a girl, i know for 3 months only as friends, called me and asked me if i can come with her to her parents house for christmas 200 miles away,
1- is she feeling lonely and want to show up to her family with a guy
2- does she has feelings for me
2007-12-04 03:59:02 · 29 answers · asked by ilovelife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was planning to spend christmas with some friends from work who couldn't travel to their families (we only get 3 days off work)
she does not know my plans for it and she does not know any of my friends or that we only get 3 days off and that i can't go home to my family.
2007-12-04 04:13:32 · update #1
she must trust you enough to want you to come with her to meet her parents. that says a LOT.
she might have feelings for you, but it's hard to tell just from what you said. but she definitely thinks of you as a very close friend and trusts you enough to go so far away with you for such a sentimental holiday.
but on the other hand, she just might be scared to travel alone and thinks of you as a close enough friend to maybe want to travel with her.
if she's lonely AND she has feelings for you, i think she would call you a lot, not just for things like this. read up a little on body language and see if you can decipher anything from that; i think that's the best way to start to interpret what she's feeling if you're scared/nervous about asking her face to face.
2007-12-04 04:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by -Autumn in the City- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bringing you home for Christmas? Wow...that is a big step. But you can look at it as you all are great friends and she loves your company and knows that she will enjoy her time with you, and vice versa. Most girls do develop certain feelings for their guy best friends. :-)
You could always ask her why she picked you to go with her. I think it is a very sweet gesture with her asking you. And a road trip could be fun. Plus may be she doesn't want to go all that way by herself. Talk to her. It's ok you know. I know it might be hard to because you don't want her to think you're assuming one way or the other about her intentions, but at least you'll know for sure. Do you like her? For more than a friend? This could be a chance to start a new chapter in your life with her. Either just as friends, or may be asking her officially on Christmas if she'll go out with you? That would be awesome.
Best wishes to you and Merry Christmas!! :-) Have a safe trip.
2007-12-04 12:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by lady_bella 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...with the limited details you gave, this sound a bit out of the ordinary. How do you know her....are you in college and have you by chance talked about your Christmas plans with her.
I know when I was in college I invited some friends to come home with me if they were not going to be able to go home for Christmas. If this is the case, it may be that she just doesn't want to see you spend Christmas alone.
2007-12-04 12:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what a lovely thought, of her, she is a friend, and she has asked you for a family get-together at her parents for christmas, i would go, enjoy yourself, it's better than being on your own have a very merry christmas.
Please say yes, go, enjoy and have fun, if anything serious does come out of it, what a wonderful start to the forth-coming new year.
2007-12-04 12:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when someone asks you a question like that they are feeling something for you, I mean think about it would you ask me or someone you didn't like to go with you to your parents house out all the people you could have asked? This is more of a common sense thing....She likes something about you
2007-12-04 12:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks of you as a very close friend and her intentions are true to heart , but two hundred miles is a good piece away , just in-case you need a quick escape , take your own vehicle.
2007-12-04 12:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by ellimay oh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
It could be both. But the question is do YOU really feel comfortable enough with this person to go, regardless of what her intentions may be.
Better yet, why not just ask her and then make your decision.
2007-12-04 12:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Khrystygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks you're feeling lonely and wanted to do something for you... as a friend?
But I'm thinking that your numbers 1 and 2 are likely to be correct. I think you ought to have a chat with her.
2007-12-04 12:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Morey000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both she probably has been telling her parents she has a boyfriend and she likes her so this is her excuse to get close to you. Either way go and have fun
2007-12-04 12:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by MIchell G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she feel and why she invited you. Do you have family to go to? Maybe she just feel you need company as much as she does. Or she just plain like you. Just ask. Good luck
2007-12-04 12:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Narcisist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋