one there 4 him through a hard time and basically got him throught it.i love him im sure and want him, but he acts like i don't exist now, so dissinterested in me. only talks to me when he has a problem or bored i think. ive tried asking for an straight answer, never got one, tried tellin him how i feel. also i have a mate if his on my i.m do i block both of them?? coz he will find out i am actually online if i still speak to his mate....i don't know, i just want my heart and self esteem to heal and get a good nites sleep. i feel he was the one for me, but he has ruined it. do i tell himim goin or let him realise it over time....prob about a year i bet?

2007-12-04 06:46:43 · 19 answers · asked by heavyheart 1 in Friends

My wife has had a history of depression and is insecure. We are getting marital counseling and she is currently on meds. Every now and then, she presents me with this scenario: "what if a women comes up to you at work and hits on you, would you tell me?" and my response is always, "of course I would tell you, but that would never happen my love". Now if this were to ever happen, why should I tell her? It's just going to drive a wedge between us. Now I am worried that if my manager decides to hire a female, I will have to keep reassuring my wife that no one compares to her. I would never do anything to hurt my wife and I want to make things work.

I need additional advice other than "get counseling" or "bring it up to your therapist". Please don't say "divorce" either because I am a good man with values. I just don't want our marriage to be torn apart for something trivial.

2007-12-04 06:42:07 · 89 answers · asked by Dr S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So my husband and I have been married now for 5years. When I met him he did not have a relationship with his mom I asked him to forgive her and get close with her again. We were married before I even knew her at a very small ceremony with a couple of friends there no parents. His mom holds this against me I mean we were married before I even met her. She says what kind of woman would marry a man without his mom there even though I didn't know her at all she carried hard feelings against me. So I just planned a huge wedding and renewed my vows to make her happy. But in all of our pictures she seems not to be smiling. We have a wonderful relationship and a beautiful daughter. She's always concerned with what people think about her not being at our first wedding. Even though all of his friends new about he and his mom's relationship. I'm just so ready to tell her I don't care anymore I don't want your acceptance and move on. What should I do?

2007-12-04 06:41:51 · 20 answers · asked by Debbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She lives over 400 miles from us and I rarely see her so I don't really know what she likes. Also how about her mother? Which of course is my step-daughter. I have no idea what to get either of them...help please.

2007-12-04 06:41:07 · 15 answers · asked by Doubtful 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together close to a year. We are very happy together and decided last night that once we get through some things that are coming up, we are going to get married. I'm thinking maybe 6 months. I don't have a ring because the conversation just happened, it wasn't planned, and he asked me if I would marry him. Of course, I said yes. Most of my family has met him and likes him, but I don't know how to tell my parents. I don't think they realize that our relationship is as serious as it is. Any tips???

2007-12-04 06:36:28 · 28 answers · asked by sweetie_cakes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex--boyfriend left me for another girl 2 months, he didn't even tell me he dumped me. I had to find out through a close source of mine. He wanted to come back. I let him come back and now he everyday we get into an argument he says I act different he swears me up and down I talk to other men. This is reall getting on my nerves. He says he is trying to make up for what he did. Why can't he trust me he cheated? can someonme help me I am really thinking about breaking up with him? How can I break up with him without feeling guilty?

2007-12-04 06:36:11 · 19 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My lover has just left me..... and it's been a couple of days..... I live in religion and spirituality, that's where we got married. Where can i find the best lawyer in Yahoo answers to get our divorced finalized? Please hurry! I want to marry my new lover the Princess in Royalty ASAP

2007-12-04 06:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What if you are scared to fight someone bigger than you what should you and what if they plan on jumping you and what if wat they want to fight you for is not anything you did or said about them wasnt true?

2007-12-04 06:34:39 · 31 answers · asked by tinkbaby24 1 in Friends